My question is how do you maintain a committed relationship with someone and get the same feeling ,result from a provider ,it seems a SO will not always want you like a provider !
All I am saying is that in the old days (pre 1960), before no fault divorce, it would behoove a female to stay with a male no matter what.
Even if he cheated on her.
And she wouldn't dare cheat on him.
I think that was a good formula for American families to stay intact.
So yeah, that is my answer to your question.
Females should have no legal standing in a divorce.
Which means they would never file one.
Rather she would always go out of her way to please her husband.
Which is how it should be.