The irony for me, is I never was a monger until i graduated to one. I have had a couple hundred legit massages, and then i moved back to the east coast. I had been single for ten plus years, blew my money on high end computers, and audio etc. met a provider here, and had three legit massages from her, while flirting of course. The best massages i have ever had, even without the teasing. She is older, and the fourth time, she showed me how much she liked me. I married her. I love her. But ironically I think I like giving her massages and pampering her more than i like receiving them. I am only 41, she is 23 years older than me, but it just works. But I am very close to the scene now because of it, and I wont lie, I was jealous at first. But i have gotten over it.