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Confident but silent

TIskier

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Just curious what that means.
To me, the girl who was the receptionist on "The Office" was pretty much my idea of a 5/10 plain jane.
Martha Quinn from MTV in the 80s was a 5/10 as well.
Was she above or below the Quinn line?
Personally I find the GND types sexier than the Barbie Dolls…. I hate silicone and the taste of makeup & product…
 

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Just curious what that means.
To me, the girl who was the receptionist on "The Office" was pretty much my idea of a 5/10 plain jane.
Martha Quinn from MTV in the 80s was a 5/10 as well.
Was she above or below the Quinn line?
I get what you are saying. Neither are knockouts by any means. But I’d go higher than 5/10 on both based on what is out there now. Overweight? tats all over? Pink/blue hair? Nose ring? If no; They are doing pretty good already.
 

AutomaticSlim

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Personally I find the GND types sexier than the Barbie Dolls…. I hate silicone and the taste of makeup & product…
I too prefer GND types as well hate fake boobs. I prefer young GNDs with petite bodies and pretty to very pretty faces (minimum 7/10). They are my highest preference.
The two I mentioned as examples of 5s both have very plain faces IMO, and the receptionist one was somewhat overweight as well.

I get what you are saying. Neither are knockouts by any means. But I’d go higher than 5/10 on both based on what is out there now. Overweight? tats all over? Pink/blue hair? Nose ring? If no; They are doing pretty good already.
Agree on tats and piercings. I hate both of those things. But a pretty girl with tats, IMO, is still more bangable than a girl with a plain face.
 

Doubleyellow

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Nah, not true. Confident and silent types find chatty people annoying as fuck. Superfluous talk is just noise.
Exactly right. It‘s not that one can’t blubber on about the weather, new neighbor, or some other trivial matter, it is being comfortable with silence, not feeling the need to talk to fill silence.
 

trimhunter

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I’m 5-7 train at the gym with some hotties in the am. Over the summer I noticed this real sexy confident looking woman, hot body, wearing make up also, I am very outgoing and I can strike up a conversation anytime if the setting is right. I walk up to her and tell her how beautiful she is in my own words and she responds well and we talk. Many days go by and I consistently flirt and feel the vibe, I even sort of purposely let her see my weekend car and she responds about that. All I need to do now is get her # which seems easy. Moral here is personality and playing the game of knowing when to quite down and not act interested.
well how this played out is ………………. I have an SO, wife ! I do want this woman and I think the shot is there, she asked me to train her today after I mentioned it yesterday but DAMN I cant move forward bcz the SO will catch me, also my ring is on while I’m always with this woman, no comment yet. Anyway AMPS are the way to go, easy, fast and no commitment. (Still not sure how this gym girl will go or how I should proceed) any comments or suggestions ?
Many years ago, my married friend told me he was getting a LOT more traction at bars with hot women since he got married, because they see the ring and can relax and chit chat. I wore a ring a few times and it was totally true, I was getting a lot more friendly banter. The difficulty was in trying to convert those into sex.

The vast majority were very skeptical or even disgusted when I told them I was actually single. I got a few numbers when I was able to joke about it being an experiment bc of my married friend or joking that I wore it to discourage women from having their way with me, but it was an uphill battle and I stopped after only a few nights. I was always sad about the great girls I met who would never consider me because of this fake wedding ring.
 

Doubleyellow

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I too prefer GND types as well hate fake boobs. I prefer young GNDs with petite bodies and pretty to very pretty faces (minimum 7/10). They are my highest preference.
The two I mentioned as examples of 5s both have very plain faces IMO, and the receptionist one was somewhat overweight as well.


Agree on tats and piercings. I hate both of those things. But a pretty girl with tats, IMO, is still more bangable than a girl with a plain face.
martha Quinn..lol. She was a bit squirrly.
 

LoneSwordsman_NY

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Agree on tats and piercings. I hate both of those things. But a pretty girl with tats, IMO, is still more bangable than a girl with a plain face.
I might have mentioned this before, but when I lived in Tokyo I met a couple of girls with Irezumi on their backs. This is high-quality work, that for me, added to the eroticism of those encounters. One girl had that J-GND look until she stripped. Wow! It was wild!
 

