A Monger No More

[AutomaticSlim]

My question is how do you maintain a committed relationship with someone and get the same feeling ,result from a provider ,it seems a SO will not always want you like a provider !

Don't know man...I have no experience with SOs.
All I am saying is that in the old days (pre 1960), before no fault divorce, it would behoove a female to stay with a male no matter what.
Even if he cheated on her.
And she wouldn't dare cheat on him.
I think that was a good formula for American families to stay intact.
So yeah, that is my answer to your question.
Females should have no legal standing in a divorce.
Which means they would never file one.
Rather she would always go out of her way to please her husband.
Which is how it should be.

 

[asiansmakemehappy]

Don't know man...I have no experience with SOs.
All I am saying is that in the old days (pre 1960), before no fault divorce, it would behoove a female to stay with a male no matter what.
Even if he cheated on her.
And she wouldn't dare cheat on him.
I think that was a good formula for American families to stay intact.
So yeah, that is my answer to your question.
Females should have no legal standing in a divorce.
Which means they would never file one.
Rather she would always go out of her way to please her husband.
Which is how it should be.

I'm in second marriage was good in the beginning just fizzled out ive had some amazing providers whom I've gotten very attached to but know it's a false relationship, I look at many reviews and ask myself how is everyone doing it,not falling in love with every good provider ?

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I'm in second marriage was good in the beginning just fizzled out ive had some amazing providers whom I've gotten very attached to but know it's a false relationship, I look at many reviews and ask myself how is everyone doing it,not falling in love with every good provider ?

I can only answer for myself:
- I do not fall in love with the ones that don't speak English - cannot communicate with them
- I do not fall in love with the American ones - they prefer thugs and felons to decent human beings

So there.
They either can't understand me or don't want we.
Easy to not fall in love.

 

[asiansmakemehappy]

I can only answer for myself:
- I do not fall in love with the ones that don't speak English - cannot communicate with them
- I do not fall in love with the American ones - they prefer thugs and felons to decent human beings

So there.
They either can't understand me or don't want we.
Easy to not fall in love.

Thanks for your opinion much appreciated!!

 

[williamfenton4]

Yeah I'm sick of it too.
I'm finally realizing that I am at the point in my life where I prefer a nice medium rare steak, or a bowl of pasta con sarde, to some c*nt that I pay hundreds of dollars for an hour of her time. Some c*nt that doesn't care if I live or die.
I don't need to see these parasites three times a week anymore.
I just don't.
I'll probably still see them.
But I will greatly cut down on my frequency.
Greatly.

Pasta con sarde? You must be Sicilian?

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Pasta con sarde? You must be Sicilian?

Yessir!

 

[williamfenton4]

Yessir!

I know the dish very well

 

[East Lake II]

Don't have a lot of money in your checking account. There are plenty of places to park your money in this high interest environment. More money invested = less money for mongering

And, make it a chore / difficult to access your cash. If accessing your cash takes planning you are likely to find it easy to cut back. When cash is readily available there is nothing to keep you from going again and again, day after day.

Calculate how much and how long it takes you to earn enough for a spa visit.

Look at how much you have to have invested at 5% for how long to earn enough for a spa visit; $200. You need about $50K in a 5% CD to get enough for one visit a month.

 

[East Lake II]

And, as time passes, and if you have been in the hobby for any length of time, hopefully, you have been able to parlay a few relationships into out of spa non paying friendships that involve a lot more that just the physical.

 

[asiansmakemehappy]

I have been on this site just over 2 years. In that time, what bits if fun I have had have been greatly overshadowed by the guilt and emptiness this "hobby" tends to give. The money spent doesn't exactly help lol. I hope everyone on here stays safe, and to any newcomers seeing this, get out while you still can.

We have become married to the hobby ,it can become consuming!!!

 

[Chaice]

I love threads like these. When you're cruising through ampreviews after saying the last trip 2 weeks ago was it, and see people being vocal about the same struggles you have, it really puts things into perspective.