SA I wanted to ask you guys your experience

[AppleRules]

I’ve only had that happen once out of 10 or so meetups. I just said I wasn’t interested… by the time you hit middle age in NYC you’d best be able to be assertive when called for…

I guess we just have different experiences. I mostly message and meet Asian girls in Manhattan. 50% of the time the girl that shows up used an older photo of themselves or a photo of a totally different person. I usually say, wow you look different.

All the girls I have met on coffee meets were down to go for a hotel date. I've declined many because they did not look like their photos. I guess I could be missing out on some good looking girls because I don't offer $ for coffee meets.

 

[AppleRules]

This past year I have met several higher quality amp girls that I did not feel a need to go on SA as much. Girls like Chanel, Karen Zaki, Tomomi, Sugar, Milk, Momo, Candy. So much easier to go see one of them vs. the SA hunt. However, it is not easy catching them when they are in town and with all the crap going on in the amp scene, I might venture back to SA.

 

[Sporty3064]

I never pay for coffee meets. Usually pay for lunch and discuss from there. Most look like their pictures but a few definitely utilized the filter lol.
I need to talk to them and message then meet to confirm that they are serious about meeting and not wait by my time. I also want to make sure they are not tweakers. I've had that and bailed.
Also, always give them fake names and use a burner phone

 

[AppleRules]

I've had girls select nice restaurants or cafes for the 1st meet, but those that insist on $ for an intro meet seem like scammers, pros.

 

[Therespectfulman]

For the White and Asian girls I'm guessing coffee dates are a must. An entitled bunch they are.

Latinas and Black's girls, we go straight to the fucking

 

[Newwhaler18]

The top practitioners in the dark arts of the lower tier sugar babies, the real whores, druggies and mental cases, who want to get them for the cheapest price, prey on their weaknesses and money grubbing usually in two ways:

1. They say they will limit the time, i.e. to 30 min, so they can just get a nut off and also tell the girl it’ll be a regular thing, making her think, I just have to put up with a brief fuck and I will get regular cash, and

2. they have a room (or car backseat) available on the spot and the girl is desperate or otherwise has a hard time passing up the cash right then and there especially after traveling to meet and it being a bust. She might reject a better looking guy who offers 400 online, but in person you catch her on the right day and say 200 is your max and you seem willing to walk , and there is a room or car available, she might just do it.

again, these are the dark arts of the game, very dark, and the women it works on are the lower tier (which is saying a lot)

 

[clicking8]

I am surprised you did $100 paid coffee meets. I never paid for intro meets. 50% of the time, the girls look different than their photos and in those cases, they looked worse. I will say that plenty of girls turned down the coffee meet because I would not pay. If I was going to change my strategy and offer paid coffee meets, that would really cut down on who I would meet. I would ask them to show me a real photo in advance.

As another person said paying to do a coffee meet sets the precedent that our time together is compensated.
90% of the time the photos are accurate and often look way better in person. I’ve had a few where it was just a lot of makeup.
I don’t do coffee dates with people who won’t share their private photos since sometimes they won’t show their face on the public profile.
And once we get to texting more often than not they’ll send photos on their own so I know what they’re wearing.

 

[Nutopia1]

As another person said paying to do a coffee meet sets the precedent that our time together is compensated.
90% of the time the photos are accurate and often look way better in person. I’ve had a few where it was just a lot of makeup.
I don’t do coffee dates with people who won’t share their private photos since sometimes they won’t show their face on the public profile.
And once we get to texting more often than not they’ll send photos on their own so I know what they’re wearing.

I never pay for the meet and greet because of the obvious conflict of interest. Is her interest in the matter to collect an easy $100 by showing up for an easy 15 cup of coffee or is it to assess the prospect of an arrangement ?
Many of these girls make hundreds of dollars a week just to show up for these coffee or dinner dates and never have to get on their knees. If she knows she's doing the coffee for no comp then she made the effort only because she's serious about an arrangement .

