i'd venture to say that 99% of dudes don't have the requisite abs and butt to bang a chick to the stratosphere. Chicks dig dudes with abs and butts. Am sure Sean Connery tickled all the ladies' interest in that way. If you have sore abs or tris or butt the day after visiting an AMP or indy, you aren't ready for regular chicks. Maybe chicks have some magic sense that even mit shirt on they know you don't have abs? Like if they look at your forearms and they're like straight you know your watch would fit on your elbow same as on your wrist, they already know you can't fuck. If they look at your watch and see the band is on the second tightest hole, they know you won't make their pussy go inside out.
I have three daughters, and now two nieces who live with me. I see the younger girls now are going more for the effeminate dudes, you know, with the frosted tips and tight jeans and necklaces and slippers, talk with a lisp, have just barely enough strength to lift an 8 ounce RedBull. So, if you're upset that chicks aren't going for you, you have the option of either getting some bigtime confidence and also getting you some abs, OR, start dressing like a homosexual. Those seem like the dudes chicks like. Also felons and drug dealers and dudes who live in motels two nights a week.