Proper Etiquette?

[Phlambo]

Could anyone explain proper etiquette when arriving and while at these places?

I’m new to this and would rather not go in looking like a deer in headlights.

Also, is it typically considered ok to request a specific girl?

 

[index6237]

You will get varied responses I am sure. I'll give you mine:

Yes you can request someone just like you request a hygienist at the dentist.

I am very polite. A staffer giving you a massage deserves no less than anyone else you meet. And everyone appreciates it when you do.

Spa staff pick up on your energy. Acting nervy is bad.

 

[eaglesfan48]

Be clean , be respectful, if they ask .... been here before ? Always say yes . A menu will come out . Test limits , be touchy, feel a ass cheek , roam a bit, if she grabs your hand , probably no menu. Don’t try a finger in. If she’s wearing a dress or skirt , lift it up and take a peek, no panties on ? There’s full menu ! If she whispers... what u want ? Don’t be shy ? It’s your 1st rodeo, not theirs .

 

[Nedmerrill]

On my first time going for a massage I may have actually admitted it was my first time. Strictly massage with HE. Went to that same place for a year or so before I discovered FS places.Nothing less was satisfying ever again...

 

[Steve44]

First off , leave your badge at home. Always smile and be polite, don't be a dick. Be playful ,talk to the ladies like they're people not pieces of meat. Eaglesfan has some other suggestions that are fun.

 

[Massages4Tony]

Damn, so walking in with my dick hanging out is wrong?

 

[index6237]

Damn, so walking in with my dick hanging out is wrong?

I only do that when grocery shopping.

 

[alexpunter]

So - how was your experiene for the first time? My first time was only a massage.and the 2. time, too. I picked the same time and than the 3. time she did more than only a massage and i loved it. I went back couples of times to see the same girl.

 

[nickman]

Be clean , be respectful, if they ask .... been here before ? Always say yes . A menu will come out . Test limits , be touchy, feel a ass cheek , roam a bit, if she grabs your hand , probably no menu. Don’t try a finger in. If she’s wearing a dress or skirt , lift it up and take a peek, no panties on ? There’s full menu ! If she whispers... what u want ? Don’t be shy ? It’s your 1st rodeo, not theirs .

As you say, always say yes if asked if you have been here before. Even if they know you are lying, they will know that you know enough to lie and say yes.

 

[eaglesfan48]

If you say “ no” never here before , they might clam up & not be as open if you say sure I was here before . They don’t remember every client .

 

[Unaffected65]

Be clean , be respectful, if they ask .... been here before ? Always say yes . A menu will come out . Test limits , be touchy, feel a ass cheek , roam a bit, if she grabs your hand , probably no menu. Don’t try a finger in. If she’s wearing a dress or skirt , lift it up and take a peek, no panties on ? There’s full menu ! If she whispers... what u want ? Don’t be shy ? It’s your 1st rodeo, not theirs .

I’m local, new to this whole thing, any areas in montco good?

 

[BKLaFlare]

As you say, always say yes if asked if you have been here before. Even if they know you are lying, they will know that you know enough to lie and say yes.

I read this advice somewhere back when I first started but I still don’t get it sometimes..some places in NY and north NJ you gotta get screened/verified and then you can partake. Multiple times on my first actual visits I had the girl ask me if I’d been there before even though I finished screening a few min ago..when I said yes she relaxed and was natural but when I said no the first time at a different place. they tensed up. Does MMS not talk with these girls? I thought they would know who just got through screening, etc