Be clean , be respectful, if they ask .... been here before ? Always say yes . A menu will come out . Test limits , be touchy, feel a ass cheek , roam a bit, if she grabs your hand , probably no menu. Don’t try a finger in. If she’s wearing a dress or skirt , lift it up and take a peek, no panties on ? There’s full menu ! If she whispers... what u want ? Don’t be shy ? It’s your 1st rodeo, not theirs .