never did it, but was offered once at a massage place out of state and was offered a few times by strippers that i had seen on a regular basis, never took them up on it, they also said it would be an extra tip if we did do it, so kind of agree that I think this is offered a lot more than we talk about. Think guys don't bring it up becasue of the judgment from the community that can happen and also some want to keep their "special gal" to themselves.