News flash... this forum is a discussion board for trading opinions. Individuals opinions differ from others. Labeling another's opinion as whining shows a deep misunderstanding of the concept of conversation. After 39 posts in this thread not one person suggested Fawn The Asian must change her screening requirements, they only opined whether they believe her tactics are reasonable, or unreasonable. Some even provided sound supportive information to back up their opinion, both for, and against.