Seeing a provider outside of an AMP

[Micawber]

Hello fellas,

I was wondering how successful one can be getting a provider to see you outside of their place of business. I'm generally a shy guy so I've never inquired to any directly. Ideally, I'd like to see if HE girls typically look for extra side cash and are willing to give services after hours at their own place. How common is this? How would I even breach this with a provider? Has anyone had any luck seeing a provider outside an AMP and keeping it "strictly business"?

Thanks in advance!

 

[jfitness88]

That all depends on your relationship with them… a good bit of them have SO at home so going to their place is probably out of the question. Some of them live in the spa, in that case, get a good rapport with them and be the last appointment of the night. It’ll usually open up some extras… I see 2 women off hours regularly, both with SO and families. There is never a financial/service exchange, we are simply there because we enjoy each others company.

 

[Ellocohombre]

I say see the at the spa for what you need and if you get them outside the spa treat them as any other friend and do things other than what you do at the spa. Example, go for a walk thru the park, pack a picnic lunch and find a nice spot to sit and relax, go hiking and just spend time together outside. These girls are cramped up in a spa for weeks sometimes. For them to get outside is going to make them feel way better than just doing the same old they do at the spa.

 

[jfitness88]

I say see the at the spa for what you need and if you get them outside the spa treat them as any other friend and do things other than what you do at the spa. Example, go for a walk thru the park, pack a picnic lunch and find a nice spot to sit and relax, go hiking and just spend time together outside. These girls are cramped up in a spa for weeks sometimes. For them to get outside is going to make them feel way better than just doing the same old they do at the spa.

Exactly, be the escape they need from the monotonous grind of the spa/home life.

 

[Wayne1250]

Of course, I had lunch with an ATF again today, she likes to feel like a regular girl too.

 

[Csky]

This sounds like an amazing situation!

 

[BillyBlueEye2]

Most escort agencies have rules about asking girls for their number. Its all about them losing out on their cut. I have had agency girls offer their numbers for outside meetings but I never asked first because you never know how loyal a girl might be to her agency. They report you to the big shots and you will be blacklisted. I would imagine AMPs would probably discourage it but these girls are trying to make money, worst thing that could happen is they say No. I never heard of someone being blacklisted from an AMP just for asking for a number.

 

[Wayne1250]

I have plenty of spa girls' phone numbers. I know that they don't usually want the spa to know.

 

[Csky]

I talk to several women who I met at spas on WeChat, but only a few have been willing to meet up outside of work.

 

[Tikelegacy]

Hello fellas,

I was wondering how successful one can be getting a provider to see you outside of their place of business. I'm generally a shy guy so I've never inquired to any directly. Ideally, I'd like to see if HE girls typically look for extra side cash and are willing to give services after hours at their own place. How common is this? How would I even breach this with a provider? Has anyone had any luck seeing a provider outside an AMP and keeping it "strictly business"?

Thanks in advance!

In my experience, HE girls will draw a hard line in terms of having sex for money which is why they don’t work at FS shops. I’ve had better luck treating them like a normal girl and take them out without money being exchanged.

 

[Elmhurst9]

In my experience, HE girls will draw a hard line in terms of having sex for money which is why they don’t work at FS shops. I’ve had better luck treating them like a normal girl and take them out without money being exchanged.

Okay-lol

 

[Elmhurst9]

In my experience, HE girls will draw a hard line in terms of having sex for money which is why they don’t work at FS shops. I’ve had better luck treating them like a normal girl and take them out without money being exchanged.

I have dated providers and fully understood it was for fun not for extra sex and knew the next afternoon they would be sucking,perhaps full service or jerking a customer off for Franklins.

 

[Elmhurst9]

I have plenty of spa girls' phone numbers. I know that they don't usually want the spa to know.

You also treat them well and spend the cash.

 

[Wayne1250]

What's more amazing is that some of them will insist on picking up the check at the restaurant. It's part of their pampering instincts.

 

[NScrabble]

In my opinion this is gonna vary a lot by context.

A long time ago, a lady who left a spa invited her to my apartment where she we fucked and she washed my dishes (I didn't ask)

She didn't ask for money but I paid the same as I would have at the spa. We did this a few times. So that was opportunistic context.

Another time a few years later, a favorite girl invited me to eat dinner. She insisted on paying. Nothing physical, but it was nice.

We did that twice and then she asked me to help her get a green card. So that was her context, her motivation.

 

[Nutopia1]

What's more amazing is that some of them will insist on picking up the check at the restaurant. It's part of their pampering instincts.

Has she ever serviced you outside the spa?

 

[mikemendez]

Have spent time with several amp and spa girls away from their shop, wasn’t looking for an actual relationship nor bf/gf type situation. An occasional lunch on their insisted dime, clothes or grocery shopping, drinks and dancing a couple times. A particular r&t shop girl would come spend the night when following day was an off day. She stayed at her shop for the last year of her time here to save money, she eventually returned to China.

 

[Black_Noir]

First thing first what's your reason for wanting to see them outside a spa? Do you want outcall service or you looking for love/relationships?

I'm assuming outcall. But personally, they will not see you in their personal place for safety reasons. If you want outcall ask them and just get a day room.

 

[Wayne1250]

My reason to see them outside of the spa is just purely as friends, to go out to a restaurant and just talk. Friendship is a probably nicer than the sex. Very rare times, I have had overnight stays with a provider outside or inside of the spa. I am realistic that I am not going to make them a girlfriend or a wife. Companionship is enough.

 

[mikemendez]

What's more amazing is that some of them will insist on picking up the check at the restaurant. It's part of their pampering instincts.

Some will sit next to you and feed you too.