I made a stupid mistake a while ago. Earlier this year I bought a small bouquet of flowers for my atf. I recieved a postcard in the mail thanking me for the purchase, with the date of purchase. Instead of destroying it immediately I put it in my pocket. It fell out, my wife found it and asked me who I bought flowers for. Of course I told her that I didn't buy any flowers. She has not shown any change in behavior that would indicate suspicion and hasn't brought up the subject again. Maybe it's plausible deniability or maybe she, like me, is just relieved that things have gotten better between us (ty hobby) and doesn't want to stir the waters. That would be plausible deniability, wouldn't it? As for me, I put myself through so much pre hobby, that I think I might be beyond caring.
