Married Mongers

[didi88]

I've been stunned at the rate Asian women cheat; its at least double the cheating rate of White women. Maybe more.

Agree about the Asian women, in general . In China, the percentage of married guys with GFs is even greater than it is here. Most successful married guys there have younger GFs, sometimes more than one. It’s almost a status symbol . This attitude carries over to the women as well, but obviously not to the same degree

 

[Uniquelyme]

I am not married but I understand the sentimate. All women need love! It seems so do men

Yes everyone needs love. However don't kid yourself these providers do not love you.

 

[Uniquelyme]

White women suck

They do I just fuck em. I would never Marry one.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Marriage makes perfect sense for women. It has lot of benefits for them, especially if their husband is a good provider and treats them with respect. Even so, a lot of women overplay their hand, end up getting divorced (many times initiating the process) and then find out what a huge mistake they made after they are single again. By that time, they're probably 40+ and not nearly as thin or attractive as they used to be. It never occurs to many of them that pussy has a limited shelf life. I really think this is due to all the BS feminist propaganda. These girls really start to believe that shit. Oops.

For young men, marriage often sounds good, thanks to all the propaganda put out by society (it was much more pre 1990 than today). When I was in my 20s, I was actually eager to find a wife; and I did find a good one. But then it slowly dawns on the man, usually over the course of decades, that they are getting the short end of the stick. Still, if you want to have kids that turn out okay, marriage is the way to go. If I had to do it all over again, I would probably have postponed marriage another 15-20 years and then married someone a lot younger than I was. And probably an Asian too. I say probably because I've been stunned at the rate Asian women cheat; its at least double the cheating rate of White women. Maybe more.

Great post. Here is how you combat getting the short end of the stick. Marry a Woman that makes more than you. I've got a co-worker. She earns approximately $300k per yr. Ive played around and told her I don't make enough to be with you after she playfully said she could picture us being together as a couple in a few yrs (she wants the attention) I'm typically indifferent towards co-workers.

She's said she doesn't care I make less she has her own. I would encourage a Woman that makes good money to keep at it. Treat em well and fuck em well. I feel Women who earn a lot and are in a male driven environment at work also gravitate towards being pleased sexually as Men do.

Also yes I get the feeling Asian Women cheat more at least Chinese than most other races... Well black Women are known as big time cheaters also.

Lastly Im glad you mentiond pussy shelf life. This is why I try not to see any pros over 35. I haven't in years.

 

[Mara_massage]

Great post. Here is how you combat getting the short end of the stick. Marry a Woman that makes more than you. I've got a co-worker. She earns approximately $300k per yr. Ive played around and told her I don't make enough to be with you after she playfully said she could picture us being together as a couple in a few yrs (she wants the attention) I'm typically indifferent towards co-workers.

She's said she doesn't care I make less she has her own. I would encourage a Woman that makes good money to keep at it. Treat em well and fuck em well. I feel Women who earn a lot and are in a male driven environment at work also gravitate towards being pleased sexually as Men do.

Also yes I get the feeling Asian Women cheat more at least Chinese than most other races... Well black Women are known as big time cheaters also.

Lastly Im glad you mentiond pussy shelf life. This is why I try not to see any pros over 35. I haven't in years.

300k a year !! What does She do ?? Wow !!!!

 

[Freddy]

Just remember that Asian "rabbit holes" are very deep. Never fall into one without your saftey rope to pull yourself out. They can be very hard to recover from.

The benefit of the "Ol Rabbit hole", yes, benefit, I stood at the opening of a deep rabbit hole, I dislodged the safety harness and dove in headlong, no pun intended, its where I discovered just how vast this thing called mongering was, paid a dear price, that's for sure but money well spent, I also became aware of the many personalities when dealing with these lovely hustlers, now my approach is well informed, after hearing just about everything from multiple providers its become second nature to me, I'm no longer surprised how versed some of these women are, they perceive when they can't get one over on you, they hear it in your counter to their offer or see it in your eyes and body language. One example from early on, the Mamasan of a spa tells me to stay after I wasn't interested in the next up, mamasan tells me "no problem, I have young beautiful girl for you" So I cover HF, go to the room, undress, after several minutes an old saggy woman comes to my room, I guess they figure I'll just accept her, I asked her to leave the room, mama quickly comes to my room, I ask her for the young, beautiful girl she mentioned,
"oh, she busy now, she had appointment", instead of walking out then and there I told mama, "no problem, I'll wait for young girl". Mama left and sent yet another girl, a bit younger than the previous, yet didn't appeal to me, so I get dressed, walked back to the entry area (cage) mamasan tells me "no refund", I told her "you're going to give me the young girl or to give back my fee today" she took a minute, then she gave back my donation. Most guys would have done as I would have in the past, that is, TOFTT, stayed, got a session with an unattractive provider and hated myself afterwards for compromising. I have read tons of reviews, details of a lackluster session, the money that was wasted knowing from the get go the initial provider just wasn't to their liking, fuck that, I ain't staying, you can't make me. A rabbit hole is a tough place to be stuck in, ask me how I know, it can also be where you learn not only about this massage parlor lifestyle, but also about yourself.