 

[Sporty3064]

I never pay for the meet and greet because of the obvious conflict of interest. Is her interest in the matter to collect an easy $100 by showing up for an easy 15 cup of coffee or is it to assess the prospect of an arrangement ?
Many of these girls make hundreds of dollars a week just to show up for these coffee or dinner dates and never have to get on their knees. If she knows she's doing the coffee for no comp then she made the effort only because she's serious about an arrangement .

Exactly! And sorry I'm just not paying someone $100 to meet.
Get a Snapchat account (age appropriate for them) and talk on there to earn trust then go from there to meet. A lot, if not most, of them get proposals to meet for sex $ all the time. Show interest in getting to know them and you'll have more success is my belief and it works

 

[AppleRules]

As another person said paying to do a coffee meet sets the precedent that our time together is compensated.
90% of the time the photos are accurate and often look way better in person. I’ve had a few where it was just a lot of makeup.
I don’t do coffee dates with people who won’t share their private photos since sometimes they won’t show their face on the public profile.
And once we get to texting more often than not they’ll send photos on their own so I know what they’re wearing.

Sounds like we both are successful on SA, but have different methods. Curious, all the girls you paid for the coffee meet, did all of them lead to an intimate date ? The 10% that looked worse, did you still pay them ?

 

[xnfotl]

This past year I have met several higher quality amp girls that I did not feel a need to go on SA as much. Girls like Chanel, Karen Zaki, Tomomi, Sugar, Milk, Momo, Candy. So much easier to go see one of them vs. the SA hunt. However, it is not easy catching them when they are in town and with all the crap going on in the amp scene, I might venture back to SA.

Tomomi and Karen Zaki were both amazing, I managed to catch them when they were in town for the first time around. Do you know if they've come back since, and if so same shop or somewhere else? If somewhere else do you mind pm'ing me the name? Would love to see them again..

 

[Nutopia1]

Tomomi and Karen Zaki were both amazing, I managed to catch them when they were in town for the first time around. Do you know if they've come back since, and if so same shop or somewhere else? If somewhere else do you mind pm'ing me the name? Would love to see them again..

The girls you mention are all great but 300-400% more expensive that typical SA girls when you consider Sa meat ups are multi hour.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I don't do coffee meets. I definitely don't pay them to just meet them. The most i've ever done is the first girl i met we went to a bar and i paid for drinks there that cost me like $60 for the 2 of us. I also first meet am not buying em any food and taking em to any restaurant. After we smash she can get some 5guys burgers or halal or diner etc. I'm not trying to impress any Woman be it an SA an amp girl a non pro.

I also curve the girls talking about being their mentor and giving her 500+ for meets. I told one of these dillusional Women that a mentor doesnt pay the person they are mentoring. So i will be her mentor but i won't give her anything but coach her in her life and decisions .

Don't let these chicks run game on you. Also if you meet them try to get a spot in the hotel or real near and then head to the hotel. A Woman knows within 10 mins of meeting you if she's down to fuck you.

Any SA chick that tells you a time limit or uses escort terminology also gets the stiff arm from me. Any chick that has been on over 1 year also gets curved. Don't try and impress any chick and you will see instantly how they see you differently. Treat this like accelerated dating. The money is a bonus for them. I've never paid over 280, except for a well known IG chick who at the time was 450 saw her once. Unicorn Asian with a phat ass, now she want $800 the people have told me. Aside from her the other Sa girls all under $280. Free meet ups , some sleep overs. Make these chicks fall for you. Charm em and lead like a Man. Good luck op

 

[kanor0307]

I don't do coffee meets. I definitely don't pay them to just meet them. The most i've ever done is the first girl i met we went to a bar and i paid for drinks there that cost me like $60 for the 2 of us. I also first meet am not buying em any food and taking em to any restaurant. After we smash she can get some 5guys burgers or halal or diner etc. I'm not trying to impress any Woman be it an SA an amp girl a non pro.

I also curve the girls talking about being their mentor and giving her 500+ for meets. I told one of these dillusional Women that a mentor doesnt pay the person they are mentoring. So i will be her mentor but i won't give her anything but coach her in her life and decisions .

