Bringing gifts to providers?

[Halo80]

Wanna see how everyone answers to this.

What are your takes on bringing gifts for dates? Wine, champagne, flowers, chocolates and such? I have personally in the last year have started bring a bottle of wine or champagne to break the ice and get some conversation flowing before the deed. If I know she’s only a 1 pop girl it’s definitely worth it but 2 pops it’s nice to take sips between sessions or whatnot. I’ve only done this with independent providers or agency girls not at AMPs.

Let me know what you think.

 

[Spenser]

Lol, $ will break the ice!
You're too romantic bro.

 

[Halo80]

Lol, $ will break the ice!
You're too romantic bro.

I mean, it’s the least I can do. 99% of the time it’s appreciated and the girls love it. There was a time I bought a bottle of Dom P cuvée 2008 for a STUNNER of a provider I had booked for 75 minutes. I mean she was off the charts a freak and absolutely gorgeous body. Got 2 pops in those 75 minutes and she really loved the gift so much she gave me another hour on her free of charge along with anal and a swallow.

 

[Zippy17]

I bought a super sweet girl an hour off work in a busy week. Showed up for a 60 min appointment and brought my wife and relatively dietetic lunches from Subway just up the block. We all just had lunch and talked and shit. She really appreciated it. I can't really say there's anyhting I like seeing more than my wife bonding with and getting to know a hot girl with whom I'd been encouraged, just last week, to do just about anything to her that any normal guy would ever want to do to a girl...and at least one thing that I didn't really consider all that normal before this girl introduced me to it.

 

[rongetcha]

I bought a super sweet girl an hour off work in a busy week. Showed up for a 60 min appointment and brought my wife and relatively dietetic lunches from Subway just up the block. We all just had lunch and talked and shit. She really appreciated it. I can't really say there's anyhting I like seeing more than my wife bonding with and getting to know a hot girl with whom I'd been encouraged, just last week, to do just about anything to her that any normal guy would ever want to do to a girl...and at least one thing that I didn't really consider all that normal before this girl introduced me to it.

Come on Zippy details , details .
I gotta know what was it ?

 

[Eddy Harder]

I'm thinking a bottle of cognac for MMS to share with the crew. Curious to see that play out.

 

[Wayne1250]

Small gifts to show appreciation once and a while is also appreciated by the girls. Bring food for the shop to share gets yout invited to stay for lunch. You know things are going great when you leave with a to go gift at the end of the session.

Tip well, but the gifts separate you from the other customers and are usually rewarded with better service too.

Invite them out to lunch or dinner is also a great way to get to know them. Taking them on errands, or picking up an item that they ask you to get, is just something else you can do for them.

This is my two cents, but this is one of the long term controversies that have been discussed over and over on all of the review boards.

 

[Jackboner]

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I bought a super sweet girl an hour off work in a busy week. Showed up for a 60 min appointment and brought my wife and relatively dietetic lunches from Subway just up the block. We all just had lunch and talked and shit. She really appreciated it. I can't really say there's anyhting I like seeing more than my wife bonding with and getting to know a hot girl with whom I'd been encouraged, just last week, to do just about anything to her that any normal guy would ever want to do to a girl...and at least one thing that I didn't really consider all that normal before this girl introduced me to it.

Then it was time to get up....

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Wanna see how everyone answers to this.

What are your takes on bringing gifts for dates? Wine, champagne, flowers, chocolates and such? I have personally in the last year have started bring a bottle of wine or champagne to break the ice and get some conversation flowing before the deed. If I know she’s only a 1 pop girl it’s definitely worth it but 2 pops it’s nice to take sips between sessions or whatnot. I’ve only done this with independent providers or agency girls not at AMPs.

Let me know what you think.

I've brought wine/champagne/booze to plenty of sessions, but I never considered it a gift.
It was just for me and the girl to get loaded.
I've done that with agencies, indies, and whorehouses, but never an AMP.
My all time favorite indy (and I don't see indies very often) LOVED Milagro Tequila.
Most of the girls prefered white wine.
And I would just bring a pint of Smirnoff to the whorehouse.

My favorite AMP serves complimentary Jack Daniels and Bud Light -- or use to, anyway. I haven't been there since Covid, but I have to try to get there soon.

As far as actual gifts go, I've only ever given perfume. Good stuff, not the cheapola kind. I can count on one hand how many times I've done that.

