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What the hell is wrong with me ? Am I jaded?

Nutopia1

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Sunday afternoon I was sitting by Bethesda Fountain in Central Park and noticed a young asian girl college age sitting next to me. I asked her to take a pic of me and she then asked to take one of her on her phone. We struck up a convo that went very smooth Turns out she's an exchange student from Korea and just finished her one and only semester at NYU. She speaks perfect English and obviously well educated. She looked quite pretty in a GND way. Age 22. We talked about NYC, music ( she once came from Korea to see the Red Hot Chili Peppers for a single concert in NJ , paid by dad), and talked more topics like living in NYC etc. Then we walked around the park watching different performers while enjoying the beautiful day and each others company. I'm thinking to myself that this is incredible , just hanging with a young girl in park something Ive never done.

I asked her to join me for dinner in Little Italy that night and she said sure. So took a taxi to my apt in Murray Hill. By amazing coincidence she is staying in the building right across the street. Told her to meet me in front in 15 min and we'll take a taxi to Little Italy. )

( I'll now distress with some background in me . I'm 68 in a sexless marriage but in my hobby life get plenty of sex between AMP's and NYC students sugar babies etc. Just the night before I had 2 amazing hours with Barbie of AF. I can get it anytime I want as I have the time , money and live in midtown)

So I go to my apt thinking to myself this is almost TGBTT. This amazing girl lives by herself across the street and we are about to have dinner after spending an amazing day together. I grab a few condoms and 50MG of V just incase. I tell myself I need to make a move before or during desert.

We enjoy a great dinner and walk around before going to a cafe. I'm debating in my mind do I make a move or just leave it alone as a good memorable day and be thankful I got to hang out with her. At no point had she given any signals that this can go the next step. My little head prevails. I asked her if I can hold her hand. She got nervous and held out her hand as if to shake mine. Then I asked her if she's ever been with an older man before. She was getting uncomfortable as this seemed to be coming out on nowhere.
Then I said I'd like to take her home and please her..

That did it. She said she had to leave to meet a friend and was gone in a few seconds.

Looking back now it was clear she was just a nice kid who enjoyed hanging out with me . I was a real Ahole to try and transition it to more.
After years of mongering I am jaded I guess .

I texted her to send some pics. No reply .
 

Mike1313

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Ouch! So sorry for the disappointment. I don't think you are jaded as her friendliness, the time she spent with you, the ease of conversation, her accepting your dinner invitation are easy signals to misconstrue. You asked and she answered. I don't think you did anything wrong.
 

Blixen

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I totally relate… remember in Lost in Translation, how Bill Murray actually wants to keep things platonic with Scarlett Johansson, because of the huge age difference (a film made by a woman btw)?
Not me. And probably not at least half of older men, either.

It’s so much better when the girl says ‘no’, but then gives you a chance to redeem yourself, which has happened to me.
Honestly, women can be so stunningly naive about us and our devious natures.

Send her some flowers - you can do it by email or text.
 

markkennedy

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Grandfather used to say, about fishing, "if you put in one line, you may eat tonight, but if you put in a thousand lines, you will eat forever."

For alphas, it never hurts to ask for and discuss what you want. For us, there is always another, there is always more beyond this fishing hole and this fish and this day.

You did totally read it wrong, but of course our hobby does this to our psyche, we see everyone as someone who may allow OTC and if not she will brush it off as boys being boys. That girl probably thought she was going to get roped and murdered lol

Chalk it up to the universe doing its thing, enjoy the memory of a 99% fine day, and have fun tomorrow.
 

SlickWillie5623

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May I ask you an off-topic question? I've recently started taking viagra 50mg, and I've read that I need to take it on an empty stomach and with minimal alcohol for the best effect.

So I noticed you taking it with you to dinner. How do you use it? A light dinner with no drinks? I normally like to indulge myself at dinner with both food and drink and I don't know how to incorporate viagra into this.



Sunday afternoon I was sitting by Bethesda Fountain in Central Park and noticed a young asian girl college age sitting next to me. I asked her to take a pic of me and she then asked to take one of her on her phone. We struck up a convo that went very smooth Turns out she's an exchange student from Korea and just finished her one and only semester at NYU. She speaks perfect English and obviously well educated. She looked quite pretty in a GND way. Age 22. We talked about NYC, music ( she once came from Korea to see the Red Hot Chili Peppers for a single concert in NJ , paid by dad), and talked more topics like living in NYC etc. Then we walked around the park watching different performers while enjoying the beautiful day and each others company. I'm thinking to myself that this is incredible , just hanging with a young girl in park something Ive never done.

