I guess it depends on your definition of "been with". HJ, I've lost count (but likely 150-175). BJ, slightly over 100 (and overlaps some with HJs). FS, just about 80, of which ~30 of those were uncompensated (civvies + pros who gave it up for free outside the spa). But until 7 years ago, the FS number was 20 (and had been for decades).
Honestly, if I died tomorrow, I'd be satisfied with those numbers. I feel like my sex memory banks are pretty well fleshed out at this point. I can rely on actual memories, not just porn, to get myself off. If I can get over 100, I'll die with a big smile on my face. Before CV-19, I had dreams of getting to 200; now, WTF knows.
The other thing is that while sex is certainly fun & my favorite activity, the best experiences (for me) are the ones where you get women into bed with your own skill & charm, without resorting to $$. It's those encounters that I'll remember most & best. In fact, most of the paid encounters just seem to run together (though there are some notable, mind-blowing exceptions). Like some, I do keep a log (and also a WeChat/KKTalk library of memorable exchanges, pics & videos). Without those things, I'd have trouble remembering a lot of the specifics.