 

[Freddy]

Agree about the Asian women, in general . In China, the percentage of married guys with GFs is even greater than it is here. Most successful married guys there have younger GFs, sometimes more than one. It’s almost a status symbol . This attitude carries over to the women as well, but obviously not to the same degree

I don't know about men in China having GF's, shit, there ain't enough women to go around in China, its so lacking in young beautiful girls one would desire to have, that China has to import beautiful Vietnamese and other Asian girls to fill the void. Once Chinese girls turn 30 they are considered undesirable for marriage, they end up coming here for us to enjoy. There are 10 Chinese men to every 1 Chinese girl or something near that count. Lots of robots being bought and sold over in that country and Chinese men are turning to other men for relations, go figure. To give birth to a girl in China is frowned upon, a boy is much more desirable, how's that working out for you China?

 

[Itslian]

Would you have sex with your ATF's girlfriend at a spa? And would you approach her without your friend knowing it.?

 

[Wayne1250]

No, I never see rwo girls at the same spa.

 

[Waterboy]

Would you have sex with your ATF's girlfriend at a spa? And would you approach her without your friend knowing it.?

Yes and no, she would (has) suggested it.

 

[didi88]

I don't know about men in China having GF's, shit, there ain't enough women to go around in China, its so lacking in young beautiful girls one would desire to have, that China has to import beautiful Vietnamese and other Asian girls to fill the void. Once Chinese girls turn 30 they are considered undesirable for marriage, they end up coming here for us to enjoy. There are 10 Chinese men to every 1 Chinese girl or something near that count. Lots of robots being bought and sold over in that country and Chinese men are turning to other men for relations, go figure. To give birth to a girl in China is frowned upon, a boy is much more desirable, how's that working out for you China?

The male:female ratio in China is 52:48. There is no lack of beautiful young girls available and it’s not surprising that guys who are successful and well-off can have their choice. So those guys almost all have GFs tucked away on the side. If you’re a working class guy, it’s whole different story

 

[RonBlanco]

Guilt = conscience, listen to it, it's guiding you. This game is not for the faint of heart. Side note: always intrigued by mongers who have a hot (their description) Asian wife at home who fucks, sucks cleans and cooks but they still risk it all by visiting AMPS. Head scratcher for me.

Like my friend says: if my wife would even give me a HJ once in a while I'd never stray... everything's relative, right?

This. This all day. My wife KNOWS I've had a thing for Asian girls since childhood, and sometimes I can't help but think if I were married to an Asian gal, would I still want to stray? I suppose OP has semi answered this question.
As for me, I'm still just trying to figure all this shit out. Even with this "hobby", I still consider myself a person of faith. And I am incredibly conflicted. But there are reasons, there's always reasons. I promised myself 2018 would be it, and I managed to make it nearly 3 months before breaking that promise days ago. I want to be done with it. But right now she's out of town helping family out and I'm holding the fort down in the meantime. So the urge seems greater. Aside from the obvious, I want to be done because this shit isn't cheap, and it's a distraction to other shit I should be doing, quite frankly. But, I never had a "young and crazy" phase, didn't have a helluva lot of sexual experiences prior to my wife. So yeah, I'm trying to have my cake and eat it too I suppose. I don't want this to be a regular thing. I was warned just before starting that it will become harder & harder to stop, and I can't say that warning was wrong. It was a 2 year thing that I'm trying to cut before year 3 is counted. But that's just me. I've read some of your stories and honestly I completely get why your mongering. But after those vows man, shit changes. Sex becomes a leprechaun riding a fuckin unicorn over a rainbow. I like my nuts daily at least, and tried to work out a system of at least every other day. But that shit went right out the window. And so I stray. Mostly to porn, but more occasionally, to FS. And what I can honestly say in two years of being a "budget" mongerer, nothing has topped fucking/making love to my wife. And I really feel like there's something to be said there.
Let's face it the shit's like takeout. What we having tonight? Chinese? Mexican? Soul food? Overpriced and ultimately unsatisfying Russian? But my favorite is always a good home cooked meal. Just wish I had more of it. And at the very least, I've never put "them" over her. Never will. That's my run on two cents. Thanks, gents

