Would you ever let a guy blow you?

[Retired030724]

I’m sorry, but this is delusional and it completely contradicts what you said earlier in the same post about having come to accept your sexual orientation. If you can derive sexual pleasure to any degree from a man (knowing it’s a man), that means you’re bisexual and there’s no way around that, by “simple” definition. That’s perfectly fine and I couldn’t care less what anybody’s sexual orientation is; but you are most definitely bisexual.

Trust me that completely straight men cannot enjoy any kind of sexual contact with other men, no matter how handsome or skilled they might be, since they own the same equipment. It’s got nothing to do with what it might “feel” like and I have no doubt that most gay men probably give head as well as any woman. Doesn’t matter at all what it might “feel” like since a mouth and tongue is a mouth and tongue, regardless of whose mouth it is. Anybody who is anything other than 100% heterosexual couldn’t ever know this, which is also the reason you could make that argument and it’s why so many bisexuals experience “confusion” in relation to their sexual preference at some point in life. Any man who could ever get hard or (especially) bust a nut from another man’s touch is something other than 100% straight.

Likewise, your “lines” distinguishing receptive anal sex from insertive anal sex are irrelevant except as they define what you might and might not be interested in doing. .Just as many (if not more) bisexual guys would draw their “line” exactly opposite, because it’s not about “lines” as though there’s some universal scale of gay acts. Genuinely (completely) heterosexual males would be creeped the fuck out at the thought of doing anything sexual with another man, whether holding hands, kissing, or fucking. What specific sexual acts you’d be open to and what specific acts you’d refrain from with another guy is totally irrelevant to the issue and requires no explanation. You just enjoy your life and your sex and do you and don’t worry about “definitions.” There’s no specific sexual act that makes someone bisexual, but if you can derive sexual pleasure from any sexual act with someone of the same gender, you’re bisexual, by definition. That’s fine.

As I said earlier in this thread, I’m not the least bit homophobic and I’d probably let a guy blow me or blow another dude for enough money, because I’m totally secure in my masculinity and in my heterosexuality, and it would be just doing something that I found completely disgusting for enough (life-changing) money, just like eating a plate of shit. I think any straight guy would say the same if he’s (1) being totally honest, and (2) not afraid it “means” he’s gay. Much more importantly, as it relates specifically to your argument, you could give me (literally) a billion dollars and I’d still be unable to get hard blowing a dude or get hard myself with another dude blowing me, because I genuinely consider any kind of sexual contact with any man disgusting, just as I’m disgusted by the thought of eating a live giant water bug.

I will keep this simple. YOU ARE WRONG. Get over it.

 

[PorterD]

I think zippy is too hung up on putting labels on things. I don’t think it matters. Sexuality can be complex.

Like since I’m apparently “bi” most would think I’m some dude who is liberal and flys a rainbow flag. When I’m literally the exact opposite. Once you start with preconceived notions about sexuality; things start to be wrong.

 

[calr2112]

the lady boys in Thailand are very confusing, better looking the real woman, but I still pass.

 

[RubberDuck360]

To this day, my advice for 17 year old kid who can't get laid is "if you're decent in sports, then sign up for ballet lessons")

This makes me curious.

Literally ballet? Or figuratively?

Do tell, how does this work to cause girls to want sex?

 

[markkennedy]

This makes me curious.

Literally ballet? Or figuratively?

Do tell, how does this work to cause girls to want sex?

If the boys my daughters were stuck with in school were any indication, maybe chicks dig dudes who dress up like girls? Skinny jeans lmao

 

[Zippy17]

This makes me curious. Literally ballet? Or figuratively? Do tell, how does this work to cause girls to want sex?

