Honestly, I'd rather save the cash than visit AMPs as much as I do. But I have no sex life at home. The issues started after kid #1 was born and although I knew things would change, I didn't think I'd be able to count on one hand how many times the wife and I had sex in a year and still have fingers left over. When we decided to have kid #2, we had sex every day for a week and then she got pregnant. After that, nothing, nada, zilch. I think we had sex maybe three times last year with the last time being about five months ago and each time I have to initiate it.
I've tried having the talk with her but she'll ignore it or try to change the subject. She's obviously not comfortable talking about. Got to the point where I just wanted to say, "well, look, if you're not going to have sex with me, I'll get it elsewhere" but thankfully decided against it.
This past Christmas, I tried giving her the hint by getting her some nice sexy but classy lingerie. She hasn't even taken it out of the box yet.
I'm in my early 40s. I can't go the rest of my life like this. Outside of the lack of sex, she's a great wife and mother to our children. I often wonder what would happen if she found out I visit AMPs, but really, what does she expect me to do? Anyone else end up this hobby because of a similar situation?
I've tried having the talk with her but she'll ignore it or try to change the subject. She's obviously not comfortable talking about. Got to the point where I just wanted to say, "well, look, if you're not going to have sex with me, I'll get it elsewhere" but thankfully decided against it.
This past Christmas, I tried giving her the hint by getting her some nice sexy but classy lingerie. She hasn't even taken it out of the box yet.
I'm in my early 40s. I can't go the rest of my life like this. Outside of the lack of sex, she's a great wife and mother to our children. I often wonder what would happen if she found out I visit AMPs, but really, what does she expect me to do? Anyone else end up this hobby because of a similar situation?