 

[Waterboy]

This. This all day. My wife KNOWS I've had a thing for Asian girls since childhood, and sometimes I can't help but think if I were married to an Asian gal, would I still want to stray? I suppose OP has semi answered this question.
As for me, I'm still just trying to figure all this shit out. Even with this "hobby", I still consider myself a person of faith. And I am incredibly conflicted. But there are reasons, there's always reasons. I promised myself 2018 would be it, and I managed to make it nearly 3 months before breaking that promise days ago. I want to be done with it. But right now she's out of town helping family out and I'm holding the fort down in the meantime. So the urge seems greater. Aside from the obvious, I want to be done because this shit isn't cheap, and it's a distraction to other shit I should be doing, quite frankly. But, I never had a "young and crazy" phase, didn't have a helluva lot of sexual experiences prior to my wife. So yeah, I'm trying to have my cake and eat it too I suppose. I don't want this to be a regular thing. I was warned just before starting that it will become harder & harder to stop, and I can't say that warning was wrong. It was a 2 year thing that I'm trying to cut before year 3 is counted. But that's just me. I've read some of your stories and honestly I completely get why your mongering. But after those vows man, shit changes. Sex becomes a leprechaun riding a fuckin unicorn over a rainbow. I like my nuts daily at least, and tried to work out a system of at least every other day. But that shit went right out the window. And so I stray. Mostly to porn, but more occasionally, to FS. And what I can honestly say in two years of being a "budget" mongerer, nothing has topped fucking/making love to my wife. And I really feel like there's something to be said there.
Let's face it the shit's like takeout. What we having tonight? Chinese? Mexican? Soul food? Overpriced and ultimately unsatisfying Russian? But my favorite is always a good home cooked meal. Just wish I had more of it. And at the very least, I've never put "them" over her. Never will. That's my run on two cents. Thanks, gents

Don't take this the wrong way, but it sounds like you love your wife and have a strong marriage. My suggestion is stay off this forum and quit the hobby. Work it out at home. Good luck.

 

[BillaBong]

Guilt = conscience, listen to it, it's guiding you. This game is not for the faint of heart. Side note: always intrigued by mongers who have a hot (their description) Asian wife at home who fucks, sucks cleans and cooks but they still risk it all by visiting AMPS. Head scratcher for me.

Like my friend says: if my wife would even give me a HJ once in a while I'd never stray... everything's relative, right?

I had all of that until 2 years ago when she turned over 45..and then lost interest.I spent 2+miserable years trying to get what I want thru her by succumbing to all the shopping and spending she wants.. however things did not improve.All I heard is how other of her friends are also doing the same to their husbands and somehow men need to understand women.
So in short, I never knew what a massage parlor is until 4 months ago...It doesn't replace what I miss it but helps a lot to cope...

 

[kgmspa]

This. This all day. My wife KNOWS I've had a thing for Asian girls since childhood, and sometimes I can't help but think if I were married to an Asian gal, would I still want to stray? I suppose OP has semi answered this question.
As for me, I'm still just trying to figure all this shit out. Even with this "hobby", I still consider myself a person of faith. And I am incredibly conflicted. But there are reasons, there's always reasons. I promised myself 2018 would be it, and I managed to make it nearly 3 months before breaking that promise days ago. I want to be done with it. But right now she's out of town helping family out and I'm holding the fort down in the meantime. So the urge seems greater. Aside from the obvious, I want to be done because this shit isn't cheap, and it's a distraction to other shit I should be doing, quite frankly. But, I never had a "young and crazy" phase, didn't have a helluva lot of sexual experiences prior to my wife. So yeah, I'm trying to have my cake and eat it too I suppose. I don't want this to be a regular thing. I was warned just before starting that it will become harder & harder to stop, and I can't say that warning was wrong. It was a 2 year thing that I'm trying to cut before year 3 is counted. But that's just me. I've read some of your stories and honestly I completely get why your mongering. But after those vows man, shit changes. Sex becomes a leprechaun riding a fuckin unicorn over a rainbow. I like my nuts daily at least, and tried to work out a system of at least every other day. But that shit went right out the window. And so I stray. Mostly to porn, but more occasionally, to FS. And what I can honestly say in two years of being a "budget" mongerer, nothing has topped fucking/making love to my wife. And I really feel like there's something to be said there.
Let's face it the shit's like takeout. What we having tonight? Chinese? Mexican? Soul food? Overpriced and ultimately unsatisfying Russian? But my favorite is always a good home cooked meal. Just wish I had more of it. And at the very least, I've never put "them" over her. Never will. That's my run on two cents. Thanks, gents

