I’ve gotten a few numbers here and there but there was only one time where I actually hung out with a girl outside of the spa.
About a year ago, I met this Chinese girl, decent looking and probably in her mid 30’s, at a spot in NJ. Following the session, she asked for my number and would text me, send pics, etc. After a few days she expressed that she was looking for someone to marry in the states. I was honest with her and let her know that I wasn’t interested, mainly due to the fact that I’m already in a long-term relationship (outside of the obvious reasons why I wouldn’t be interested in marriage with an AMP girl).
She seemed slightly disappointed but continued texting me and after about a week or two she invited me to hang out with her in Flushing one night. She invited me to the place she was renting a room in and then she took me out to eat and paid for everything. She even insisted on ordering extra food even though I was stuffed and she told me to take food home. Dinner was certainly interesting because she speaks essentially no English so we were there using the translator app while people gave us some stares and confused looks.
After dinner, she took me back to her place and we went a few rounds. No mention of money and she wanted me to stay the night but I left around 2:30am. It was a pretty cool experience but pretty random and confusing. I think she was trying to make me fall for her so that I would reconsider the marriage thing but idk.
After that night neither of us contacted each other and I haven’t seen her since. It was a random and somewhat strange experience but no regrets. Honestly, if she was hotter I probably would have contacted her again but she was just average looking and the marriage thing definitely threw me off. Regardless, it was pretty surreal and it’s the only time I’ve seen an AMP girl outside of her place of work.