Do you tell anyone?

[Stormfront]

A former GF knew. But, she had to have known as that is how we met (true!).

Once you tell another person, it's no longer a secret.

 

[Swiggy]

My brother mentioned it casually once. Then he mentioned it again and felt it okay to recommend him some places and vice versa

 

[gc2002]

My brother mentioned it casually once. Then he mentioned it again and felt it okay to recommend him some places and vice versa

bros refer hoes?

 

[Bultaco103]

for sure, all women who are not in this hobby (the marrying type) completely resent and despise all women who are. I think they regard them as a kind of competition that they don't want to have to compete against.

Well I bet a marrying type woman would not in any way think they are competition. They are professionals who deliver a service, not marrying type. Marrying type women realize they are in a different league even though they might perform similar services

 

[rottie]

I've told a group of trusted guy friends years ago between my first and second marriages when I wasn't married at the time. I haven't brought it up in years to anyone. My dad once told me about some shit he did when he was married to my mom, and gave me a word of advice, "No good can EVER come from telling people you've cheated. Take it to the grave, son."

 

[Kjay]

bros refer hoes?

Lol... isn’t that what we do here ?

 

[Stormfront]

Lol... isn’t that what we do here ?

If you can't trust a brother (biological or otherwise), who can you trust???

 

[stinkweed56]

Well I bet a marrying type woman would not in any way think they are competition. They are professionals who deliver a service, not marrying type. Marrying type women realize they are in a different league even though they might perform similar services

I guess, what I meant was that, if Mens sexual needs were all met outside marriage, many (or most) wouldn't want to bother with it.

 

[OlderGuy77]

for sure, all women who are not in this hobby (the marrying type) completely resent and despise all women who are. I think they regard them as a kind of competition that they don't want to have to compete against.

My X tried to use sex as a means of control. It got stupid after a while and I moved into the guest room. Losing her weapon left her in a quandary.

 

[stinkweed56]

My X tried to use sex as a means of control. It got stupid after a while and I moved into the guest room. Losing her weapon left her in a quandary.

my wife didn't use it as control, but when having kids was over, her interest in sex completely vanished forever. We havnt slept in same room in over 10 years.

 

[ampgoer]

I keep it to myself and this board.

 

[Coyote]

Maybe go to church and tell the priest

Maybe he might have a suggestion on who to see

 

[Happydaysagain2]

The advantage of getting older is that your wife is willing to pay for you to visit these wonderful spas...

 

[Porkchop]

I tell my long-term GF as she gets a kick out of it. Feels it is simply a good therapeutic thing for me. Even watched/helped a few times. But no one else knows. It’s our secret. So many people just don’t get it, or think it is so strange.

If you break up it won’t be a secret any longer

 

[Porkchop]

I walk in alone, I walk out alone and I like to keep it that way.
It’s my thing I choose not to share with my circle

 

[Dwain]

never!! although maybe when I'm very drunk ... damn I don’t remember

 

[wantedpaul]

It's funny cause I'll bring up the subject with co-workers and so far only one was willing to talk about it.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Just curious. I have been in the hobby my whole adult life and I'm now in my 60;s. I have never told a soul about what I do EVER. It will go with me to the grave.

But some of you have mentioned that you got info from a friend or coworker,leads me to believe some of you aren;t like me.

Who do you tell?

After a few drinks I'll tell anyone who'll listen.
I'm not joking.
There are many people who know what I do. I don't care.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

for sure, all women who are not in this hobby (the marrying type) completely resent and despise all women who are. I think they regard them as a kind of competition that they don't want to have to compete against.

I believe you are correct.
And...well....too damn bad for them.
Females are great at wanting to put guys in boxes. Like this whole "age appropriate" bullshit.
Well, we have cash and can buy young gash.
The civvies can go kick rocks.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Not a single person. I choose not to complicate the lives of others. Right or wrong... is my thing. Of course I wouldn’t rat anyone out if one of my people told me.

I am guessing you are married?
If not, then I do not understand your post -- how talking about this would complicate other people's lives.