One of the things that makes it wrong specifically here is that it seems to me Anna has been evolving and different people have met her at different stages, so the relationship you have settled into with her may be very different then someone who meets her now or met her many years before you. Not better or worse, just different.
(And yeah, going to her and claiming friendship to get in her good graces is like trying to belly up to a velvet-rope club gatekeeper saying "I'm friends with <the owner>, I should be on the list" and it's as dumbass a move with her as it would be at any club worth getting into.)
(And yeah, going to her and claiming friendship to get in her good graces is like trying to belly up to a velvet-rope club gatekeeper saying "I'm friends with <the owner>, I should be on the list" and it's as dumbass a move with her as it would be at any club worth getting into.)
Thinking you can control one , or that you can handle it is like saying you can handle a coke habit - not happening- get this straight no more nonsense OK?