Having a provider smile when seeing you and also great chemistry is sweet.However, when she tells you “ too bad your married, you’re one of the few that I let kiss me, I missed you and some I love you” are you a buyer?A single dude can just state,” let’s have dinner out “ and see if real or fake.A married dude can’t say “let’s have dinner at Cheesecake Factory “.This is why this hobby is fun besides the physicality the mental games some providers use.