Most of on here are very sexually driven. What would you do if your wife was shyly receptive to the idea of expanding your sex lives in some way ? For me it would probably be baby steps like meeting another couple in a nice setting for laughter, drinks and flirting and then retreating to the hotel room for hot sex with our respective wives. Many people consider my middle aged shy wife very hot in an adorable way and our sex life is very good if that makes any difference.