I'm just speaking for myself. Every hobbyist has their style that works for them. This is just the style that works for me. These women are hookers, so I treat them for what they are, hookers! Now, that does not mean being rude and disrespectful to them. I am kind and a gentleman during the time I am with them. But I only want to see them at the spa or brothel. I don't want to wine and dine a hooker. I can't imagine making a hooker my girlfriend! I can't be sitting at a fancy french restaurant having a candlelit dinner under the stars with a hooker! The entire time I would be looking across the dinner table staring at her thinking about how many cum loads from hundreds of hobbyist she has swallowed down her throat especially if it was a gfe provider. Maybe some hobbyists are lonely and want the company outside of the spa and brothel.