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Have you ever fallen in love with a provider?
- Thread starter Perfecto
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Really? I can't tell you how many guys I know who will lie to every woman they meet (including their GF and Wife) trying to get into some strange panties.
Being dependent on any one guy, brings with it plenty of potential issues. I know women in their are 50+ who have just got dumped by their husbands for not other reason except the guy wanted a younger and hotter wife.
If a working gal wants to take care of herself, I can't call her selfish or a narcissist.
Being dependent on any one guy, brings with it plenty of potential issues. I know women in their are 50+ who have just got dumped by their husbands for not other reason except the guy wanted a younger and hotter wife.
If a working gal wants to take care of herself, I can't call her selfish or a narcissist.
Inherently intimacy is connection of two people sharing a part of themselves and there is a level of vulnerability in that. Either a person shuts off a part of themselves to continue seeing multiple partners which results in a detachment, they see clients as just objects for money which can lead to a hatred of men, or they develop a self hatred for what they do and having to lie about what they do. It's very hard to do this type of work and be happy/balanced. Maybe if you do it briefly and stop but otherwise it takes a psychological toll and they are lying to themselves if they pretend otherwise
I think the difference for me was if I would have met her on an escort site like P411 or Tryst, I would have been able to keep my emotions and the reality in check…honestly. I met her on Seeking and she was super engaged and was available to me via text or in person basically 24/7 or whenever I needed her for over 6 months. She expressed she cared for me and loved our connection as much as I said it to her….again we always respected each other’s lives but it was a “loose but strong emotional connection”. I had no idea she was a sex worker or was about to become one…I let my guard down and it caught me totally by surprise. I broke it off and it took me a few days to get over it…
Hmmm, can't say I have ever fallen in love with a provider. I have and have had favorites and admittedly upon thinking about it, maybe have been protective of a handful amongst some other monger buddies I know in real life, but never really fallen in love with one. I sometimes grab their digits if I get along with them out of the bedroom but am quick to friendzone them in my head for my own sake. I keep it to just light playful flirting, light BS about RL or interesting "meetings" they've had; typical friends with arrangements / benefits, "want some snacks" type stuff - if I do get along with them well outside the hobby.
Whatever their reason for doing it, I try to respect their thoughts and reasons. I mean hell, I'm in the hobby. Like someone else said, maybe I too am wired a bit differently just as much as they may be.
Whatever their reason for doing it, I try to respect their thoughts and reasons. I mean hell, I'm in the hobby. Like someone else said, maybe I too am wired a bit differently just as much as they may be.
Here is the thing with SA . Some overly sexual Women may in fact become escorts. This is how some agencies even get them. I always avoid escorts on SA. Once i do a reverse search and i find out they are escorts i avoid them. However recently i did a reverse search and asked my group of SA/SB hobbyist about a girl no one said anything til after i already smashed. She never dropped escort lingo and her number is clean. She was a flaky part time escort. I saw her twice but i spent $300 for multiple hours. So as far as im concerned now she isn't on escort time.
Back to your situation. Unless you were getting it for free at least half the time when she was saying she loves the connection etc. Take her words as just words with no substance. Also an SA girl if she really likes you would want to make you her boyfriend and definitely will tell you she doesnt want to see other guys. You wouldn't even need to bring this up.
I've been reading your reviews for a while now. I hope you didnt say the word love first. ALWAYS let the Woman say it first. Always let the Woman say relationship first. Always let the Woman talk about not seeing anyone else first.
I've had several SA girls for free. Several multiple times. I've also had 3 tell me they love me . I said it after and once i say it I'm never paying again. The less bodies a girl has the easier it is for her to bond emotionally with Men. This is why escorts aren't ideal in relationships.
Back to your situation. Unless you were getting it for free at least half the time when she was saying she loves the connection etc. Take her words as just words with no substance. Also an SA girl if she really likes you would want to make you her boyfriend and definitely will tell you she doesnt want to see other guys. You wouldn't even need to bring this up.
I've been reading your reviews for a while now. I hope you didnt say the word love first. ALWAYS let the Woman say it first. Always let the Woman say relationship first. Always let the Woman talk about not seeing anyone else first.
I've had several SA girls for free. Several multiple times. I've also had 3 tell me they love me . I said it after and once i say it I'm never paying again. The less bodies a girl has the easier it is for her to bond emotionally with Men. This is why escorts aren't ideal in relationships.
Yo…thanks for the insight. The “Love” word was never mentioned from either one of us!!! Man, I joined Seeking for the first time the beginning of January and pounded “17 girls” by late May…no joke…it was a gold mine…but as I narrowed down, she was the top choice and we saw each other almost exclusively for a while…just didn’t know she was into sex work but agree that her words clearly didn’t have the substance I thought they did. 2 girls out of the 17 did tell me they loved me by the way and were willing to do free dates every other time. Again, this one snuck up on me because it honestly never crossed my mind that she was into sex work. Because I felt something for her…I had to let it go and suck it up…lol
I'm dealing with one now smh. She's right off the boat and we connected and she doesn't charge me for shit. I asked her why n she said she needs money for a lawyer to get her green card to stay in the country. Saw the documents n everything. Trust this shit bothers me everyday. we're texting as I'm writing this too lol smh. It's hard to cut it off. Very nurturing. Nothing like these westernized women. It's not for show. Yes I know they are great actors lol
Don't put the pussy on a pedestal. These girls leave their kids, husbands, families, in China to come here to make money. It's all about the money. I'm not saying don't date a girl, hell I've done that many times. It's nice to go out and have fun, go back to a hotel and fuck all night. But it's not love. You don't love a girl who bangs 8 different guys a day. Your just lonely and need someone who pays attention to you. When your money runs out, see if they run out.
Do this test, tell them you lost your job or you lost money in the stock market or your business is being investigated by the Feds. Then see if she still bangs you for free. If she does, yes she loves you. One girl put it to me best when I asked her why I had to pay her when she says she loves me. She said, does your wife not go out shopping for groceries and clothes? Do you question her when she buys something on Amazon? You still pay for it don't you? So why should I fuck you for free.
Do this test, tell them you lost your job or you lost money in the stock market or your business is being investigated by the Feds. Then see if she still bangs you for free. If she does, yes she loves you. One girl put it to me best when I asked her why I had to pay her when she says she loves me. She said, does your wife not go out shopping for groceries and clothes? Do you question her when she buys something on Amazon? You still pay for it don't you? So why should I fuck you for free.
