I’m a huge fan of SA. Over the last 6 years probably had close to 50 SBs from there.
Mostly young, white, college students from NYU tbh. Apparently 1 in 5 or 1 in 6 at NYU has a SA account.
During that time I ended up dating one for about 4 months so other than the initial date no more money was exchanged. For the others I would do 300-400 PPM once a week for about 1-2 hours. I would host which was a HUGE benefit since most of them had roommates.
I had to tone it down because I couldn’t keep up with it… some weeks I would see a different SB every day.
I would sign up for SA for one month only and cancel the auto renew. I had a templates msg I would send. For every 20 messages sent I would get maybe 10 responses. My messages were super clear - PPM, once a week, general location, what I expected. More often than not the responses were polite even when they said they weren’t interested.
Of the 10 that responded. Maybe 5 would actually meet for coffee. I would compensate $100 for a coffee meet (15 min). But of those 5 pretty much each one would be good to go.
I don’t have time for so many coffees anymore but I still see one of the SBs every week. She’s 25 now and an instagram influencer.
Mostly young, white, college students from NYU tbh. Apparently 1 in 5 or 1 in 6 at NYU has a SA account.
During that time I ended up dating one for about 4 months so other than the initial date no more money was exchanged. For the others I would do 300-400 PPM once a week for about 1-2 hours. I would host which was a HUGE benefit since most of them had roommates.
I had to tone it down because I couldn’t keep up with it… some weeks I would see a different SB every day.
I would sign up for SA for one month only and cancel the auto renew. I had a templates msg I would send. For every 20 messages sent I would get maybe 10 responses. My messages were super clear - PPM, once a week, general location, what I expected. More often than not the responses were polite even when they said they weren’t interested.
Of the 10 that responded. Maybe 5 would actually meet for coffee. I would compensate $100 for a coffee meet (15 min). But of those 5 pretty much each one would be good to go.
I don’t have time for so many coffees anymore but I still see one of the SBs every week. She’s 25 now and an instagram influencer.