I've been mongering since the late 80's before this business exploded into what it is today. There was always a standard tipping protocol, everyone stayed consistent. So why are so many mongers tipping so much more than they have to in today's world??? If the standard tip is 140 roses, why are you tipping 200 roses because the smart mongers behind you that are staying consistent are going home with extra 60 roses and they are getting the exact same service that you just got. Makes no sense to me.
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Pls help me to understand...
- Thread starter Kingbear2u2
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I’m not sure. I don’t understand it. When I started this hobby last summer, I did a ton of research and stumbled upon this site and it was very resourceful and helpful. (I’ve been since banned for whatever reason on this site, made a new account and gone back to reviewing and helping)
I wouldn’t say I have a “rotation” but I see two women at various spots in the state, where I give 200 roses on top of the HF. I’m not going to state their names on here, PM me if you’d like. But the level of service and familiarity I get from these two women are insane, where I feel like they deserve it every time I see them. Call me dumb, call me smart, agree or disagree. But that’s just me and to each his own.
But it baffles me to read the rose amount on here for some reviews and I scratch my head
I wouldn’t say I have a “rotation” but I see two women at various spots in the state, where I give 200 roses on top of the HF. I’m not going to state their names on here, PM me if you’d like. But the level of service and familiarity I get from these two women are insane, where I feel like they deserve it every time I see them. Call me dumb, call me smart, agree or disagree. But that’s just me and to each his own.
But it baffles me to read the rose amount on here for some reviews and I scratch my head
There are many different reasons.
They may very well be getting better service. We have no idea.
They simply appreciate it more.
They may be in a much better financial situation where the extra 60 means very little to nothing. Someone with a net worth 10x yours can spend 100 like you do 10.
They may simply want to help the girl out some.
Its really no different than giving a bartender or wait staff more than 15-20%. Many people do it.
Whatever the reason it certainly doesn't make the person giving less smarter.
They may very well be getting better service. We have no idea.
They simply appreciate it more.
They may be in a much better financial situation where the extra 60 means very little to nothing. Someone with a net worth 10x yours can spend 100 like you do 10.
They may simply want to help the girl out some.
Its really no different than giving a bartender or wait staff more than 15-20%. Many people do it.
Whatever the reason it certainly doesn't make the person giving less smarter.
If going home with 20 extra bucks or leaving behind 20 extra bucks makes you feel victorious, then enjoy!
Me, I have a set chart in my head of exactly what I will tip for what thing that might happen. I have the HF pile, the basic tip pile, then the extra, third pile. The HF of course goes out right away, the tip pile sits on the table under my glasses for her to look at and touch and do whatever she likes with, so she might know before she even touches her oil bottle exactly what I intend to give her. But only a few know about the third pile, which stays in my pocket. It's there, it's waiting, it's hoping that something will happen to prompt me to touch this pile and split some of it up and give it to her.
But either way, I get what I am there for, and the lady, she gets what she's there for. And you, well, you get the story, and you get to know how much was in the first pile and the second pile, but the third pile, what happens to that pile is between me and her. I feel like coming home with money in that third pile means my hopes were too high in the initial part of that morning, and it's not likely I would like to go back to that place again. Some, cheap bastards like my father, they enjoy to come home with money, because they are cheap bastards, and money means more to them than anything in the universe, even their own pleasure. Of course, while I get BBJ at Hand and Stone, lady typing her cell phone number into my phone, he and his pals get a jackhammer from an old bag at Absecon, who stares at the ceiling hoping it will end soon.
Enjoy the universe, it enjoys whether you do or not!
Me, I have a set chart in my head of exactly what I will tip for what thing that might happen. I have the HF pile, the basic tip pile, then the extra, third pile. The HF of course goes out right away, the tip pile sits on the table under my glasses for her to look at and touch and do whatever she likes with, so she might know before she even touches her oil bottle exactly what I intend to give her. But only a few know about the third pile, which stays in my pocket. It's there, it's waiting, it's hoping that something will happen to prompt me to touch this pile and split some of it up and give it to her.
