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Married Mongers
- Thread starter Micawber
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I agree that SOME women want sex as much as men. In my personal life, I've been fortunate to find quite a large number of them. In the life with "professionals", I search until I find them. It all boils down to what you are looking for. If you seek looks, or culture, or body parts, that's what you'll get. I once had an affair with a 400 pounder, and that girl took it all (anal, deep throat, even CG!) willingly and gratefully. I've even been told that their exes would be upset with what they did with me that they didn't do with them. Here's where we part ways, sort of. Some women like being pounded, choked, and spooged on. Not all. I've found wild sucess just being a gentleman. Holding a door open, a hand on the small of the back, even giving a massage. Occasionally, if they are looking especially good, if they put some effort into it before going out, get frisky and pull that dress up for a quickie before you go out! That cum in their panties is a reminder all night. She be ready, and pre-lubed, when you get back home.
And I love porn. Seeing it and making it. When is Porn Hub 2.0 coming out? I finished the first one!
And I love porn. Seeing it and making it. When is Porn Hub 2.0 coming out? I finished the first one!
My man , since everyone is sharing . I’ve been in this hobby almost 4 years , I had too the wife just has zero libido and kids being young took up all her attention so long story short after multiple discussions , crying on her part and me getting angry and her promising to understand my needs on intimacy and her getting checked out by doctor prescribed drugs to help with libido they were making her ill so I gave up begging for sex and I do it once in awhile but even though I’m fortunate that my wife is good looking youthful fit but is suburban mom mentality and just having me sharing family time is what makes her happy she is good but my needs are not met and I’m not brad Pitt but I still have got game So it’s me being repulsive , I tske care of my family but I get my sex from RMP evry couple of weeks , when I can . I never in a Million years expected to pay for it but here I am and I judge no one anymore . Yes , I’m my twenties I judged my friends who would go to AmPs and look at me now ? Life is full of peaks and valleys And these are things we tske to our graves because society would not understand how we couple do this to our families even though we are programmed to hunt and have sex with women since cavemen !
You make a phenomenal point here though. And I don't judge anybody, per se, but I have opinions on the matter.
A relationship isn't just supposed to be self serving. It seems like you made an attempt to communicate what makes a relationship successful for you. There are other things that CAN be fulfilled outside of that specific relationship, while you're still making everything work within it. But that communication is the key.
I am single. It's by my own decision. But I know when I get in to a relationship, it's my responsibility to fulfill HER expectations of the me in the deal. That's not necessarily sex. It's everything. And vice versa. And as we get older, the sex side is going to come with some challenges, like medically, fantasies, variety, bucket list, etc. These can all be handled while the home is still prioritized.
The problem comes in when there is selfishness that plays a part. Building more then the physical with the outsider so that it takes away from the inside. Or let's say the sex life could be fulfilling and engaging at home, but we still want to roll the dice and put the ones we care about at risk. That creates a different scenario that isn't really fair.
Lot's of variables to every individual situation, but your particular one speaks volumes about how a lot of people end up in this hobby, and it isn't about greed, being self centered, or a cheater. It is about a need that isn't being fulfilled, and this hobby provides a solution where everybody wins in reality.
A relationship isn't just supposed to be self serving. It seems like you made an attempt to communicate what makes a relationship successful for you. There are other things that CAN be fulfilled outside of that specific relationship, while you're still making everything work within it. But that communication is the key.
I am single. It's by my own decision. But I know when I get in to a relationship, it's my responsibility to fulfill HER expectations of the me in the deal. That's not necessarily sex. It's everything. And vice versa. And as we get older, the sex side is going to come with some challenges, like medically, fantasies, variety, bucket list, etc. These can all be handled while the home is still prioritized.
The problem comes in when there is selfishness that plays a part. Building more then the physical with the outsider so that it takes away from the inside. Or let's say the sex life could be fulfilling and engaging at home, but we still want to roll the dice and put the ones we care about at risk. That creates a different scenario that isn't really fair.
Lot's of variables to every individual situation, but your particular one speaks volumes about how a lot of people end up in this hobby, and it isn't about greed, being self centered, or a cheater. It is about a need that isn't being fulfilled, and this hobby provides a solution where everybody wins in reality.
Sexually, the overwhelming majority of women are not like men. Their sex drive decreases considerably with age and can disappear completely after menopause. I can count on one hand the number of over 50 women who still have the same sex drive they had in their 20s (or at least that's wat they claim; not quite sure I believe them). In fact, I am convinced most women just pretend to like sex just to snare a husband. Women almost always dial back the sex a lot after they've had kids. Their calculation is that the kids will provide the glue for the relationship if the sex is withdrawn. This is mostly a correct calculation on their part. They may also intentionally make themselves less attractive.
Men are like dogs. Women are like birds; they have a nesting instinct. Sex to them is just a tool in that regard. It is really enlightening to hear what women say to each other when they think no men are around. It is also instructive & invaluable to have women friends who will give you the no-shit scoop on how women think. Luckily, I've had a few of these over the years.
Most men don't want to go through the pain & cost of a divorce and live apart from their kids. Even worse, once they are single again they risk being coaxed into marriage (again) by another woman. Wash, rinse and repeat. It's a formula for poverty, heartache and unhappiness. Better just to turn to mongering when the sex decreases below a certain threshold. In fact, if your wife has really given up on sex (as mine did after menopause), they'll probably turn a blind eye to your activities unless you are stupid or mean enough to rub it in their face.
Men are like dogs. Women are like birds; they have a nesting instinct. Sex to them is just a tool in that regard. It is really enlightening to hear what women say to each other when they think no men are around. It is also instructive & invaluable to have women friends who will give you the no-shit scoop on how women think. Luckily, I've had a few of these over the years.
Most men don't want to go through the pain & cost of a divorce and live apart from their kids. Even worse, once they are single again they risk being coaxed into marriage (again) by another woman. Wash, rinse and repeat. It's a formula for poverty, heartache and unhappiness. Better just to turn to mongering when the sex decreases below a certain threshold. In fact, if your wife has really given up on sex (as mine did after menopause), they'll probably turn a blind eye to your activities unless you are stupid or mean enough to rub it in their face.
Men and women both possess traits that give them an advantage in the War of the Sexes. However, I would not want to be a woman as I think, overall, men have the upper hand. Women have the advantage before age 25. Men have the clear advantage after age 30. Women are much more reliant on men and dependent on their looks to get what they want (mostly from men). After age 25, a woman's looks are a depreciating asset, like a fading rose. In contrast, men can become more attractive as they age, especially as they accumulate wealth and power.
Even so, the smartest warriors in the War of the Sexes are those who can leverage their assets to bend the other side to their will. The smartest AMP girls are the ones who walk away from the experience set for life. I've met a few of these, but not many.
It also never ceases to amaze me how you can play a woman by appealing to her vanity. Men can often spot an actor, but (when you play on their vanity), women almost never can. Deep down, they really want to believe they are forever 21.
Even so, the smartest warriors in the War of the Sexes are those who can leverage their assets to bend the other side to their will. The smartest AMP girls are the ones who walk away from the experience set for life. I've met a few of these, but not many.
It also never ceases to amaze me how you can play a woman by appealing to her vanity. Men can often spot an actor, but (when you play on their vanity), women almost never can. Deep down, they really want to believe they are forever 21.