I have to say the most invaluable piece written is when jim says…
“Could be she didn't like my appearance (I dunno) or something else, but I didn't feel chemistry was great. It happens, not mad at her, just reporting on my sesh.”
He is humble enough to report, look there just was not a spark between him and the provider. It happens to all of us. The fact he got shortchanged on time still is no excuse from the spa or the girl.
Chemistry sometimes happens naturally and/or can be built over time as we all know. I’ve walked into a place and reportedly I’m the only monger who despises the girls and atmosphere. I’m not too big a person to say, maybe it’s just my approach or something about me.
On the other hand there are 10/10 providers that are very much so “attracted” to me emotionally and physically. Such is life. That’s why reviews like this are good intel. They spur thought.
As for what
@Ellocohombre is saying, I think that we all have our own ways of taking control of the session. He brings a good point up that we can set the expectations. I’d rather find a girl who *wants* to take control and mesmerize me for an hour with her passion & care. Micromanaging her behavior (can work and is fine if communication is open) but also can be exhausting. If I do not find results I’m looking for naturally, this makes me want to move on to the next one.