Married Mongers

Men and women both possess traits that give them an advantage in the War of the Sexes. However, I would not want to be a woman as I think, overall, men have the upper hand. Women have the advantage before age 25. Men have the clear advantage after age 30. Women are much more reliant on men and dependent on their looks to get what they want (mostly from men). After age 25, a woman's looks are a depreciating asset, like a fading rose. In contrast, men can become more attractive as they age, especially as they accumulate wealth and power.

Even so, the smartest warriors in the War of the Sexes are those who can leverage their assets to bend the other side to their will. The smartest AMP girls are the ones who walk away from the experience set for life. I've met a few of these, but not many.

It also never ceases to amaze me how you can play a woman by appealing to her vanity. Men can often spot an actor, but (when you play on their vanity), women almost never can. Deep down, they really want to believe they are forever 21.

I agree that SOME women want sex as much as men. In my personal life, I've been fortunate to find quite a large number of them. In the life with "professionals", I search until I find them. It all boils down to what you are looking for. If you seek looks, or culture, or body parts, that's what you'll get. I once had an affair with a 400 pounder, and that girl took it all (anal, deep throat, even CG!) willingly and gratefully. I've even been told that their exes would be upset with what they did with me that they didn't do with them. Here's where we part ways, sort of. Some women like being pounded, choked, and spooged on. Not all. I've found wild sucess just being a gentleman. Holding a door open, a hand on the small of the back, even giving a massage. Occasionally, if they are looking especially good, if they put some effort into it before going out, get frisky and pull that dress up for a quickie before you go out! That cum in their panties is a reminder all night. She be ready, and pre-lubed, when you get back home.

And I love porn. Seeing it and making it. When is Porn Hub 2.0 coming out? I finished the first one!

I have empathy for Men who are not getting treated like Men. I understand a Woman who is ill or maybe even menopause to an extent. However a Woman who doesn't please her Man is ntentionally, unintentionally punishing a Man.

I just can't see myself putting up with it. Ik things die down. But ive heard Man say they are lucky they get it once a month?? Once a month. How can any Woman truly think her Man isn't going to cheat if she neglects him?? Smh.

Things don't always need to go to an extreme one to another. There should be an in between.

Every man is a hunter and I believe we will hunt. So when they say not tonite sweet I say OK. My turn comes tomorrow. I never let her on bc I need that moment for my well being. I've been happily married for 37yrs and not a problem. Yes you may say I'm a pro at this.

I agree. Also don't do something stupid like fall in love with one of the providers.

@mitchxy1 - Yeah, I used to think like you did. For the longest time, I was a straight arrow and never strayed. I thought people who paid for sex were losers. But back then, I was still getting it once a week from my wife. I too hated the lack of variety, but I felt like she was keeping up her end of the bargain.

Well, eventually, she stopped keeping up her end. In your case, it sounds like your wife is still game. I think if my wife still wanted sex, I'd be where you are; so its hard to fault you for your perspective As far as a lack of self-respect, I'd have to say nothing could be further from the truth. Actually, I feel like I've been let out of prison. In some ways, this Hobby is the greatest adventure of my life. I'm glad I happened into it while I was still young enough to enjoy it. I'd hate like fuck to be 75+ and sexually incapacitated (or worse) and spend the remainder of my life regretting what I could have done. Ponder that.

Gentleman,

Just wondering if you married fellas all go through the peaks and valleys as I do after a visit. The slight pang of guilt that soon subsides as I look forward to the next visit.

I have a beautiful Asian wife whom I love very much and I'll give her anything in the world but I can't resist the experience of having sex with strangers (mind you, I don't cheat with women at the bar or work etc. I always pay). I love the whole build up and teasing during a massage and the mystery of how it will unfold.

I know it's against the very fabric of our biological make up to not mess around, but am I a horrible person?

Gentleman,

Just wondering if you married fellas all go through the peaks and valleys as I do after a visit. The slight pang of guilt that soon subsides as I look forward to the next visit.

I have a beautiful Asian wife whom I love very much and I'll give her anything in the world but I can't resist the experience of having sex with strangers (mind you, I don't cheat with women at the bar or work etc. I always pay). I love the whole build up and teasing during a massage and the mystery of how it will unfold.

I know it's against the very fabric of our biological make up to not mess around, but am I a horrible person?

My X-wife took a perverse pleasure in depriving me of sex and affection. I didn’t realize it until after years of trying a variety of approaches trying to fix things. It was during intense counseling that it became clear she was waiting me out and expected to leave me when the child was in college. All of the gyrations were just a way to further satisfy her cruel side. I slowly eased into the amp life and it was years before I considered FS. I left and it cost me big. I have a good relationship with the child and perhaps better than she does oddly enough. It’s been almost 20 years and not remarried. Have a GF but I can’t shake the habit. Not sure I want to be bothered with the monogamy crap. I’ve found many of my female partners to be cheaters including my current. I’m not sure I could be faithful if iI wanted to be at this point. I was committed to my X for a very long time and she was quite attractive. Sex was good whenever the mood moved her. Now she’s old, bitter and alone and has the figure of a 55-gallon drum. If we were still married I’d be hard pressed to be faithful to that. Doesn’t help she’s five years older. My conclusion is that marriage is risky and many women in their prime get on their high horse and insist on messing with a man sexually. They know the courts will be kind to them if he leaves but I feel they overplay their hand until it’s too late. I’ve encountered many entitled selfish American White women who are not worthy of the commitment and attention that men give them. If you are fortunate enough to have a good one then you should feel guilty and you should find another hobby.

Marriage makes perfect sense for women. It has lot of benefits for them, especially if their husband is a good provider and treats them with respect. Even so, a lot of women overplay their hand...It never occurs to many of them that pussy has a limited shelf life. Oops.

I've been stunned at the rate Asian women cheat; its at least double the cheating rate of White women. Maybe more.