Maybe I am an outlier, but I'm not that tall, I look ok, but I am in very good shape, and I do well career wise. But i have a revulsion to the show off flexing lifestyle, driving fancy cars, fancy clothes, etc.
I like basic, practical, functional things. Like a Toyota instead of a BMW. a Casio or Longines instead of a Rolex. Stuff that works. and did incredibly well wtih girls for a long time. I think self confidence, how you carry yourself, and once a girl understands your value system and why you dress or own the things you do, it made me even more alluring, kind of like a stamp of your practical, non-poseur personality that's almost a fuck you to the poseur ethos.
And then I left my very prestigious company that everybody wants to work at, for an obscure position that is much more interesting and much better paying but has zero social prestige or recognition and now my non-descript way of dressing, tool like functional accessories, non-bragging approach things made me just another obscure guy in reasonably good shape and all the hot girls that would smile and want to flirt with me at company functions or if knew where you worked...all melted away.
and I realized, my humble, modest guy act only worked when people already knew you worked at some hot company and you're riding that coat tail while you act humble anyways, which made you hotter. Once I lost that, I realized, I didn't have the luxury of not caring, I had to start advertising my successes or flirt more aggressively for girls. Long story short, I'm just another show offy, flexing, asshole, despite my not liking it, because it's what gets me results.