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Just curious what that means.
To me, the girl who was the receptionist on "The Office" was pretty much my idea of a 5/10 plain jane.
Martha Quinn from MTV in the 80s was a 5/10 as well.
Was she above or below the Quinn line?
Basically I mean that you don't have to be a stunner/model to get tons of sex partners - IF YOU ARE A FEMALE. Before she went online, because she was more conservative looking (and a little curvy, no spinner) she probably got very little attention in real life just going to the store, etc. But once she got divorced and went online dating, you would think she was 9 or 10 in looks.

The reality though is an average looking woman (and I would have rated her as slightly above) can go on a dating site, and have 20-30 "date" offers or more in the first day. This gives them a big ego pretty quick and all that came across the time I caught up with her on social. She told me she was so amazed how many guys are interested in her, etc. Of course, I didn't try to piss her off by saying the truth - which is (we all know it) guys will kiss ass if they think they can fuck. Very true statement. And those guys don't want a relationship. They pretend so they can get laid, and when they are bored, ghost the chick and move on.

This isn't my opinion - I have female friends in my circle who are newly single and I've asked them about their online dating attempts. One, who recently became single, is a late 40s with a few kids and she's decent looking. Better looking than my former co-worker in my opinion. She put up a profile and told me she had over 50 responses on the first day, she was so overwhelmed she decided to turn off her profile.

Now look... I know we all have diff opinions, but trust me on this, while this chick is decent looking, she has a lot of baggage and she's past her physical prime, meaning it's only gonna get worse. In the real world 99.9% of women in their 50s do not look like J Lo, Salma Hayek, or Elizabeth Hurley.

No F'ng way do 50 people in 1 day legit like what she wrote and interested in an LTR. Of those 50 responses probably 45 of them just want to play a game to tap dat ass. 4 are probably scammers. And maybe 1 is a legit nice guy looking for a date and a relationship.

That's the real world middle/elder aged women don't want to admit exists. I gave her a warning about it because she is naive. I pretty much said you do realize most of those guys just wanna fuck you right? She laughed and said I doubt that. I said I'm telling you the truth, if you wanna just fuck, by all means fuck away. But don't think most of these guys are valiant and interested in being your man and supporting your kids and all this shit. She's cool and I don't want her to get fucked over.

Too bad she knows too much about my life or I may try to bang her myself lol. But it's way too risky, and I learned a long time ago never shit where you eat.
 

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Confident and silent when playing poker maybe, but in order to approach a lovely civie, you gotta speak up at least a bit. How does one know if the silent guy is confident?
 

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Basically I mean that you don't have to be a stunner/model to get tons of sex partners - IF YOU ARE A FEMALE. Before she went online, because she was more conservative looking (and a little curvy, no spinner) she probably got very little attention in real life just going to the store, etc. But once she got divorced and went online dating, you would think she was 9 or 10 in looks.

The reality though is an average looking woman (and I would have rated her as slightly above) can go on a dating site, and have 20-30 "date" offers or more in the first day. This gives them a big ego pretty quick and all that came across the time I caught up with her on social. She told me she was so amazed how many guys are interested in her, etc. Of course, I didn't try to piss her off by saying the truth - which is (we all know it) guys will kiss ass if they think they can fuck. Very true statement. And those guys don't want a relationship. They pretend so they can get laid, and when they are bored, ghost the chick and move on.

This isn't my opinion - I have female friends in my circle who are newly single and I've asked them about their online dating attempts. One, who recently became single, is a late 40s with a few kids and she's decent looking. Better looking than my former co-worker in my opinion. She put up a profile and told me she had over 50 responses on the first day, she was so overwhelmed she decided to turn off her profile.

Now look... I know we all have diff opinions, but trust me on this, while this chick is decent looking, she has a lot of baggage and she's past her physical prime, meaning it's only gonna get worse. In the real world 99.9% of women in their 50s do not look like J Lo, Salma Hayek, or Elizabeth Hurley.

No F'ng way do 50 people in 1 day legit like what she wrote and interested in an LTR. Of those 50 responses probably 45 of them just want to play a game to tap dat ass. 4 are probably scammers. And maybe 1 is a legit nice guy looking for a date and a relationship.

That's the real world middle/elder aged women don't want to admit exists. I gave her a warning about it because she is naive. I pretty much said you do realize most of those guys just wanna fuck you right? She laughed and said I doubt that. I said I'm telling you the truth, if you wanna just fuck, by all means fuck away. But don't think most of these guys are valiant and interested in being your man and supporting your kids and all this shit. She's cool and I don't want her to get fucked over.

