Yeah, you are right, I was trying to help him. The problem is (I think) he's faking, pretending he's more successful than he is. I think he's got big social rejection hurts, like a lot of nerds do. I do think he's a high tech nerd, who is pretty socially inept.
Notably, I can't get straight answers out of him, like who are the kgirl's he has seen, whether he actually got in LSC. When I ask, he reflexively flips the situation making me the crazy, presumably so he doesn't feel so hurt, similar to sulking.
Maybe I'm wriong, but his Sweet Angels comment suggests he hasn't gotten in anywhere. At least he isn't trying to lie, but maybe knows if he lies, he will get outed. Sometimes I think he's catfishing me, but I think the hurt is real from getting excluded from the korg club, but triggers some similar social shunning. But, not because he's afro, but because of his social ineptness and his inability to take responsibility for his hiding behavior where he lashes back when I ask him what should be non-threatening questions (answer private to me), like age, how white or dark he is, can he name kgirls he's seen, if so why hasn't he written a review (I think he would be thrilled to write one if he actually fucked one.). It's actually an opportunity to make me look stupid. But I can't help him without his answering these.
But at this point, I'm thinking I trust the SKS POs instinct to not let him in.