Just remember that Asian "rabbit holes" are very deep. Never fall into one without your saftey rope to pull yourself out. They can be very hard to recover from.
The benefit of the "Ol Rabbit hole", yes, benefit, I stood at the opening of a deep rabbit hole, I dislodged the safety harness and dove in headlong, no pun intended, its where I discovered just how vast this thing called mongering was, paid a dear price, that's for sure but money well spent, I also became aware of the many personalities when dealing with these lovely hustlers, now my approach is well informed, after hearing just about everything from multiple providers its become second nature to me, I'm no longer surprised how versed some of these women are, they perceive when they can't get one over on you, they hear it in your counter to their offer or see it in your eyes and body language. One example from early on, the Mamasan of a spa tells me to stay after I wasn't interested in the next up, mamasan tells me "no problem, I have young beautiful girl for you" So I cover HF, go to the room, undress, after several minutes an old saggy woman comes to my room, I guess they figure I'll just accept her, I asked her to leave the room, mama quickly comes to my room, I ask her for the young, beautiful girl she mentioned,
"oh, she busy now, she had appointment", instead of walking out then and there I told mama, "no problem, I'll wait for young girl". Mama left and sent yet another girl, a bit younger than the previous, yet didn't appeal to me, so I get dressed, walked back to the entry area (cage) mamasan tells me "no refund", I told her "you're going to give me the young girl or to give back my fee today" she took a minute, then she gave back my donation. Most guys would have done as I would have in the past, that is, TOFTT, stayed, got a session with an unattractive provider and hated myself afterwards for compromising. I have read tons of reviews, details of a lackluster session, the money that was wasted knowing from the get go the initial provider just wasn't to their liking, fuck that, I ain't staying, you can't make me. A rabbit hole is a tough place to be stuck in, ask me how I know, it can also be where you learn not only about this massage parlor lifestyle, but also about yourself.