My goodness, it's quite disturbing to read posts like yours right now, Mr. Diddily! I imagine that you're a young man and filled with a healthy dose of testosterone. And I must say that I envy you for that! But please, take it from an elder statesman, now is NOT the time for indulging in sex of any kind with a working woman. Take matters into your own hands, as they say.
Save your money. Save your life.