Providers are the substitute for the real thing, for what is missing at home, in our own beds, many guys here have a SO, beit wife or GF, wouldn't trade her for any other woman, but the intimacy (hugs, caress, touchy feely, sex) is non existent. Providers fill the void. This site and other sites as this one provide us all with an outlet, its not enough to get our needs met at a parlor, this review/conversation site goes hand in hand with the life of a monger.