Who Makes The First Move?

[alwayshorny81]

Just curious once you are on the massage table and she's going through the motions, do you slyly reach and grab her butt and say "Do you mind if I do this" or do you just softly touch and or caress it and see what her reaction is?
Or if your at a new place where your gauging the mood and play it safe and wait for her touch your sack and then you let your hands roam? Thing is if they are regularly dressed you just don't know if it's a legit place UNTIL they tease you or by the time your waiting you have already had a legit massage and out 50 dollars..
I remember there was a thread about this sort of thing but I don't remember the title or the keywords to type in..it's frustrating not knowing. Which is why I know I should stick to known places but variety is the spice of life. Discuss.

 

[Odysseus1776]

If you lay down uncovered, that's basically the first move. If they don't start teasing you when they get to your legs, or if they don't ask you what you want after the flip, then you know it's a legit place. Starting off uncovered is the signal they all know. There is no need for you to start touching her first unless that's a thing you like to do and don't mind potentially pissing them off if it's a legit place.

 

[Freedom1999]

Just curious once you are on the massage table and she's going through the motions, do you slyly reach and grab her butt and say "Do you mind if I do this" or do you just softly touch and or caress it and see what her reaction is?
Or if your at a new place where your gauging the mood and play it safe and wait for her touch your sack and then you let your hands roam? Thing is if they are regularly dressed you just don't know if it's a legit place UNTIL they tease you or by the time your waiting you have already had a legit massage and out 50 dollars..
I remember there was a thread about this sort of thing but I don't remember the title or the keywords to type in..it's frustrating not knowing. Which is why I know I should stick to known places but variety is the spice of life. Discuss.

You are also going to know simply by walking into the place. The "legit" place is going to a little "prettier" so to speak. The first thing that tells me that the place is offering is dust on the decorative fixtures...if there are any. That tells me they don't care about their front appearance because it's what's in the back that matters. Also, the person in the front will rush you through everything to get you moved to the room. That's when you know you just lay down naked as a jay bird on the table.

 

[alwayshorny81]

The San Leandro Health Center on Hesperian has a well kept front lobby room, so does the Unee in Hayward, the latter place isn't locked so if I was a newbie I wouldn't know it's not legit and even a locked entrance doesn't mean anything.

 

[alwayshorny81]

If you lay down uncovered, that's basically the first move. If they don't start teasing you when they get to your legs, or if they don't ask you what you want after the flip, then you know it's a legit place. Starting off uncovered is the signal they all know. There is no need for you to start touching her first unless that's a thing you like to do and don't mind potentially pissing them off if it's a legit place.

Your talking about not having a towel to cover up your below region once your on the table?
And yeah if I did sense that they were annoyed or something I just go with "in my culture that's how we say hello"

 

[Odysseus1776]

Your talking about not having a towel to cover up your below region once your on the table?

There is always a folded towel or sheet on the table when you first enter the room but unless the person says to put it over yourself after you lie down, you're under no obligation to do so and can feign ignorance if they ask you later why you didn't.

And yeah if I did sense that they were annoyed or something I just go with "in my culture that's how we say hello"

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[LoveYouShortTime]

My hard dick makes the first move once she sees it. That communication never fails.

 

[Mr.Mistry]

Just curious once you are on the massage table and she's going through the motions, do you slyly reach and grab her butt and say "Do you mind if I do this" or do you just softly touch and or caress it and see what her reaction is?
Or if your at a new place where your gauging the mood and play it safe and wait for her touch your sack and then you let your hands roam? Thing is if they are regularly dressed you just don't know if it's a legit place UNTIL they tease you or by the time your waiting you have already had a legit massage and out 50 dollars..
I remember there was a thread about this sort of thing but I don't remember the title or the keywords to type in..it's frustrating not knowing. Which is why I know I should stick to known places but variety is the spice of life. Discuss.

fingers exploring inner thighs as high as clothing allows. If no negative reaction keep it up.

 

[ftse]

You’ll also know when they bump up against you as you’re faced down. Legits masseuses are trained to use only hands. Any other body to body contact is a no no.

Get a pussy bump up against your elbow a few times and you’ll know it’s game on.

 

[Francoislegrand]

So I never put my face in that fucking hole. If they laugh while I look them over, it’s game on. If they come stand by my head and put their pussy next to my face where I can kiss it, it’s a FS experience otw.

 

[alwayshorny81]

Yeah I have done that if they have a skirt or dress that's easy to raise up their leg I just non chalantly expose their panties or bush while on the table. If they ignore me I keep pushing the envelope like a high school guy trying to reach first base. Now if they wear sweat pants I just slowly pull it down though most of the time they protest. Whereas I try and grab their nipples if it looks like I'll have difficulty with their pants to gauge their reaction.

 

[Handsfree]

Just curious once you are on the massage table and she's going through the motions, do you slyly reach and grab her butt and say "Do you mind if I do this" or do you just softly touch and or caress it and see what her reaction is?
Or if your at a new place where your gauging the mood and play it safe and wait for her touch your sack and then you let your hands roam? Thing is if they are regularly dressed you just don't know if it's a legit place UNTIL they tease you or by the time your waiting you have already had a legit massage and out 50 dollars..
I remember there was a thread about this sort of thing but I don't remember the title or the keywords to type in..it's frustrating not knowing. Which is why I know I should stick to known places but variety is the spice of life. Discuss.

I just lay down with towel on the cheeks. Chat it up a bit, get quiet and wait for her signal. It comes while either face down with her exploring between the legs or face up with her ‘accidentally’ grazing my parts. Then negotiations. I wait because I’ll occasionally get a good amount of foreplay which is part of the AMP attraction. I once got a face up totally nude body stroke oil massage at Pearl Massage in Union City with her grazing my cock once and a while. Almost came wo any other help.

 

[jobh1]

I'm a super beta noob but I assume they're working at these places for the extras money so if they offer any service at all, they're going to initiate. The chest on my head or a knee between my legs is an appreciated hint until they do.
One time she came back into the room so fast I still had hadn't peeled of my underwear so I just laid on the table that way. Before the flip she pulled them off without asking, nothing subtle about that.
As opposed to getting handsy early, I have a delusional fantasy that they're wondering why I'm not trying something, that maybe I'm disappointed with them, so they're building up a little motivation to prove me wrong. A junior high level gamesmanship delusion.

Unrelated, had a blood draw once where the technician stood over my knee, practically broiling my kneecap through her yoga pants while waiting for the tubes to fill. I bet she teased like that all day to keep the job interesting.