 

[Chc5]

I've brought wine/champagne/booze to plenty of sessions, but I never considered it a gift.
It was just for me and the girl to get loaded.
I've done that with agencies, indies, and whorehouses, but never an AMP.
My all time favorite indy (and I don't see indies very often) LOVED Milagro Tequila.
Most of the girls prefered white wine.
And I would just bring a pint of Smirnoff to the whorehouse.

My favorite AMP serves complimentary Jack Daniels and Bud Light -- or use to, anyway. I haven't been there since Covid, but I have to try to get there soon.

As far as actual gifts go, I've only ever given perfume. Good stuff, not the cheapola kind. I can count on one hand how many times I've done that.

Complimentary Jack Daniels? Sounds like a place i must visit!!

 

[nyctech]

Wine, tea leaves, box of spices from Grand Central Market, chocolate, etc. All well appreciated. Usually get something small for mms and for my chosen host.

 

[Zippy17]

Come on Zippy details , details . I gotta know what was it ?

She liked being choked. Not something I ever had any interest in doing (or even watching in porn), but she made it hot, although her limits were much farther than mine for doing it and I still stopped at mine...she'd have been ok being choked OUT...I'm not going anywhere even close to that. Tried to add this to my original post to avoid this mystery vibe, but got timed out.

 

[Halo80]

She liked being choked. Not something I ever had any interest in doing (or even watching in porn), but she made it hot, although her limits were much farther than mine for doing it and I still stopped at mine...she'd have been ok being choked OUT...I'm not going anywhere even close to that. Tried to add this to my original post to avoid this mystery vibe, but got timed out.

I love the choking aspect of things. This ex I had out on Long Island loved that shit. She was from a small town in Oregon so kinda lived a sheltered life. I mean the first time hooked up we ended with some CIA. The next morning was a facial/swallow combo lol.

 

[Halo80]

On the same note what do you guys think is the appropriate amount to tip? With AMPs I’ve only tipped 2/3 times but independent/agencies I haven’t done it yet. Do you do it beforehand or after or at all?

 

[rongetcha]

She liked being choked. Not something I ever had any interest in doing (or even watching in porn), but she made it hot, although her limits were much farther than mine for doing it and I still stopped at mine...she'd have been ok being choked OUT...I'm not going anywhere even close to that. Tried to add this to my original post to avoid this mystery vibe, but got timed out.

I had a SA girl who wanted me to choke her but I declined.

 

[Zippy17]

I had a SA girl who wanted me to choke her but I declined.

Exactly. The first time she asked me to do it, I didn't and afterwards, I told her about the time I finally hooked up with a stripper I'd been wanting to date for a long time. She wanted to be choked and it was the first time I ever knew that was even a thing (this was in the mid 90s) and that actually ended up ruining everything between us (on her end). But when this girl started doing it to herself, grabbing my hand and putting it on her neck, it suddenly got hot AF. There was still a ton of room in between the most I was willing to do and what she's cool with, but it was hot enough that I brought that shit home to the wife. She's still kind of scared of it and says she doesn't really like it that much when we're just sitting around bullshitting, but it's a whole different situation in the heat of the moment...she's still sort of embarrassed (or scared) that she likes it so much.

 

[nyctech]

I think we're off topic, maybe this is choking idea is a new thread

 

[thomasdoherty]

An indy I have never seen reviewed, Sofia, Brooklyn, Bay Avenue always appreciated a bottle of wine. I always brought whiskey for myself. And in before, during and after I would drink whiskey. If it was early, she may save her bottle of wine for later, if she wasn't busy, we would drink together. Best thing I did, was to bring that nice bottle of wine. She was genuinely appreciative, and just enhanced to 2 hour window every time.

 

[thomasdoherty]

wow--didn't see that thread had changed topics, just went to add a comment--no choking with Sofia--never had anyone request, but certainly aware they are out there, and I never felt comfortable just giving it a shot with someone

 

[BoerumHill]

Wine, tea leaves, box of spices from Grand Central Market, chocolate, etc. All well appreciated. Usually get something small for mms and for my chosen host.

This is how you do it, fellas.

Off Topic: I don't want to call the guy out/engage but post #14 implying he rarely tips has me astounded. Does. Not. Compute. Ya know, I don't care if it's a CT AMP, midtown KMP, or high end GFE agency. These girls are just trying to make a living. They provide what should be a highly appreciated service. By category definition you have discretionary income. Maybe you're not killing it but I promise you very few of them are making bank; 99% of the time you're in a whole other socio-economic strata. I just cannot imagine guys thinking tipping is optional. I enjoy being generous. NYC has been good to me and it's no big deal to spread some love. Just my 2 cents.