Hey everyone, I've been reading thru this thread and appreciate the advice/tips from the experienced guys. I'm in the NYC area (Brooklyn to be exact) and looking to try the sugar world. My question is given all the covid restrictions, where do you usually meet with a girl for an initial meet & greet?
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Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)
- Thread starter VJLUTZ
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I did it for many years. AMPs and RMPs are the way to go. SB's on seeking are mostly looking for much more PPM than an AMP. $400 was typical, rarely did I get a hot good looking girl in her low to mid 20's to come over for less. A few steadies would sleep over, so I'd get the night time pop and the early morning pop, but over the long run a steady SB can get expensive. I do make $500K a year, but eventually I realized there are better things to spend $30K a year on. $100 or $160 a few times a month at an AMP is one thing, but $1,600 or $2,000 a month for a once or twice a week SB can add up. I'm 62 now, started the SB lifestyle in 2012. The age range for me was 18 (once) to 29. Many 21, 23, and 25 year olds. They taste great, you can do a lot of nice 69 with them, they are many times still learning. And once you get one steady, no condoms required, which is also great. But these days, a nice hand job, or occasional BBBJ at an AMP or RMP is easiest. It also can be a stressful life.
It depends on your age and how they feel about you. I was seeing 7's mostly and an 8. Never paid more than $250. One I was paying $150 max and if we got a hotel I paid less, the total with her would be $150. Also saw 2 for free, just off vibes.
These were multi hours, multi pops. Only one did I see for $450 she is an IG girl that has almost 300k followers and now is gotta be close to $1k per meet. I had to haggle with her. All of these except for that last one were down with video recording.
Only reason I don't do it now. Is these girls catch feelings. I have a gf and I don't want to get caught up. So pros for non emotional hookups.
However if I made $500k I think I would virtually never go to amps.
These were multi hours, multi pops. Only one did I see for $450 she is an IG girl that has almost 300k followers and now is gotta be close to $1k per meet. I had to haggle with her. All of these except for that last one were down with video recording.
Only reason I don't do it now. Is these girls catch feelings. I have a gf and I don't want to get caught up. So pros for non emotional hookups.
However if I made $500k I think I would virtually never go to amps.
Your SB experience is very similar to mine. $400 is also typical for me. I usually pay anywhere from $300 to $1,000. And yes, a steady SB can get expensive which I do not mind. I love to enjoy the moment so for me, it’s worth every penny.
I’m sure the SBs appreciate your mentorship and guidance. Many SBs have asked me for advice with their academic or professional career. Although I prefer to discuss without any clothes on. lol.
If you prefer amp girls then you can meet them outside of the establishment during their days off.
Have you met SBs outside of Manhattan? They tend to be more nice, humble and appreciative.
I’m sure the SBs appreciate your mentorship and guidance. Many SBs have asked me for advice with their academic or professional career. Although I prefer to discuss without any clothes on. lol.
If you prefer amp girls then you can meet them outside of the establishment during their days off.
Have you met SBs outside of Manhattan? They tend to be more nice, humble and appreciative.
I also agree with both of these posts. For those who claim to have different experiences about meeting hot 18 year old and paying next to nothing I find very unlikely. If that’s the case, you probably don’t even need the website and you can just pick up girls on your own. Like people have stated the experience is a bit different and if that’s what you’re looking for, go for it
This site is completely time consuming. Since the pandemic, half the girls want an allowance to video chat, sick. And then if you find someone, they are too far away, or don't have a car, or need a babysitter, or want $50 or $100 up front to "see if your real" LOL, it's really a waste of $89.99 a month, which is an insane price to pay. Also, if you do check the Site daily, often you see the exact same women on there all day, whether they have it on their phone open all day, or whatever. Also, I've noticed the the Site is now running 33% off specials occasionally, which obviously means they are not getting the men traffic they used to go. When someone or a company/website cuts their prices, it's a sure tail sign that business is slow. I have an account, and check occasionally, but will not join again, I find if a big fat waste of fucking time and money. Go to Manhattan and enjoy a great big titted Asian woman that can suck a golf ball through a garden hose, or a nice Russian. Try the Dream Team, Dream Asian, or My Secret Asian. Easier to set up, enjoy your hour, and get the fuck out of dodge. Get verified, and enjoy. My two cents. Good Luck all, happy mongering.
Here are a few women from the Site, what they are looking for:
1. Something casual, discrete, mutually beneficial arrangement where we're both satisfied. Can be either long or short term. Must have recent photos! BE STRAIGHT FORWARD with what you are looking for or else I have no interest in talking to you. It is important to discuss arrangements prior to meeting/texting. Must be a gentleman "
LOL I have no interest in talking to you.
