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I lost my mojo

haaretz

I PUT SUNGLASSES ON MY WIENER!
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One thing is tapes, CD's and downloads never skip like our old vinyl records. I feel like an old record repeating the same thing sometimes.

This is a back ass way of meeting a girl. It starts first with sex, then you may start to repeat and get to know her as a person. The sex may be great buy there can be more to it. Sometimes just seeing her for a casual date and conversation is even better. If you are going to just keep the connection alive, just ask her to lunch or something. Or bring something to share in the shop if she can't get out.

Mojo comes in different forms, you just might find that she needs the same human connection and friendship. So don't worry if your sex drive isn't always 100%.
These gals understand the reverse engineering part fairly well.
 

Stickem54

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Perhaps I’m done, I don’t know how or why, I just haven’t had the urge, it’s been 10 days now I ain’t touched a provider, I did get a therapeutic only massage but that’s it. I’ve communicated with a couple favorites, gave one a ride home last Sunday night, but didn’t discuss my place or her’s, just drove her home and bounced, physically I feel fine, I still go to sleep and wake up semi aroused as usual, my appetite just isn’t there, I’m thinking about provider’s without the overwhelming sense to make a visit. Any thoughts or experiences you care to share or critique is fine with me, thanks.
I know the feeling but I have been doing this for quite awhile. It could b that u having been doing this so long what else is there to c. Could b age once u get into ur 60s things do slow down. Not sure where u r in the hobbyist life cycle.
 

East Lake II

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I'm having similar issues, Mike. Sometimes I'm going to the spa just because I'm bored. Sometimes it's because I feel like I have to, because of my long relationship with the provider. But very seldom is it because I'm REALLY looking forward to the sexual part.

And I'm seldom leaving the spa super-elated like I would have 3-4 years ago. I still enjoy the time with the women, but a lot of sessions have me feeling ambivalent about the outing.

I definitely need to cut back from the 2-3 times a week schedule I've been on. Just like we need time to recover from a pop, on a larger scale we need time to recover from the whole emotional and physical encounter. At least I do.
All true ! Well said.
 

East Lake II

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I’m finding that even when I’m outside the spa with them having a good time I’m getting bored. They are pretty, fun and even pay for the dinner and after dinner entertainment and I’m bored. I’m wondering where this is going. It seems to be going in a circle. Like one of those whirlpools you see going down the drain.
 

KiteEnvy

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The only reason I find this board worthwhile are conversations like this one, the one on Over 50, etc. For someone who has been doing this hobby and seeing independent providers for over 20 years I certainly understand what you are saying. I fly well below the radar as I’m extremely private, but will try to contribute more to discussions like this. Thanks for being candid and open.
 

Chiparlor

Has Decided to Walk on Earth.
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Low on $? Low on Testosterone? Low on Serotonin? Aint a urologist and a neurologist here. Maybe add a new hobby such as exercise buddy/gal, golfing, fishing? Leaning on getting bored with limited choices in your area and higher stress due to external interventions such as s/h trafficking.
 

lovers

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really they pay for you dinner??wow. you must be a really special person that they go out with you. and jeopardize the job to go out and pay for your dinner!!!! i believe that its always one that will take that risk, but the way you talk is that every provider that you have a session with you, its willing to loose hear job to go out with you and even pay for you dinner, some them, they willing to go out with you for just 2 beers, and this people on this forum they actually believe you !!!!! come guys get a life, and let this women do their JOB.
 

kgirler

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really they pay for you dinner??wow. you must be a really special person that they go out with you. and jeopardize the job to go out and pay for your dinner!!!! i believe that its always one that will take that risk, but the way you talk is that every provider that you have a session with you, its willing to loose hear job to go out with you and even pay for you dinner, some them, they willing to go out with you for just 2 beers, and this people on this forum they actually believe you !!!!! come guys get a life, and let this women do their JOB.
They frequently pay for dinner, shopping, presents, etc. In the end you pay for the Rolex. That’s the way it goes in a patriarchal society that is in reality controlled by women. Its not just a spa girl thing. It’s most women and it’s as old as history.

