Personally, I have learned to be very careful with someone who is pursuing me. When I'm doing the pursuit it's a different story because I know a little about the person, but when it's the other way around, you should have red flags on high alert. I had one experience, when the person came to my room and afterwards asked for more money, to which I said no, because that's not what was agreed to. Then she began screaming and causing a scene telling me she would call the cops. To make a long story short, buyer beware and do your due diligence. There is a reason why Robert Kraft went to a no name massage parlor. What he should have done is go to a legitimate massage parlor and developed a real relationship and taken it off site. He could have lived it up in obscurity and she would have never known.