As many of you know, I do on occasion enjoy going off on an extended holier-than-thou rant. But recently I met a popular J girl and had a bit of conversation I found moderately heartening. So I thought I should balance out the books.
Very sweet GND pretty girl. Good time. One of those girls I might pursue out of the shop if I were 20 years younger. Well, I have some potentially good news for one lucky bloke next time she comes. She's hoping to return on a student visa. Then she told me she wants an English speaking boyfriend to help her learn. I said I bet by now you have lots of guys for you to choose from who will happily volunteer. She smiles sheepishly: yes, lots of nice men. This felt genuine - after all, it's not like she's complimenting ME when she says that. What does she have to gain with such a lie? It was almost like she might be considering the possibility for real. (Also, interesting, as a sex-worker back home, she says doesn't like sleeping with Japanese guys. To my surprise she says they smell like homeless people. Heh. Sweet, but this one also has a funny edge to her).
So there you go. Seems a good chunk of us are being well-behaved, and gentlemanly enough (and better smelling than our Japanese brethren) as we exploit her and she exploits us that she would consider auditioning several of you for the limited-time role of boyfriend/English practice partner. Good going, guys! You're not all obvious lunatics, stalkers or rapists who deserve to be drawn and quartered! Yay us! Go get her, tigers!
While I myself can't accept the position if offered, on her return I may submit myself for further interviews anyway, as the interview process itself is about as pleasant of an HR experience as you can come across these days.
And don't worry, I feel a new anti-lunatic screed welling up from within in reaction to some other threads......
Very sweet GND pretty girl. Good time. One of those girls I might pursue out of the shop if I were 20 years younger. Well, I have some potentially good news for one lucky bloke next time she comes. She's hoping to return on a student visa. Then she told me she wants an English speaking boyfriend to help her learn. I said I bet by now you have lots of guys for you to choose from who will happily volunteer. She smiles sheepishly: yes, lots of nice men. This felt genuine - after all, it's not like she's complimenting ME when she says that. What does she have to gain with such a lie? It was almost like she might be considering the possibility for real. (Also, interesting, as a sex-worker back home, she says doesn't like sleeping with Japanese guys. To my surprise she says they smell like homeless people. Heh. Sweet, but this one also has a funny edge to her).
So there you go. Seems a good chunk of us are being well-behaved, and gentlemanly enough (and better smelling than our Japanese brethren) as we exploit her and she exploits us that she would consider auditioning several of you for the limited-time role of boyfriend/English practice partner. Good going, guys! You're not all obvious lunatics, stalkers or rapists who deserve to be drawn and quartered! Yay us! Go get her, tigers!
While I myself can't accept the position if offered, on her return I may submit myself for further interviews anyway, as the interview process itself is about as pleasant of an HR experience as you can come across these days.
And don't worry, I feel a new anti-lunatic screed welling up from within in reaction to some other threads......