Too bad she knows too much about my life or I may try to bang her myself lol. But it's way too risky, and I learned a long time ago never shit where you eat.
Apples and Oranges, but when I lived in Tokyo, a slender pleasant-looking 30-something administrative assistant received 100 messages the first day she posted her profile on a dating site.
 

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Apples and Oranges, but when I lived in Tokyo, a slender pleasant-looking 30-something administrative assistant received 100 messages the first day she posted her profile on a dating site.
I totally believe it.

Now how many messages would an average guy get? If he's lucky 1? 2? I don't know because I missed the online dating period. But from guys I know who do it, they tell me the only messages they get are bots, scammers, or really old/fat/unattractive women.

I think any dating is stacked in favor of the female, online dating especially so....
 

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Basically I mean that you don't have to be a stunner/model to get tons of sex partners - IF YOU ARE A FEMALE. Before she went online, because she was more conservative looking (and a little curvy, no spinner) she probably got very little attention in real life just going to the store, etc. But once she got divorced and went online dating, you would think she was 9 or 10 in looks.

The reality though is an average looking woman (and I would have rated her as slightly above) can go on a dating site, and have 20-30 "date" offers or more in the first day. This gives them a big ego pretty quick and all that came across the time I caught up with her on social. She told me she was so amazed how many guys are interested in her, etc. Of course, I didn't try to piss her off by saying the truth - which is (we all know it) guys will kiss ass if they think they can fuck. Very true statement. And those guys don't want a relationship. They pretend so they can get laid, and when they are bored, ghost the chick and move on.

This isn't my opinion - I have female friends in my circle who are newly single and I've asked them about their online dating attempts. One, who recently became single, is a late 40s with a few kids and she's decent looking. Better looking than my former co-worker in my opinion. She put up a profile and told me she had over 50 responses on the first day, she was so overwhelmed she decided to turn off her profile.

Now look... I know we all have diff opinions, but trust me on this, while this chick is decent looking, she has a lot of baggage and she's past her physical prime, meaning it's only gonna get worse. In the real world 99.9% of women in their 50s do not look like J Lo, Salma Hayek, or Elizabeth Hurley.

No F'ng way do 50 people in 1 day legit like what she wrote and interested in an LTR. Of those 50 responses probably 45 of them just want to play a game to tap dat ass. 4 are probably scammers. And maybe 1 is a legit nice guy looking for a date and a relationship.

That's the real world middle/elder aged women don't want to admit exists. I gave her a warning about it because she is naive. I pretty much said you do realize most of those guys just wanna fuck you right? She laughed and said I doubt that. I said I'm telling you the truth, if you wanna just fuck, by all means fuck away. But don't think most of these guys are valiant and interested in being your man and supporting your kids and all this shit. She's cool and I don't want her to get fucked over.

Too bad she knows too much about my life or I may try to bang her myself lol. But it's way too risky, and I learned a long time ago never shit where you eat.
Yes! You summed up the dating market and online dating perfectly.

A guy who is a 10/10 will generally sleep with a 5/10 female. But won’t give her a relationship.

But women equate sexual attention with relationships all the time. So average or beliow average women think they deserve way above average men.

Even in her 40’s she doesn’t get it. These women put themselves in a whole lot of hurt when they get used and ghosted.
 

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Yes! You summed up the dating market and online dating perfectly.

A guy who is a 10/10 will generally sleep with a 5/10 female. But won’t give her a relationship.

But women equate sexual attention with relationships all the time. So average or beliow average women think they deserve way above average men.

Even in her 40’s she doesn’t get it. These women put themselves in a whole lot of hurt when they get used and ghosted.
For sure. And her not getting this is one of my fears. She is definitely attractive.... phat ass in the best way, mostly flat stomach from what I can see, average rack, decent body all things considered and face is pretty good too. Compared to most women in her age range she is a lot better - for now.

But she is naive for sure. Very naive, I've known her for years now and I can tell that she would be easy to manipulate. She's not my SO/wife or anything so I don't have a ton of skin in the game but I'm just trying to look out for her because I know she is a good person and went through a tough time so is probably on the fragile side. I don't care if guys bang her but I just don't want her getting used and tossed because she may have a total break down. But she's an adult, all I can do is give my warning, she will do what she wants. I'm sure she, like most women who aren't beasts, will have a very easy time getting dates and sex. Hopefully that doesn't lead to massive heartbreak that she can't handle in her current state. But, I did what I can do... the rest is up to her.

Still wish I could hit that, though. I'm going to hell. Do not pass Go do not collect $200 :LOL:
 
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