2. This is Platonic Princess from Jersey City. "Someone who knows how to have a good time and go on adventures around the city. Not being afraid to spoil someone would be good, too. Interested in platonic (100% non-sexual: no physical or otherwise) ONLY. End of story if you don’t like it move it along" She's been on here for months and months. All day every day.
3. Here's one that sounds real interested "looking for something long or short term. Starting off as lunches, dinners and events with allowance and intimacy only when both parties feel comfortable. If intimacy is the only thing you seek, or if you think that because you pay for the ladies meal that makes you a sugar daddy, please pass me by I am not looking for people like that or people who say they want "mutually beneficial" but we all know what you really mean. If you live In New York or somewhere else that's not near my city please let me know if you're willing to meet near me or help me get to you. I am not seeking FWB at all. I receive a lot of messages asking me to meet for free coffee or dinner and as much as I'd love to meet everyone, I don't have the hours in a day to match how much I love people so please make your offer to meet stand out. " Can't wait to meet you too sweetie.
4. Here's a fat one. " Curvy & Thick. New Jersey. Let’s Hang Out. Will finish this soon"
4. Another winner. "Hi I'm a very expensive sugar baby with a nice new ass from a BBL. Past contacts pls DO NOT TEXT me bc I changed numbers HMU here first!! "
And, there are hundreds more. And btw, lots and lots of fat chicks. Good Hunting my friends.
1. Something casual, discrete, mutually beneficial arrangement where we're both satisfied. Can be either long or short term. Must have recent photos! BE STRAIGHT FORWARD with what you are looking for or else I have no interest in talking to you. It is important to discuss arrangements prior to meeting/texting. Must be a gentleman "
LOL I have no interest in talking to you.
2. This is Platonic Princess from Jersey City. "Someone who knows how to have a good time and go on adventures around the city. Not being afraid to spoil someone would be good, too. Interested in platonic (100% non-sexual: no physical or otherwise) ONLY. End of story if you don’t like it move it along" She's been on here for months and months. All day every day.
3. Here's one that sounds real interested "looking for something long or short term. Starting off as lunches, dinners and events with allowance and intimacy only when both parties feel comfortable. If intimacy is the only thing you seek, or if you think that because you pay for the ladies meal that makes you a sugar daddy, please pass me by I am not looking for people like that or people who say they want "mutually beneficial" but we all know what you really mean. If you live In New York or somewhere else that's not near my city please let me know if you're willing to meet near me or help me get to you. I am not seeking FWB at all. I receive a lot of messages asking me to meet for free coffee or dinner and as much as I'd love to meet everyone, I don't have the hours in a day to match how much I love people so please make your offer to meet stand out. " Can't wait to meet you too sweetie.
4. Here's a fat one. " Curvy & Thick. New Jersey. Let’s Hang Out. Will finish this soon"
4. Another winner. "Hi I'm a very expensive sugar baby with a nice new ass from a BBL. Past contacts pls DO NOT TEXT me bc I changed numbers HMU here first!! "
And, there are hundreds more. And btw, lots and lots of fat chicks. Good Hunting my friends.
Hmmmm....sounds like some are impatient or got burned. Lol.
The site is the site. I don't think much more needs to be said, other then, it is the ultimate YMMV experience.
If you are typically ok in conversation with women, and can progress things with a prospective partner effectively outside of the hobby, you'll do fine.
If you use the hobby because you are shy, introverted, or just don't care to give anybody the time of day outside of the transaction, it probably isn't the solution you're looking for.
It is also a situation where it doesn't hurt to be easy on the eyes, sexually please your partner, and deal with a little bit of competition. The same way some of us are criticizing the profiles and interactions, they are doing the same times 10. Trust me, I have seen the messages, requests, proposals, and borderline harrassment some guys send.
The site is the site. I don't think much more needs to be said, other then, it is the ultimate YMMV experience.
If you are typically ok in conversation with women, and can progress things with a prospective partner effectively outside of the hobby, you'll do fine.
If you use the hobby because you are shy, introverted, or just don't care to give anybody the time of day outside of the transaction, it probably isn't the solution you're looking for.
It is also a situation where it doesn't hurt to be easy on the eyes, sexually please your partner, and deal with a little bit of competition. The same way some of us are criticizing the profiles and interactions, they are doing the same times 10. Trust me, I have seen the messages, requests, proposals, and borderline harrassment some guys send.
