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Are we Debauched or hopelessly Obsessed ?

xxxooz

xxxooz

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...I've been thinking about posting this thread for a while and finally decided to put it out here...Lately I have been spending an inordinate amount of time checking in onsite here and have been wondering if I am becoming obsessed with AMP life and the social platform here at AR...
There must be more to life than just chasing pussy, seeking a Spinner ATF or bragging our sexual prowess, bank accounts and GFE experiences... help me out here..Ok?... am I losing it or just having a moment of weakness?...
... Our community is secretive and far from mainstream ... and our "hobby" is not something we share freely with our friends or associates...... truth be known, we would be labelled Pervs by many of the people we know and Love... I don't agree with that assessment but I believe it's true...
...I have been in the "Hobby" since the 90's and have had a few long term relationships with some wonderful AMP women... I live with them in their day to day lives in Flushing ... and know their day to day worries and tribulations...
...Simply spoken, I know where this is going in my life...for now.. but I wonder what you guys are thinking?...for the Married guys it's quite apprarent but for the "players" and the rest of us, what's the Deal?...
Your thoughts...Please...LOL
Xooz
 
Uniquelyme

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Yes you are addicted. Myself i get addicted at times. When its too much i take a hiatus. It sucks in some ways that Men just constantly think about sex. It is what it is. Could be worse you could be broke and not afford it. Or be an unattractive Woman that might be the worst.
 
xxxooz

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Uniquelyme said:
Yes you are addicted. Myself i get addicted at times. When its too much i take a hiatus. It sucks in some ways that Men just constantly think about sex. It is what it is. Could be worse you could be broke and not afford it. Or be an unattractive Woman that might be the worst.
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..."unattractive Woman" ..Lol
 
mikemendez

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xxxooz said:
...I've been thinking about posting this thread for a while and finally decided to put it out here...Lately I have been spending an inordinate amount of time checking in onsite here and have been wondering if I am becoming obsessed with AMP life and the social platform here at AR...
There must be more to life than just chasing pussy, seeking a Spinner ATF or bragging our sexual prowess, bank accounts and GFE experiences... help me out here..Ok?... am I losing it or just having a moment of weakness?...
... Our community is secretive and far from mainstream ... and our "hobby" is not something we share freely with our friends or associates...... truth be known, we would be labelled Pervs by many of the people we know and Love... I don't agree with that assessment but I believe it's true...
...I have been in the "Hobby" since the 90's and have had a few long term relationships with some wonderful AMP women... I live with them in their day to day lives in Flushing ... and know their day to day worries and tribulations...
...Simply spoken, I know where this is going in my life...for now.. but I wonder what you guys are thinking?...for the Married guys it's quite apprarent but for the "players" and the rest of us, what's the Deal?...
Your thoughts...Please...LOL
Xooz
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The more you go to visit lovelies, the more you want to go visit lovelies. Sometimes you go for a massage and release, a few hours laters you have the urge as strong as with earlier visit. I’m glad for this and other sites like this one, where else would any of us be able to speak openly about pay for play, amp site are an important part to this hobby. There are highs and lows related to this way of life, keeping it secret is a m*therf*cker. You may sit next to a coworker in a meeting, overhear one tell another how they have to use porn because the SO ain’t putting out, how do you or how would you even consider telling them about the AMP alternative.
 
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It’s easy to think it’s all about the sex and nothing else and for some that’s true. But for others there are many other enjoyable benefits to spending time in and out of the spa with providers. I don’t think anyone would think we are debauched or perverted because we enjoy spending time with a woman. Others outside the hobby who don’t know about the hobby would think it strange that we enjoy spending time with Asian women who barely speak English. As far as I’m concerned, they shouldn’t judge if they haven’t experienced. From the looks I get when I’m out and about with a provider, I think most men understand and are envious. It would seem most of us live normal productive lives and the hobby helps navigate the challenges and mundaneness. In fact there are a lot more mongers out there than we realize.
 
xxxooz

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... never tell them Mike.. ur on point.. that’s also
East Lake II said:
It’s easy to think it’s all about the sex and nothing else and for some that’s true. But for others there are many other enjoyable benefits to spending time in and out of the spa with providers. I don’t think anyone would think we are debauched or perverted because we enjoy spending time with a woman. Others outside the hobby who don’t know about the hobby would think it strange that we enjoy spending time with Asian women who barely speak English. As far as I’m concerned, they shouldn’t judge if they haven’t experienced. From the looks I get when I’m out and about with a provider, I think most men understand and are envious. It would seem most of us live normal productive lives and the hobby helps navigate the challenges and mundaneness. In fact there are a lot more mongers out there than we realize.
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You are right about "envious" they can't figure it out... it's not all that difficult.. lol.. I sometimes wish this was a more out front community...
 
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i dont want to reply to this very good question in generalities ie applying to other men (they can relate to my reply as they wish) but only personally ( in fact most mongers are highly individualistic men as far as i can gather from the discussions here; even if they maybe attempting to find commonalities to feel perhaps less alone in this "hobby" ?) so...I do not at all feel debauched or hopelessly obsessed myself...i've had numerous paid sexual encounters here and abroad starting in my 30's because i needed more sexual variety and gratification of my sexual needs than i could get in my two marriages ( inexperienced and no adventures... leading to divorces); 6 years ago and in my sixties i had my first amp experience with a very young and inexperienced provider ( read my reviews on RM) and enjoyed the "teaching" aspects of it; I then proceeded via two dozen or so more experienced amp providers to fall into the hands of the "prom queen" ( known by many others on this forum) straight into the rabbit hole....But came out of the other end by finding the LOML ( see my avatar) a not so experienced but exquisite provider who not long thereafter became the mamasan of her own spa.
We are still very much in love and she keeps working as an exclusive FS provider (with my encouragement because it turns me on). Conclusion so far: my life story as far as amp's is concerned is probably pretty unique and has covered so far some interesting aspects ( even though i do not consider myself a typical monger as most of you are).
BTW: this morning she had her green card interview and it went very well....all is well that ends well ! just be aware of what you are doing and keep an open mind: i see no hopelessness or debauchery in that at all, just a generous attitude towards beautiful women.
 