I think he meant it literally. My first GF was a ballet dancer who lived in my building and whose mother ran a ballet school out of one of the rental community rooms in the building. Her mom convinced my best childhood friend to do it when we were around 8 or 9 and throughout high school, it was just him and a roomfull of girls, all (of us, at the time) teenagers in the sexual exploration stage. In high school, he became very awkward socially and sort of a math dweeb, so he never got laid, but he was always surrounded by (and had his hands al; over) cute girls dressed in tights and leotards...so he was jerking off like 4 times a day. A more normal male teenager with any kind of rapport with girls and a decent personality would have his pick and, probably, could mess around with a lot of hot girls through ballet. My first GF was a year younger than me and the queen bee of the whole company and hot AF; so I managed to reap all the benefits he missed out on without having to dance around in fucking tights and shit. She was Greek, but probably set the template for what became my physical type: petite, muscular legs, bomb calves, and pin-straight black hair down past her ass. Her mother tried to recruit me, too, because I was athletic and have long legs (and because she'd have been better able to keep her eye on us). I told her that if I wanted to get my ass kicked, I could just take tuba lessons and get on the subway with it. The downside is that your son will definitely experience some bullying for doing ballet, but if he's not the type to get bullied, it's an incredible environment for a teenage boy. I just got lucky and managed to get all the benefits that my friend missed out on, but without actually having to do any of that shit, myself.

 

[acheron72]

Sometimes, when I'm wanking off, I wonder what it would be like to suck my own dick. Does that count?

 

[acheron72]

I think he meant it literally. My first GF was a ballet dancer who lived in my building and whose mother ran a ballet school out of one of the rental community rooms in the building. Her mom convinced my best childhood friend to do it when we were around 8 or 9 and throughout high school, it was just him and a roomfull of girls, all (of us, at the time) teenagers in the sexual exploration stage. In high school, he became very awkward socially and sort of a math dweeb, so he never got laid, but he was always surrounded by (and had his hands al; over) cute girls dressed in tights and leotards...so he was jerking off like 4 times a day. A more normal male teenager with any kind of rapport with girls and a decent personality would have his pick and, probably, could mess around with a lot of hot girls through ballet. My first GF was a year younger than me and the queen bee of the whole company and hot AF; so I managed to reap all the benefits he missed out on without having to dance around in fucking tights and shit. She was Greek, but probably set the template for what became my physical type: petite, muscular legs, bomb calves, and pin-straight black hair down past her ass. Her mother tried to recruit me, too, because I was athletic and have long legs (and because she'd have been better able to keep her eye on us). I told her that if I wanted to get my ass kicked, I could just take tuba lessons and get on the subway with it. The downside is that your son will definitely experience some bullying for doing ballet, but if he's not the type to get bullied, it's an incredible environment for a teenage boy. I just got lucky and managed to get all the benefits that my friend missed out on, but without actually having to do any of that shit, myself.

I went to dance class for a time and was actually good at it. Banged so many of the girls there. Good times!

 

[Zippy17]

I went to dance class for a time and was actually good at it. Banged so many of the girls there. Good times!

I wish I didn’t fucking hate dancing so much, because that’s pretty much always been one of the easiest ways to get laid. I know a dude who’s average-looking, at best, who gets laid like crazy. I never saw what kind of women he’s meeting, but dude goes on cruises by himself several times a year and always hooks up, just by dancing. He’s not even a particularly
good dancer, but he’s comfortable with it and he says that women looking to dance outnumber guys looking to dance two or three to one. Hooking up like that doesn’t even raise any ethical issues — for those of us who care about that shit and don’t think it’s cool to “work” women to get them to like us just to fuck them a few times and move on — because it’s almost completely based on attraction and physical chemistry. For regular guys, there are very few, if any other environments where you can just go into a place looking to get laid and actually do that with relative success and without having to pretend that you want “more” than sex. Always been very jealous of those guys but I hate fucking dancing and I hate pretending to like some shit I really hate even more.

 

[BonerMaloney]

he's not the type to get bullied

This is key. It's why I qualified it with "good at sports"

 

[BonerMaloney]

dancing ... pretty much always been one of the easiest ways to get laid.

One thing though. Like everywhere else, if you're desperate, have no social skills at all, and lack any confidence, they can smell it on you, it's as bad as bad breath, and they will shoot you down.


