Overnight at my hotel?

[Mampr]

One of the girls I saw recently asked if I wanted her to come to my hotel for the night, not just for a few hours and send her home (which I'm sure she'd also be OK with) but to stay overnight. I've seen her a couple of times, she's terrific and the idea had a lot of appeal but a bunch of alarm bells went off.

Things like...I barely know this girl...logical, sensible stuff like that!!

What could go wrong? Well, obviously a lot.

I didn't ask about the economics. Wanted to perhaps come to my senses first.

Soooo, curious what the accumulated wisdom on the forum might be. Has anyone done this and had a bad experience? And better yet, a good experience?

Put another way, am I out of my mind for considering this?

 

[deepstate]

Been there done it 5+ times with young hot Caucasian college girls over the past 10 years. Never met a psycho, ever. Turned into sugar baby relationships.. definitely much cheaper. I broke them all off no problems when it became more like dating / presumed monogamy. There are lots of girls that are looking for relationships. You would be surprised. And there are plenty of Johns trying to take the best girks off the market who are desperate for a hot trophy wife. And People DO get married And have kids.. seen that more than a few times. LOL. Use your spider sense. If it tingles, run away.

 

[Asianluva]

I have had nothing but pure enjoyment doing this. Been using this option for many years. Keep your valuables in your shoes or socks if you’re concerned. I’ve had zero issues with overnights. Sometimes I take them to a mall instead of cash payments. Some never ask for payments. They just need a break from sharing a room with 3 or 4 other roommates.

 

[Nicksuperlover]

Be careful that she doesn’t steal your shit.

 

[Rogermoore]

Be careful that she doesn’t steal your shit.

Or OD and die in your room.

 

[Nicksuperlover]

Or OD and die in your room.

Or drug you, it’s happened. Hookers have no ethics.

 

[turkishrambo007]

I would invite a provider that I have seen before to my hotel room for a few hours, but stay the whole night - no way.

 

[gleenight]

you may wake up with a missing kidney? I don't know if that is real or not...lol

 

[Rogermoore]

Could be disastrous. Terminal.

 

[doofu77]

Are you talking about indie or AMP providers?

 

[Jojor781]

If you don't know the person's real name/ some real details, never invite for over night stay. AMP or Indies doesn't matter... That's how I see it

 

[Nygiants2805]

If you don't know the person's real name/ some real details, never invite for over night stay. AMP or Indies doesn't matter... That's how I see it

In other words.. don't think with your dick bruh

 

[deepstate]

Real names are a given. Most girls are way more afraid of us guys than we are of them. LOL. I have thought with my dick my whole life, and fortunately, I have not gotten into any real trouble. Although posting on this website is pretty stupid!

 

[Erotes]

Real names are a given. Most girls are way more afraid of us guys than we are of them. LOL. I have thought with my dick my whole life, and fortunately, I have not gotten into any real trouble. Although posting on this website is pretty stupid!

Hear hear.

I would say going to an amp is more dangerous than inviting her to your hotel. Consider yourself lucky OP that you can bypass it if you want.

 

[hawaii78]

I feel it is all about setting expectations. Just be straight forward, tell her what you expect and see if that is what she is looking for. I have actually spent a whole extended weekend with a well reviewed provider, she didn't expect anything, but just wanted to spend time with me. It turned out to be a very fun filled weekend and both of us had a great time.

We didn't talk about money, but I did give her some money to go shopping, she went and actually bought stuff for me.

She and I are planning another rendezvous soon.

 

[turkishrambo007]

I feel it is all about setting expectations. Just be straight forward, tell her what you expect and see if that is what she is looking for. I have actually spent a whole extended weekend with a well reviewed provider, she didn't expect anything, but just wanted to spend time with me. It turned out to be a very fun filled weekend and both of us had a great time.

We didn't talk about money, but I did give her some money to go shopping, she went and actually bought stuff for me.

She and I are planning another rendezvous soon.

She didn't want money from you? Wow. Where do you guys find women like that? No offence. Sounds too good to be true.

 

[hawaii78]

She didn't want money from you? Wow. Where do you guys find women like that? No offence. Sounds too good to be true.

I just built a relationship with them, and then sky is the limit. I have money, but I never tells these girls that. I just treat them with respect and they trust me and are comfortable around me. Sometimes these girls are looking for friendship and some normalcy. By the way, some of these girls make more than many of us here. A really good provider can clear 1500+ a day. Sometimes it is not about the money.

 

[RJ7]

Listen to your inner self. You are apprehensive for a reason and should be. Avoiding the overnight stay is the right call because it's the wise call.

 

[Mampr]

I appreciate all the comments. Clearly some have had great experiences. No one reported an actual negative one. And many advise the caution I feel.

While I've considered possible harmful outcomes, loss of a kidney hadn't been on my radar screen.

But the possibility of being robbed while sleeping certainly was. (To assure she (and my wallet) would still be there in the morning I was thinking of insisting we both put our wallets and phones in the room safe, explaining that I always do it as a security precaution.)

While, if all went well, it could be a lot of fun, I have (very reluctantly) decided, as many of you counselled, to follow my instincts and not do it.

Again, I appreciate the thoughtful comments.

 

[JediX]

I started reading this thread by thinking that I would definitely not do it. After reading people's posts, I now would do it if I were in the OPs situation. Money and wallet can be put into the safe.

Lots of upside as stated above. The downside is physical harm but that can be motivated by exchange of personal phone numbers and getting to know the person over dinner prior to the event.

I would go for it.