A friend once told me “women own half of the money and ALL of the pussy”.
 

Wayne1250

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It takes time for a girl to get comfortable enough to trust and go out of the spa with you. No not everyone of them will, but if you develop a special connection it does happen.

They can be very generous, but I find they reciprocate paying sometimes if you have been paying previously. It kind of works like any other relationship.

If a girl goes out with you they are not sneaking out and risking their job. The MMS or Emo knows in advance and has to okay it. It definitely helps if you know the Emo and are a regular customer.

So one can be a naysayer but things like this happen more than you know. It's just another part of enjoying the wonderful girls in this business.
 

Uniquelyme

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really they pay for you dinner??wow. you must be a really special person that they go out with you. and jeopardize the job to go out and pay for your dinner!!!! i believe that its always one that will take that risk, but the way you talk is that every provider that you have a session with you, its willing to loose hear job to go out with you and even pay for you dinner, some them, they willing to go out with you for just 2 beers, and this people on this forum they actually believe you !!!!! come guys get a life, and let this women do their JOB.
Why would they lose their job paying for dinner and going out with him?? They ain't losing their job for that.

In fact the popular ones aren't Even getting told anything hardly ever about something like that. Most wouldn't.
 

lovers

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I really don’t think any one is is buying your bullshit . Maybe if you look like TOM CRUISE but that I really don’t think you are LoL do your self a favor get a life even these girls at spa they think your are joke . Actually get your self real girlfriend. Going to this spa it got to your had it’s tine you come down to earth
 

Uniquelyme

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I’m finding that even when I’m outside the spa with them having a good time I’m getting bored. They are pretty, fun and even pay for the dinner and after dinner entertainment and I’m bored. I’m wondering where this is going. It seems to be going in a circle. Like one of those whirlpools you see going down the drain.

Stop seeing them for a while. I couldn't even imagine going to see a spa girl or any pro cause I'm bored. I've gone cause I wanna smash. In the past 8+ yrs of hobbying ive taken 3 breaks one for 1+ yrs another for about a yr and now for the past 8 mos. Breaks are good. Get another hobby. If you want to see some SA girls or go to a bar etc. I couldn't solely JUST mainly fuck pros EVER.

Your type of indifference probably make them intrigued it usually has that affect on Women.
 

mikemendez

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I'm having similar issues, Mike. Sometimes I'm going to the spa just because I'm bored. Sometimes it's because I feel like I have to, because of my long relationship with the provider. But very seldom is it because I'm REALLY looking forward to the sexual part.

And I'm seldom leaving the spa super-elated like I would have 3-4 years ago. I still enjoy the time with the women, but a lot of sessions have me feeling ambivalent about the outing.

I definitely need to cut back from the 2-3 times a week schedule I've been on. Just like we need time to recover from a pop, on a larger scale we need time to recover from the whole emotional and physical encounter. At least I do.
Physically speaking,
I still feel intact, it’s like my rationale has taken the driver’s seat so to speak.
 

Hardrobert

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As we get older this becomes more common. For the majority of us.
10 days isn't the end of the world. Chocolate cake every day on demand eventually becomes spinach.
Good news is it comes back. For the majority of us.
But I like spinach. I even like it with olive oil.
I have found that as I age it is the anticipation of the act that stimulates the brain cells more than the actual activity. Also, I am much more into receiving a good massage and hj, bj, pm, than fs. The fs requires work, and there is always that little devil in your head that is going "how am I doing?, is she enjoying it? How do I compare to the 10,000 other guys?"
So, as far as the mojo, relax, and approach it a little differently, and selfishly. You are doing it (or not) for your pleasure - the receiving of pleasurable physical feelings. Leave mo and jo outside, and let the provider provide.
 
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