I tried to TOFTT here on this new girl Julian(9295937805). She advertises on Eros. Looks like my type as im not really into FS I just like massages. Texted her, she seems very nice and gave me the cross streets to her place a few hours before our appointment(its 34th/6th), very normal stuff so far. But then leading up to the appointment she starts asking about what a look like. Iv had this before so its fine, I told her hair,age,ethnicity and height. No biggie, but the she REALLY stated asking for specific details about me. Body type,eye color,am I alone or with someone,do I have a girlfriend, where im from stuff like that. I cut off all contact. Do you guys think I overreacted. I have not had 1 bad experience in this hobby yet but I REALLY felt like I was ganna get robbed.
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Did I honestly overreact?
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I think all of you are overreacting. If she asked the same questions after you got there would you get up and leave? I have never had any problem with a provider's questions. Maybe she just wanted to know if another personal level was possible. Could be there is more than just a massage. Just don't over think things.
I am of two minds, as I prob would have gone ahead but only because of the context -- Milf/gilf advertising massages and roleplay services (which isnt my thing but these questions seem reasonably helpful into getting into role). Like Wayne says, those questions would not be a problem once you are there.
Otoh, I will never fault anyone for listening to their spidey sense. So even if it was unnecessary, it is good to know you have that reservoir of core strength to just walk.
Otoh, I will never fault anyone for listening to their spidey sense. So even if it was unnecessary, it is good to know you have that reservoir of core strength to just walk.
For my senses that might not have been a scrubbed mission. But, if it doesn't seem right, it's always the right move to scrub mission and regroup. Is it worth getting beaten or robbed or killed or ripped off or arrested to get whatever you wanted to have done?
I just checked out her various ads, seems ok for me, given her deal, GFE/mommy/milf
If I'm her though, I probably back off on those extra questions until during session. Or, if as other suggested, they are for her to create the role and scenario, she ought to ask these during appointment making process. Have had this before with fetish providers, they may play many many roles, so they like to find out beforehand which one to get into for you.
No matter what though, your senses are yours, your results are yours, and there are thousands of ladies in your metro area, so, yea good call.
I just checked out her various ads, seems ok for me, given her deal, GFE/mommy/milf
If I'm her though, I probably back off on those extra questions until during session. Or, if as other suggested, they are for her to create the role and scenario, she ought to ask these during appointment making process. Have had this before with fetish providers, they may play many many roles, so they like to find out beforehand which one to get into for you.
No matter what though, your senses are yours, your results are yours, and there are thousands of ladies in your metro area, so, yea good call.
Help me get everything straight, she asked a bunch of questions, how was that overreacting? If the OP did not want to answer any of the questions (because he answered her first round of questions), all he needed to say politely that perhaps they can talk about things when he gets there. Now if the girl started to get pissy and say she was going to cancel the visit, then that would be overreacting. In fact the OP never gave the girl a chance to respond.
The OP already answered her questions such as “What he looks like.”, “If he has done this before.”, “Hair”, “age”, “ethnicity”, and “height”. I believe that’s more than enough questions to answer.
She doesn’t need to ask additional useless questions such as “body type”, “eye color”, “if he’s alone or with someone,” “where he’s from” and “If he has a girlfriend.” At this point, in my opinion, she’s overreacting.
It sounds like she may need to work at Baskin Robbins and serve ice cream instead.
She doesn’t need to ask additional useless questions such as “body type”, “eye color”, “if he’s alone or with someone,” “where he’s from” and “If he has a girlfriend.” At this point, in my opinion, she’s overreacting.
It sounds like she may need to work at Baskin Robbins and serve ice cream instead.
SAFETY PRIORITY 1!! PLENTY OF WOMEN OUT THERE!! I dont like her asking if I am alone, color of my eyes, if I have a girlfriend. These are unnecessary screening questions. Age, picture-to make sure same person calling, ethnicity and what you do for work is more than enough for the provider to feel safe
