How to break the ice at a "legit" place?

[markkennedy]

Am traveling now so can't go into deep detail right now, but I can give you some warnings about your venture.

If she's not Asian, and she is licensed, personally if nothing happened when she saw your hard dick and it's your third visit, I'd just go back for the massage only. Women who are licensed massage therapists go fucking berserk about the hobby and mongers like they are protecting fort Knox. I've seen discussions among these types like we are offending them to their core and even asking about it will result in police contact.

Have enjoyed the art of ymmv for more than three decades, can share tips on success in pm if you like.

 

[noobtothisgame]

Easy peasy. Heft donation, man.

 

[sxpm]

This has been the main crux of the hobby for me for the last three years. I even have a Flushing Sensei who guides me. Some of my reviews cover this. For me, it’s 3x then move on. If in the first visit I don’t get a vibe I don’t invest. My signature move is not a big tip at the front end, I’ve lost a lot of money taking that advice. And, it’s not stroking myself off. Where’s the sport in that? It’s not the elbow in the cooch and it’s not the rubbing of the legs.

The signature move that works 8 out of 10 times, the move that has set me up with steady foxy young Chinese girlfriends at my local legit spas - and, mind you, the fellow who said there’s no such thing as a legit spa - oh, there certainly is. My go to place now is so legit I’m knuckle deep with my girl while I listen to the gal getting a facial next door chatting about her college student son. Definitely legit crossing over. And I’m not talking about a sneaky handjob but full on making love - yea, the signature move is seductive and trusting and gives them something no other guy gives them because every poor sod tries the same tricks over and over. The signature move…or, shoot, the phone’s ringing. Gotta go. But trust me. It works.

 

[paco2888]

Well played!!!

 

[dynamohum]

Just bookmarked this thread for future reference, thank you!

 

[Apersonaperson]

This has been the main crux of the hobby for me for the last three years. I even have a Flushing Sensei who guides me. Some of my reviews cover this. For me, it’s 3x then move on. If in the first visit I don’t get a vibe I don’t invest. My signature move is not a big tip at the front end, I’ve lost a lot of money taking that advice. And, it’s not stroking myself off. Where’s the sport in that? It’s not the elbow in the cooch and it’s not the rubbing of the legs.

The signature move that works 8 out of 10 times, the move that has set me up with steady foxy young Chinese girlfriends at my local legit spas - and, mind you, the fellow who said there’s no such thing as a legit spa - oh, there certainly is. My go to place now is so legit I’m knuckle deep with my girl while I listen to the gal getting a facial next door chatting about her college student son. Definitely legit crossing over. And I’m not talking about a sneaky handjob but full on making love - yea, the signature move is seductive and trusting and gives them something no other guy gives them because every poor sod tries the same tricks over and over. The signature move…or, shoot, the phone’s ringing. Gotta go. But trust me. It works.

So what is the signature move lol

 

[sxpm]

So what is the signature move lol

Thanks for asking! You’re the only one who has asked. It’s quite simple, really. The signature move takes place strategically, just when, at some point, they go through the litany of finger popping. Wait until they get to your middle finger, then — just as they are in the process of popping the middle finger, resist — hold back on that finger — don’t let them pop it! Trust me. They will laugh and then blow you.

 

[Latinhobbyists]

How to catch a charge in other words

 

[dynamohum]

I’ve done this sans, wedding band and it works! Book mark this thread, y’all!

 

[sxpm]

My other signature move is to wait until about 10-minutes into the massage, then stop them and confess - Hey, I think today I’m just going to have a massage. I’ll still tip you very well, but you give a great massage, so I just want to relax and enjoy it.”

It messes with their equilibrium and they find themselves exploring what you may possibly have meant.