They are feminine (vs. being feminist). Sadly, tooo many American women have forgotten how to be feminine; or even think "feminine" is a dirty word. And, unlike American women, they take care of themselves. A 40 y/o Asian women usually looks 5-10 years younger than she really is; in contrast, most 40 y/o American women look 5-10 years older than they really are. I never saw a native East Asian woman yet who looked like a butch dyke.
Lastly, I can't even count on one hand the number of American women that would put on my socks and shoes for me. Even if I asked them to.