They have many different lives and many layers to each of their lives. So much of who they are is hidden. Even if you see her out of the spa, meet her fiends and family and spend extended time with them, there is much you don’t see. Even if you do see something and it causes you to pause, it is often quickly dismissed. Perhaps not always poisonous but certainly toxic. But, it sure is fun running the gamut of emotions.
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What you do when you fall in love with massage girl
- Thread starter kgmspa
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Maybe I've been fortunate, but every time I've fallen, they either return the energy or offer new avenues to express ourselves. For those didn't leave the spa, it became more intimate within the 1 hour timeframe (give or take a few minutes), accompanied with WeChat at other times. For those who met outside, it became visits to their homes or vacations with me. For some, I followed them around the region until it got old (why drive 1-2 hours when there is adequate service within 20 minutes?). And lastly some pulled away, sparing the embarrassment of future entanglements.
I've heard some terrible stories out there that I do not wish on my worst enemy! I'd agree that some of these ladies lead very complex lives. It is hard for me to be angry or cynical that they have children, husbands, boyfriends, and sometimes all of the above. Some of us lead complicated lives, too!
I've heard some terrible stories out there that I do not wish on my worst enemy! I'd agree that some of these ladies lead very complex lives. It is hard for me to be angry or cynical that they have children, husbands, boyfriends, and sometimes all of the above. Some of us lead complicated lives, too!
I have a difficult time understanding them. We all know they talk among themselves. I have been seeing a HE provider for several years. We both have feelings for each other. But, her friend saw me at dinner with another friend and told her about it. My HE provider friend went balistic. Must be a face thing. Anyway, we just had a great weekend, saw her during the week and then she blows up on me. I told her it was only dinner and there were 2 others there. The one I was having dinner with, works out of state and we get together with her friends when she comes to town. I just don’t get it. Especially since I know my HE provider works FS out of state. She tells me the most she does is HE and that is only occasionally.
I keep my work life and play life pretty separate--in my line of work my reputation for being honest/blunt/objective is EVERYTHING. Generally I tell them I am flattered, but any feedback to their boss will be honest, and not colored by their offer. Several of these women have actually been very good at their job, and I did give good words to their bosses at the end. Some of the women found out, and some of them did offer to keep their end of the bargain. If I expected there would be more work with that client I would politely decline. If I didn't expect any further business, I would often but not always take them up on it.
Her angry reaction is your opportunity to level up with her, she now has to extend her menu to you to justify her reaction, anybody understand what I’m talking about has experienced first hand a pissed provider. Realize she’s hurt by what was reported to her, she considered herself special. Stick with your usual he or opt her for bbfs or bbbj for her to save face.
It’s the Proverbial battle for relationship control, it’s a wicked game they/we play. I learned early on, even before SH membership vía my then ATF, she threatened to cut me off if I indulged another girl in same shop, I was new to the hobby yet not new to games women play, I called her bluff, only saw her a couple more times after that, when she once again tried to play the control game, she went off as I sat listening to her money rant, a few minutes later I bounced, no session no Hf, just bye.