I asked her to join me for dinner in Little Italy that night and she said sure. So took a taxi to my apt in Murray Hill. By amazing coincidence she is staying in the building right across the street. Told her to meet me in front in 15 min and we'll take a taxi to Little Italy. )

( I'll now distress with some background in me . I'm 68 in a sexless marriage but in my hobby life get plenty of sex between AMP's and NYC students sugar babies etc. Just the night before I had 2 amazing hours with Barbie of AF. I can get it anytime I want as I have the time , money and live in midtown)

So I go to my apt thinking to myself this is almost TGBTT. This amazing girl lives by herself across the street and we are about to have dinner after spending an amazing day together. I grab a few condoms and 50MG of V just incase. I tell myself I need to make a move before or during desert.

We enjoy a great dinner and walk around before going to a cafe. I'm debating in my mind do I make a move or just leave it alone as a good memorable day and be thankful I got to hang out with her. At no point had she given any signals that this can go the next step. My little head prevails. I asked her if I can hold her hand. She got nervous and held out her hand as if to shake mine. Then I asked her if she's ever been with an older man before. She was getting uncomfortable as this seemed to be coming out on nowhere.
Then I said I'd like to take her home and please her..

That did it. She said she had to leave to meet a friend and was gone in a few seconds.

Looking back now it was clear she was just a nice kid who enjoyed hanging out with me . I was a real Ahole to try and transition it to more.
After years of mongering I am jaded I guess .

I texted her to send some pics. No reply .
 

Elmo3030

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Sunday afternoon I was sitting by Bethesda Fountain in Central Park and noticed a young asian girl college age sitting next to me. I asked her to take a pic of me and she then asked to take one of her on her phone. We struck up a convo that went very smooth Turns out she's an exchange student from Korea and just finished her one and only semester at NYU. She speaks perfect English and obviously well educated. She looked quite pretty in a GND way. Age 22. We talked about NYC, music ( she once came from Korea to see the Red Hot Chili Peppers for a single concert in NJ , paid by dad), and talked more topics like living in NYC etc. Then we walked around the park watching different performers while enjoying the beautiful day and each others company. I'm thinking to myself that this is incredible , just hanging with a young girl in park something Ive never done.

I asked her to join me for dinner in Little Italy that night and she said sure. So took a taxi to my apt in Murray Hill. By amazing coincidence she is staying in the building right across the street. Told her to meet me in front in 15 min and we'll take a taxi to Little Italy. )

( I'll now distress with some background in me . I'm 68 in a sexless marriage but in my hobby life get plenty of sex between AMP's and NYC students sugar babies etc. Just the night before I had 2 amazing hours with Barbie of AF. I can get it anytime I want as I have the time , money and live in midtown)

So I go to my apt thinking to myself this is almost TGBTT. This amazing girl lives by herself across the street and we are about to have dinner after spending an amazing day together. I grab a few condoms and 50MG of V just incase. I tell myself I need to make a move before or during desert.

We enjoy a great dinner and walk around before going to a cafe. I'm debating in my mind do I make a move or just leave it alone as a good memorable day and be thankful I got to hang out with her. At no point had she given any signals that this can go the next step. My little head prevails. I asked her if I can hold her hand. She got nervous and held out her hand as if to shake mine. Then I asked her if she's ever been with an older man before. She was getting uncomfortable as this seemed to be coming out on nowhere.
Then I said I'd like to take her home and please her..

That did it. She said she had to leave to meet a friend and was gone in a few seconds.

Looking back now it was clear she was just a nice kid who enjoyed hanging out with me . I was a real Ahole to try and transition it to more.
After years of mongering I am jaded I guess .

I texted her to send some pics. No reply .

Where does Wifey think you are spending all of this “time” ?
 

Slips1118

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Having the mongering habit definitely changed one’s attitude towards civvies. The whole mindset becomes skewed and this sort of thing happens. It’s like every girl seems like a provider
I actually have the opposite mindset since I started mongering. I rarely view civis as prospects, everything feels platonic no matter who I meet. I've had the opposite issue where someone I thought I was just hanging out with as friends got the impression that I wanted more. I was dumbfounded when she tried to advance things and it was because I had zero attraction to her physically and I had made no indication that I wanted more. She was great to hang out with but I'm so use to 20-30 something curvy bombshells, model/IG and pixie amp types, it's hard for me to consider the average civi sexually attractive.
 
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