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Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

wil1985

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Several of you guys on this thread pointed out they prefer SBs who can host, and I agree this is my preferred route for sure. I don't mind hosting at my place but only after meeting a few times to build trust. How do you guys search by SB's who are willing to host aside from asking that in text exchanges? Their is no filter for it on SA website.
You would have to ask individually. Providers that host are pros I would say most of these 18-25 yr olds live at home/dorm/ w/ roommate. If they are able to host at that age in NYC, thats a red flag for me. The first few meets, I would meet in a neutral zone (dont get robbed). I would just book a hotel room and send them address shortly before meeting. Also when you are ready to host, I am not very trusting so I would not leave out any money/watches etc. I read some guy left his winder out and had 2 Rolexes stolen
 

Driver

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not $150 or under. No way. Just isn't. Some guys are cool with the 30/35 something "milfs" -- the thin Asian "look younger than Americans" or what not. I'm not. And I'm realistic about what getting what I want costs.[/QUOTE]

I experienced that $150 to $250 can be done. Again some of these girls that are either out of college with debt, struggling to pay rent either alone or with roommates, and especially the ones where Mom and Dad stopped giving the handouts, appreciate any help with paying bills. You can even pay the bills directly. Ages 26 -31. It helps if you do not treat the girls like escorts, engage in some conversation. There are just so many profiles on the site and very time consuming.
 

didi88

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A lot of factors come into play. I never ever bring up money. Only after she does.

$150 is difficult a cute to pretty 25 and under girl for $250 or less is doable in the suburbs of the tri-state area.
I usually don’t bring up money either, but once that backfired. I met her for the M&G without discussing money beforehand. Then she brought it up when we met and it was an amount I thought was too high. So we just parted company right there. Wasted my time. If I had discussed it before meeting, would have saved me a trip
 

Driver

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I usually don’t bring up money either, but once that backfired. I met her for the M&G without discussing money beforehand. Then she brought it up when we met and it was an amount I thought was too high. So we just parted company right there. Wasted my time. If I had discussed it before meeting, would have saved me a trip
Any of the girls that asked for a straight-up monthly allowance, I just ignored or said good luck.
 

BIGBOB62

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I might be off topic here, but has anyone used a phone app called downdating (or just down)? I'm not sure at this point if its a one time escort app, or a sugar baby site. I heard about it this morning and put it on my phone. It's somewhat tinderlike, you just flag the girls youre interested in and they contact back, i guess. I got some very nice looking girls, waiting to see whats next.

Personally i've never done a sugar daddy setup. I'm more interested in a single transaction / but longer term kind of engagement, like getting a girl for a long weekend and going somewhere. Not that we can go far these days....
 

joeymachine

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A monthly allowance may be good as it depends on the amount, quality and type of service you receive in return. Of course you never pay in advance and factor any additional costs that may be involved. I saw a woman for 6 months a number of years ago, who I saw weekly, who I met through backpage. She once asked me to pay for sessions in advance, and I would be given a discount, but I declined the offer.
 

didi88

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A monthly allowance may be good as it depends on the amount, quality and type of service you receive in return. Of course you never pay in advance and factor any additional costs that may be involved. I saw a woman for 6 months a number of years ago, who I saw weekly, who I met through backpage. She once asked me to pay for sessions in advance, and I would be given a discount, but I declined the offer.
The problem with monthly allowance is that usually you DO need to pay in advance. At that point, she has all the leverage since she already has your money. At least with PPM, you have control of the money, not her
 

Driver

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The problem with monthly allowance is that usually you DO need to pay in advance. At that point, she has all the leverage since she already has your money. At least with PPM, you have control of the money, not her
I always refer to escort Vanessa Vega. For awhile she was advertising a "special" sugar baby unlimited. For the bargain price of just $6K a month you could be at the top of her list.
 

njlefty

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When I had my sugar baby going, I covered her monthly apartment rent. She would stay, on average, about one or two weekends a month with me. It helped that we got along well as a couple.
 

Sharkshunter

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can someone experienced on this pm me with private details and trade insights. I want to try this but I honestly don’t know how to start. Just looking for best practices red flags to avoid and common tips and tricks for some boilerplate engagements
 

threeforthemoney

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Per month allowance, I would NEVER commit to that, not ever. PPM. You always get sick of them. Two golden rules in business, don't get greedy and don't fuck up. They always get greedy, on top of the PPM, they start asking you to pay for their phone bill, extra gas money, etc. So these types of relationships always end, and typically not pretty. PPM is the only way to go.
 

Driver

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I had no issues ending the 2 main girls I connected with. I just said I am really busy with work and some personal business and do not have the time anymore. No problems.
 

iwould789

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Per month allowance, I would NEVER commit to that, not ever. PPM. You always get sick of them. Two golden rules in business, don't get greedy and don't fuck up. They always get greedy, on top of the PPM, they start asking you to pay for their phone bill, extra gas money, etc. So these types of relationships always end, and typically not pretty. PPM is the only way to go.
Amen. I've heard of some people getting lucky with a monthly allowance BUT most all get shafted at some point. ANY money given upfront including the "I need gas money in order to meet you" and "my car needs a battery" and "Show me you are serious about meeting and send me a little money first" are all danger signs. You might as well flush your money down the toilet. PPM is the only way to go and only in person. At least that's been my experience over the years.
 

njlefty

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Money is a huge motivator whether you are married, have a girl friend or are paying on an as needed basis. In the end, you are paying no matter what the case is as I see it.
I was paying them to leave. I think I stole that line, but it was accurate. I had golf and other things to do.
 

이 회장님

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i signed up month ago and it was not worth it. So many girls like to sell pics or videos. It is so much work to find a good one. Def. not for me
In my opinion, around 80% of the profiles are BS. But the other 20% are legit and you will find several gems. (y)

I focus on the college students, grad students and office workers (especially secretaries). They tend to have less drama and are genuine and cool to hang out with.

I no longer deal with the social media influencers. They tend to not know the difference between reality and fantasy. lol.
 
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