Don't let these chicks run game on you. Also if you meet them try to get a spot in the hotel or real near and then head to the hotel. A Woman knows within 10 mins of meeting you if she's down to fuck you.

Any SA chick that tells you a time limit or uses escort terminology also gets the stiff arm from me. Any chick that has been on over 1 year also gets curved. Don't try and impress any chick and you will see instantly how they see you differently. Treat this like accelerated dating. The money is a bonus for them. I've never paid over 280, except for a well known IG chick who at the time was 450 saw her once. Unicorn Asian with a phat ass, now she want $800 the people have told me. Aside from her the other Sa girls all under $280. Free meet ups , some sleep overs. Make these chicks fall for you. Charm em and lead like a Man. Good luck op

Can you be my mentor?

 

[AppleRules]

OK, so there are several different strategies, amounts and experiences being discussed. I do think location, type of girls and type of guy you are, does make a difference.

The amp girl vs SA girl comparison has shifted for me. 3-4yrs ago SA was the best place for me to find young hot Asian girls in Manhattan. Had a great run on SA. Then covid hit and my existing SA relationships ended. I found a few good ones on SA, but not like before. Now I am having better luck at the amps with part timers and visitors coming into NYC to make money. Momo, Candy, Sugar, Tomomi, Milk, Karen Zaki, Chanel. In the past, girls like that were all over SA. Not anymore. Much fewer now.

Not sure what is going to happen with the latest amp crackdown and new covid strain. Momo and Candy are the only locals. Hopefully the hot girls will come back or new ones will.

 

[itwasntme]

Several years ago I had good luck on SA and took a couple girls home with me. It was like dating on turbo mode with cheat codes and a lot of fun.

I've recently resubscribed and sent out a couple dozen messages without getting any responses; not sure if the game has changed or it's just everyone's home for winter/covid break. I'll keep fishing and bide my time AMP'ing, so it's whatever, but it feels a lot more like regular dating now in terms of the number of messages required to get a bite.

 

[Therespectfulman]

I already have my solid two girl sugar baby rotation (love Latinas). But yall are making me want to resubscribe and find more haha.

I once had a White SB for a decent price. She was smoking hot, big tits, foreigner, young. But she didn't know how to fuck, and had no idea how to move her hips. A pattern I see alot in White girls. If I see another one that is down to earth and not entitled, maybe I'll give em a try.

 

[Chuck One]

Maybe 5 would actually meet for coffee. I would compensate $100 for a coffee meet (15 min). But of those 5 pretty much each one would be good to go.

I don’t have time for so many coffees anymore but I still see one of the SBs every week. She’s 25 now and an instagram influencer.

Do you offer the $100 in advance of the meetup or is that something you do as a thank you?

I don't play much in NYC because I travel a lot and where I go 300 generally gets you a lot and the room is covered by work, My goal is not to have the coffee meet. I'm looking to convert a drink to the bedroom. Not counting the few "coffee meets" I've had - meaning those established purely as a meet and greet - I've had 3 dates that were not converted that night. One of those three were converted the following night. I never put PPM in any message on the website nor do I respond directly to anyone saying PPM. That will get you banned if they complain.

 

[clicking8]

Sounds like we both are successful on SA, but have different methods. Curious, all the girls you paid for the coffee meet, did all of them lead to an intimate date ? The 10% that looked worse, did you still pay them ?

Not all of them. Most of them I declined pursuing things further. At the time I could at most juggle 5 or 6 SBs so I had to be really selective.
They would get the $100 for showing up. My experience and maybe it’s because I’m in Manhattan and there were a lot of NYU students is - most were from out of state, new to NYC, struggling between school and work. So $100 went a long way for them and I was happy to do it.

 

[clicking8]

Do you offer the $100 in advance of the meetup or is that something you do as a thank you?

As a thank you. They show up. I give them a hug, Slip them the bill and we have coffee and chat for a bit.
Just like a girl can tell if she’s going to sleep with a guy in a few minutes. Guys are the same. Only takes 5 min of them talking to know whether I want to do something with this person.