I had no idea how true it is even regular dancing, until one day my ex-wife & I took up a certain kind of dancing. When we went to an event, random chicks were coming up to me and asking just if I knew how to dance that dance. The look of venom on my wife's face did not pop the thought bubble above my head that read "Wow, so many hot-babes. Some are even flirting. With my wife right there in front of them. All just because I *might* know how to dance?? I'm making a note of this!"

 

[Zippy17]

Yeah. A kid who might add ballet to other sports vs. picking up ballet instead of sports is a big distinction in his favor. My childhood friend developed into sort of a dork, so with ballet, he was just a dork in tights. Take a kid who plays football or basketball and stick him in tights with his main role being to put has hands around girls' waists to lift them up and ballet could be the best choice he ever made. I'd bet some of those fruity-looking male cheerleaders doing the same at college games get more pussy than most of the players...and while football players are hanging out "with the boys" drinking in fraternities, the male cheerleaders are hanging out pretty much 24/7 with some of the hottest girls on campus with a license for a shit ton of physical contact while they're in outfits that some of us pay girls to wear for us.

One thing though. Like everywhere else, if you're desperate, have no social skills at all, and lack any confidence, they can smell it on you, it's as bad as bad breath, and they will shoot you down.

Yeah and the converse is equally true: That's why you never get more interest from women without trying as when you're genuinely not available and not on the prowl. That becomes a challenge to them, because every other guy is eying them like meat.

 

[BonerMaloney]

you never get more interest from women without trying as when you're genuinely not available

So true, especially when you are in a setting that turns them on. Like way more shocking even to me than the dancing, was when I would be carrying my 6 month old son around on my shoulder in the "burp position" just hanging out at the park or at a street fair, nothing was more intense than the steam coming off the hot women who would come up to me to tell me how cute he was, using that as their entrée to flirt shamelessly. They were just smoldering, you could almost hear the moisture in their pussies gurgling. (Of course it was like dangling the best chocolate cake ever in front of a diabetic)

 

[VJLUTZ]

So true, especially when you are in a setting that turns them on. Like way more shocking even to me than the dancing, was when I would be carrying my 6 month old son around on my shoulder in the "burp position" just hanging out at the park or at a street fair, nothing was more intense than the steam coming off the hot women who would come up to me to tell me how cute he was, using that as their entrée to flirt shamelessly. They were just smoldering, you could almost hear the moisture in their pussies gurgling. (Of course it was like dangling the best chocolate cake ever in front of a diabetic)

I had a similar experience. Unless you are rubbing their pussy or tits, not many things arouse them more than proof you are capable of producing a healthy, beautiful child.

 

[Johnnylovesmassages]

Sometimes, when I'm wanking off, I wonder what it would be like to suck my own dick. Does that count?

I have had dreams where I actually do it and its great, but then wake up and day "dasm!!!" I think that would actually be kind of neat.

 

[Sintax]

I have had dreams where I actually do it and its great, but then wake up and day "dasm!!!" I think that would actually be kind of neat.

There’s a movie call “Short Bus” where someone actually does it. On film.

 

[MoreAl]

I have had dreams where I actually do it and its great, but then wake up and day "dasm!!!" I think that would actually be kind of neat.

In your dream do you find that there is less clean up? Brush your teeth and go. Makes sense to me.

 

[BonerMaloney]

There at least one scene where Ron Jeremy does it.

 

[PhillyJimi]

Hey! Wait a minute! I need to check something.…
did you use a flashlight or it was enough light in the room?

I actually did have her flip around so I could see better with the light. She has a very small top so I was kind of nervous. But there was no signs of a post-op scars or anything like that. Def all woman. Maybe in a previous, life she was a gay hooker but I wasn't going to hold that against her.

 

[Koujiao]

I actually did have her flip around so I could see better with the light. She has a very small top so I was kind of nervous. But there was no signs of a post-op scars or anything like that. Def all woman. Maybe in a previous, life she was a gay hooker but I wasn't going to hold that against her.

You may find this a bit troubling to learn that the surgeons are pretty good and you may not know. Post op scars can be well hidden and with certain suture patterns, can be nearly invisible. And if you did see a scar, it could easily be the remnants of a episiotomy.