Jakob -- The ladies just get your vibe. I had a friend that went into the strip club and instantly became the king of whatever place we visited, no matter where we were. It was amazing to sit and watch as he was a show unto himself. He was electric around the women and they picked up on it and played into it. Crazily, he wasn't a big tipper, nor was he buying lots of dances or drinks. Additionally, he just a normal looking person but when he was there, he was a different guy and everyone in the place gravitated to him. You must be his equal, just in a different venue. Keep up the fun!!