Face it - you are addicted to touch by women other than your wife!

If you really wish to rid yourself of the addiction there is only one way - STOP.

Not worth torchering youself! Decide what you want!

Whatever you do try and be Happy!

 

[Schecter42]

I had all of that until 2 years ago when she turned over 45..and then lost interest.I spent 2+miserable years trying to get what I want thru her by succumbing to all the shopping and spending she wants.. however things did not improve.All I heard is how other of her friends are also doing the same to their husbands and somehow men need to understand women.
So in short, I never knew what a massage parlor is until 4 months ago...It doesn't replace what I miss it but helps a lot to cope...

So she's not even willing to give you a 10 minute HJ every day or every other day? Even if the wife has lost interest in her own pleasure, it would seem to me that if she isn't willing to give 10 minutes a day for her husbands pleasure, she is not fully committed to the marriage. If that's the case, I see nothing wrong with going to amps.

 

[Schecter42]

Face it - you are addicted to touch by women other than your wife!

If you really wish to rid yourself of the addiction there is only one way - STOP.

Not worth torchering youself! Decide what you want!

Whatever you do try and be Happy!

How can you just stop? The only way to stop is if you have something else in life that provides an equivalent amount of pleasure. What in the world would that be? No such thing.

 

[kgmspa]

This. This all day. My wife KNOWS I've had a thing for Asian girls since childhood, and sometimes I can't help but think if I were married to an Asian gal, would I still want to stray? I suppose OP has semi answered this question.
As for me, I'm still just trying to figure all this shit out. Even with this "hobby", I still consider myself a person of faith. And I am incredibly conflicted. But there are reasons, there's always reasons. I promised myself 2018 would be it, and I managed to make it nearly 3 months before breaking that promise days ago. I want to be done with it. But right now she's out of town helping family out and I'm holding the fort down in the meantime. So the urge seems greater. Aside from the obvious, I want to be done because this shit isn't cheap, and it's a distraction to other shit I should be doing, quite frankly. But, I never had a "young and crazy" phase, didn't have a helluva lot of sexual experiences prior to my wife. So yeah, I'm trying to have my cake and eat it too I suppose. I don't want this to be a regular thing. I was warned just before starting that it will become harder & harder to stop, and I can't say that warning was wrong. It was a 2 year thing that I'm trying to cut before year 3 is counted. But that's just me. I've read some of your stories and honestly I completely get why your mongering. But after those vows man, shit changes. Sex becomes a leprechaun riding a fuckin unicorn over a rainbow. I like my nuts daily at least, and tried to work out a system of at least every other day. But that shit went right out the window. And so I stray. Mostly to porn, but more occasionally, to FS. And what I can honestly say in two years of being a "budget" mongerer, nothing has topped fucking/making love to my wife. And I really feel like there's something to be said there.
Let's face it the shit's like takeout. What we having tonight? Chinese? Mexican? Soul food? Overpriced and ultimately unsatisfying Russian? But my favorite is always a good home cooked meal. Just wish I had more of it. And at the very least, I've never put "them" over her. Never will. That's my run on two cents. Thanks, gents

Short of giving up your attraction to asian women you might also consider just going for massage! No HE just really good massage! You will still get a rush and you can still have fantasy

 

[kgmspa]

How can you just stop? The only way to stop is if you have something else in life that provides an equivalent amount of pleasure. What in the world would that be? No such thing.

Yes I know, I just posted a follow up.

 

[RonBlanco]

Short of giving up your attraction to asian women you might also consider just going for massage! No HE just really good massage! You will still get a rush and you can still have fantasy

My attraction is/has been under control for a long time, most of my closest friends are Chinese, and yes I have had & do have a provider who just gives a really good legit massage, no hanky panky. Thanks for your feedback!