I've used the Site because I'm in my 60's, and like to eat young fresh pussy. It is amazing how many 20 something women will come over to my apartment, without even talking to me, just texting, and after an hour of small talk on the couch, will accompany me to my bedroom and assume the 69 position and suck and fuck my brains out. Young guys would be amazed at what their girlfriends are up to on a Tuesday afternoon for $300 or $400. I have no desire to have any type of relationship with them, and they don't want anything to do with me outside of a weekly PPM visit, I get that, and I'm fine with that. I had a few that would stay for dinner, I'd get a few pops in, they'd stay overnight and leave in the am. Perhaps that justifys it in their own minds that they are not prostitutes. The Site basically is a prostitution Site of younger women. I guess the Site just ran it's course for me. Yes, there are a lot of trashy guys out there, guys that want to meet in seedy motels, etc. I always treated the women with the utmost respect, mainly because that's how to get in their pants the easiest. Being a dick is not cool. And being able to host, and living alone, is a plus. Many guys cannot do that, or will not do that. I had no problem with it, and never had any problems with girls coming over.
Ok you have a lot of things you are saying here, in various posts.
Yes I would imagine tons of Women who are a waste of time. Avoid the profiles that read horribly. Avoid profiles of girls on over 1 yr. Shit I used to avoid any girl on there over 9 mos.
Also the cost. When I was on it was $80. I was on for 3 weeks and got numbers to occupy me for 6 mos. I got maybe 60 numbers in that time. I would suggest anyone who gets the promo code and applies it to use for 1 month and don't go back on for at least another 3-4 mos. Get more numbers and repeat.
Also idk why you would be surprised what young broke girls would do?? I mean they are broke. They want money. And yes they don't want and some don't think of themselves as prostitutes. Whether they are or not is irrelevant for me. Since I never cared what they truly are.
@TheRiceGuy if you do decent or well with non pros have some style and have gotten Women especially younger Women it is easy for you to do so. Some of these girls may same like Men have a rotation they may have a few older guys and a few guys that are under 45 that they see to have fun and may cancel on the older guy one night or cancel on the younger guy when they need money more one night. I viewed it as accelerated dating. When I was on. Every time I met a SB she was surprised I was on. Surprised I took longer to respond via text once we hooked up than she would. Surprised I didn't get into her before she got into me. I used this to my favor to get deals as low as I could and or free a few times.
@ASHP585 absolutely ymmv is absolute on SA. It does take time. Perhaps more now than before. I also agree having your own place helps. But if not rewards to a decent chain hotel is more than adequate.
Yes I would imagine tons of Women who are a waste of time. Avoid the profiles that read horribly. Avoid profiles of girls on over 1 yr. Shit I used to avoid any girl on there over 9 mos.
Also the cost. When I was on it was $80. I was on for 3 weeks and got numbers to occupy me for 6 mos. I got maybe 60 numbers in that time. I would suggest anyone who gets the promo code and applies it to use for 1 month and don't go back on for at least another 3-4 mos. Get more numbers and repeat.
Also idk why you would be surprised what young broke girls would do?? I mean they are broke. They want money. And yes they don't want and some don't think of themselves as prostitutes. Whether they are or not is irrelevant for me. Since I never cared what they truly are.
@TheRiceGuy if you do decent or well with non pros have some style and have gotten Women especially younger Women it is easy for you to do so. Some of these girls may same like Men have a rotation they may have a few older guys and a few guys that are under 45 that they see to have fun and may cancel on the older guy one night or cancel on the younger guy when they need money more one night. I viewed it as accelerated dating. When I was on. Every time I met a SB she was surprised I was on. Surprised I took longer to respond via text once we hooked up than she would. Surprised I didn't get into her before she got into me. I used this to my favor to get deals as low as I could and or free a few times.
@ASHP585 absolutely ymmv is absolute on SA. It does take time. Perhaps more now than before. I also agree having your own place helps. But if not rewards to a decent chain hotel is more than adequate.
I would tend to agree, based on my experience. But I’m not a young guy, so maybe that might factor into the fact that I’ve always had to pay (except once). The fact of the matter is that it’s basically a P4P site, so why would a girl join here if she’s willing to do it for free? Might as well just be on a regular dating site
$150?
How old was she?
What did she look like on a scale 1 to 10?
I too have a Seeking account, and I can say there are some wildebeests on that site that I wouldn't touch with a tennis racket.
So yeah, I can believe the $150.
But the hot, young, blonde, college sorority girl types that I want would never settle for anywhere near that fee.
Also, for guys with an account on Seeking, ever notice how the ugly ones are also the most aggressive in posting messages?
Almost all the ones who favorite me or post messages in my inbox are either ugazoids, or what look like beauty queens from Venezuela (who I assume are looking for a free meal).
How old was she?
What did she look like on a scale 1 to 10?
I too have a Seeking account, and I can say there are some wildebeests on that site that I wouldn't touch with a tennis racket.
So yeah, I can believe the $150.
But the hot, young, blonde, college sorority girl types that I want would never settle for anywhere near that fee.
Also, for guys with an account on Seeking, ever notice how the ugly ones are also the most aggressive in posting messages?
Almost all the ones who favorite me or post messages in my inbox are either ugazoids, or what look like beauty queens from Venezuela (who I assume are looking for a free meal).