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Out in public with a lovely, the guys that know what’s up are perhaps envious, women are envious of providers too, all the while hating, they’re envious of providers fit, tight body and silky black hair especially if she’s dressed a bit provocative.
 
VJLUTZ

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xxxooz said:
There must be more to life than just chasing pussy, seeking a Spinner ATF or bragging our sexual prowess, bank accounts and GFE experiences... help me out here..Ok?... am I losing it or just having a moment of weakness?...
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Of course there is. For most of my life I was a straight arrow/model citizen. I did everything expected of me: good son, husband, father, successful career, etc. I voted in every election and paid my taxes. But, having done all that, now its my turn to live the wild life. I earned that right. I have no regrets at what I've done. Had I remained a "straight arrow" all the way to my deathbed, I'd have had lots of regrets.
 
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I try to keep it strictly business. I always draw the line when I feel they are getting too personal. I don't want to get involved with their real life, it would ruin the fantasy and fun. I'm actually glad that this hobby is so secretive. I feel like i'm part of some Illuminati society. But yes this hobby is consuming all my time.
 
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xxxooz said:
...I've been thinking about posting this thread for a while and finally decided to put it out here...Lately I have been spending an inordinate amount of time checking in onsite here and have been wondering if I am becoming obsessed with AMP life and the social platform here at AR...
There must be more to life than just chasing pussy, seeking a Spinner ATF or bragging our sexual prowess, bank accounts and GFE experiences... help me out here..Ok?... am I losing it or just having a moment of weakness?...
... Our community is secretive and far from mainstream ... and our "hobby" is not something we share freely with our friends or associates...... truth be known, we would be labelled Pervs by many of the people we know and Love... I don't agree with that assessment but I believe it's true...
...I have been in the "Hobby" since the 90's and have had a few long term relationships with some wonderful AMP women... I live with them in their day to day lives in Flushing ... and know their day to day worries and tribulations...
...Simply spoken, I know where this is going in my life...for now.. but I wonder what you guys are thinking?...for the Married guys it's quite apprarent but for the "players" and the rest of us, what's the Deal?...
Your thoughts...Please...LOL
Xooz
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It is good that you didn't put this idea in the 'keys to success' thread, some would have been offended by the idea they are debauched.
 
MongersGonnaMong

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xxxooz said:
...I've been thinking about posting this thread for a while and finally decided to put it out here...Lately I have been spending an inordinate amount of time checking in onsite here and have been wondering if I am becoming obsessed with AMP life and the social platform here at AR...
There must be more to life than just chasing pussy, seeking a Spinner ATF or bragging our sexual prowess, bank accounts and GFE experiences... help me out here..Ok?... am I losing it or just having a moment of weakness?...
... Our community is secretive and far from mainstream ... and our "hobby" is not something we share freely with our friends or associates...... truth be known, we would be labelled Pervs by many of the people we know and Love... I don't agree with that assessment but I believe it's true...
...I have been in the "Hobby" since the 90's and have had a few long term relationships with some wonderful AMP women... I live with them in their day to day lives in Flushing ... and know their day to day worries and tribulations...
...Simply spoken, I know where this is going in my life...for now.. but I wonder what you guys are thinking?...for the Married guys it's quite apprarent but for the "players" and the rest of us, what's the Deal?...
Your thoughts...Please...LOL
Xooz
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IDK
It’s just good to talk about what we do
Kind of therapeutic
Good words btw
 
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redhothotrod said:
i dont want to reply to this very good question in generalities ie applying to other men (they can relate to my reply as they wish) but only personally ( in fact most mongers are highly individualistic men as far as i can gather from the discussions here; even if they maybe attempting to find commonalities to feel perhaps less alone in this "hobby" ?) so...I do not at all feel debauched or hopelessly obsessed myself...i've had numerous paid sexual encounters here and abroad starting in my 30's because i needed more sexual variety and gratification of my sexual needs than i could get in my two marriages ( inexperienced and no adventures... leading to divorces); 6 years ago and in my sixties i had my first amp experience with a very young and inexperienced provider ( read my reviews on RM) and enjoyed the "teaching" aspects of it; I then proceeded via two dozen or so more experienced amp providers to fall into the hands of the "prom queen" ( known by many others on this forum) straight into the rabbit hole....But came out of the other end by finding the LOML ( see my avatar) a not so experienced but exquisite provider who not long thereafter became the mamasan of her own spa.
We are still very much in love and she keeps working as an exclusive FS provider (with my encouragement because it turns me on). Conclusion so far: my life story as far as amp's is concerned is probably pretty unique and has covered so far some interesting aspects ( even though i do not consider myself a typical monger as most of you are).
BTW: this morning she had her green card interview and it went very well....all is well that ends well ! just be aware of what you are doing and keep an open mind: i see no hopelessness or debauchery in that at all, just a generous attitude towards beautiful women.
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Been since way back on SH - glad all is still well and you are doing the same!!
 
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