But either way, I get what I am there for, and the lady, she gets what she's there for. And you, well, you get the story, and you get to know how much was in the first pile and the second pile, but the third pile, what happens to that pile is between me and her. I feel like coming home with money in that third pile means my hopes were too high in the initial part of that morning, and it's not likely I would like to go back to that place again. Some, cheap bastards like my father, they enjoy to come home with money, because they are cheap bastards, and money means more to them than anything in the universe, even their own pleasure. Of course, while I get BBJ at Hand and Stone, lady typing her cell phone number into my phone, he and his pals get a jackhammer from an old bag at Absecon, who stares at the ceiling hoping it will end soon.
Enjoy the universe, it enjoys whether you do or not!
Perhaps, because you’ve been at this for over forty years by your own account, perhaps the times have passed you by and the rise in prices of all goods and services is harder for you to accept. Ex: My father’s house cost $50K, my house $200K, my son’s house $500K. My father could not imagine or fathom the price of my son’s house. Just an example of what I meant by times passing us by.
Really it’s a question of disposable income. I for one don’t go by reviews that often so if a provider says the number is this, then I decide how I feel about it right there on the spot and either pay or leave. I don’t like my mood interrupted by haggling over a few coins. Which thus indicates a tolerance level different than someone else regarding disposable cash. If money is tight to come by for someone they are more likely to be reluctant to part with it.
We live in a world where guys are paying to subscribe to onlyfans accounts where the girl doesn't even get fully nude or posts 5 second videos. There's also such a thing as "pay pigs" who are just poor saps who literally just send money to chicks they may never even meet with zero expectation of even a pic in return.
Some guys really are just "simps" as the kids say. While they don't necessarily ruin it for the rest of us and drive the expectation of providers the possibility of that is definitely there. I've tipped extra once or twice for exceptional performance but we're talking real standouts. IMO the only time extra is provided is when they provide extra.
Some guys really are just "simps" as the kids say. While they don't necessarily ruin it for the rest of us and drive the expectation of providers the possibility of that is definitely there. I've tipped extra once or twice for exceptional performance but we're talking real standouts. IMO the only time extra is provided is when they provide extra.
First off it depends on who u are seeing. You won't get squat from a beautiful eastern Euro for 140. Many of the $$ posts are guys that visited w beautiful Russian girls. For 140 u get a 55 year old Asian woman that mongers say is in good shape but is as shapely as my grandmother. U also get to smell that breath. Everyone knows it. Nobody is ruining anything for u but you. Maybe u need to expand your mind and wallet.
Wasn't offended at all....every response was the same. I added that some see again some euro. U can guess which I prefer... Bottom line is if u can't afford to go to the ballgame u can always watch it on TV for free. Some guys like to go to the game. Some guys have seats behind home plate. Others are upper deck bleacher seats. It's whatever you can afford.
The thread isn't about the cost, it's about tipping extra. That applies whether you're seeing a $100 mamasan or a $1000 porn star. We're not complaining about pricing, we're complaining about the saps that throw extra on top of the cost and the possibility that the girls decide they like that number better which would cost everyone else.
Actually it is about the cost. It's very much about the cost. Because who says what the cost is? If it's the masseuse then they are asking you for what they expect. Don't read what someone here paud and expect that youbare entitled to pay that because someone else did. Your experience is unique to you. What you tip should be unique to you. So many of the dudes here talk about beautiful women and very warm encounters and small talk and hanging w them if they arent pressed for time. ..some discuss how they get to know some of the women. Have u ever left a place thinking " I cant believe what an amazing experience/ interaction I just had with this person and whatever it is that I gave her just couldnt be enough" .. I ve had a few of them and it actually made me question this whole thing... made me question the whole notion that a w....is a w.... no matter what and if u believe any of that wasn't 100% fake, then what a sucker I am".. The guys constantly feeling wronged are likely the guys that they don't want to spend a minute more w than they have to. I'm sorry to put it bluntly and that is to No one in particular.
Now, all that said...it's up to you. If you ask someone how much for your very best massage and she says 200. Then that's what she is happy to take for giving u that massage. Don't worry about what anyone else does because if you keep getting asked for 140 for the best massage then maybe you are one of the guys she really Likes massaging.
Now, all that said...it's up to you. If you ask someone how much for your very best massage and she says 200. Then that's what she is happy to take for giving u that massage. Don't worry about what anyone else does because if you keep getting asked for 140 for the best massage then maybe you are one of the guys she really Likes massaging.