Went for massage with my s/o,and...

[Camaro13]

...we have been going to this place on the Upper East Side (NYC) for a few years now. The two of them are great- we leave there feeling like brand new money.
Both of us are in the same room. We have the same two therapists every time.
The girl who massages me texts me "Happy 4th Of July are you coming this weekend" - like that.
When we went on Saturday, my girl kept brushing up against my balls while doing my legs (face down). I certainly wasn't sopping her, but I would never go back alone for obvious reasons.
Anyone else ever experience this?
If so, where did you go with it??
I ended up at my regular spot thinking about her LOL

 

[Chc5]

By you saying "my girl" do you mean your s/o or your masseuse? I assume you mean the masseuse... I suppose it all depends on how your s/o would react to knowing thats happening right next to her...

 

[Chc5]

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[Camaro13]

By you saying "my girl" do you mean your s/o or your masseuse? I assume you mean the masseuse... I suppose it all depends on how your s/o would react to knowing thats happening right next to her...

The Masseuse was brushing the boys- my s/o would not react well at all!

 

[Chc5]

Well then id suggest you dont go back.

 

[Camaro13]

Don't go back (with the wife) is rough- she gives a great massage, and what do I tell her is the reason we aren't returning?

 

[L8yPleaser]

The Masseuse was brushing the boys- my s/o would not react well at all!

From your post it seems your spa girl waas interested in seeing you alone (not with your s/o), and also that you later went to your "regular spot thinking about her." Obviously you do have some interest in taking things further with your spa girl.

So you have to ask yourself a few questions. First, does your s/o know you go to another spa for other activities? Would you be interested in either visiting without your s/o (which, admittedly, could be awkward at your next couples visit) or meeting outside the spa?

Going off in a different direction, how do you feel about asking your s/o if her spa girl has made any advances? That discussion could go in a lot of different directions, so you need to think hard about how you will respond (admit to), depending on her reaction especially if starts to suspect that either your spa girl has made a move on you, or your are indulging elsewhere.

Just some things to think about - could be great or not so much.

Good luck!

 

[Chc5]

Don't go back (with the wife) is rough- she gives a great massage, and what do I tell her is the reason we aren't returning?

As L8ypleaser said. Maybe go and see her on your own and after the session you hope it will be ask her to be legit when your with you s/o. I would think shed understand.... And depending on how your visit went you could maybe ask her to have the other masseuse flirt with your s/o to see what happens... all your problems could be solved lol

Good luck brother

 

[Spa1123]

I would just continue to go and quietly "suffer through" (translate: enjoy) the ball-brushing. Your masseuse is not going to escalate the contact on her own; not with your wife just a few feet away. And you said you enjoy her TM. Anything else you do to change things up will introduce a fair amount of risk as far as your relationship with your SO is concerned.

 

[Camaro13]

So you have to ask yourself a few questions. First, does youther spa for other activities?

Noooo.
My concern is if I go back alone, will I get blown up either by the girl not playing it cool enough when I return with my wife or worse being jealous of my wife's position and outright telling her.

"Just because you're paranoid don't mean they're not after you"
-Kurt Cobain

 

[mccovey]

Camaro13 , this is one of the greatest fantasies I could imagine . Go again to see if she brushes the sack again . She is probably kinky as hell and is getting off on it . I look for porn like this and you are living it . See how it develops and take it from there . When you go back just imagine that it didn’t happen . See if she touches junior

 

[sushiman]

You know the saying "Don't shit where you eat"? Go live your fantasy away from this place. Even if your masseuse was cool about it, it's the other massage girls who may see it, not know anything about the couples sessions you have and make a statement in front of your S/O you would regret for the rest of your life!

 

[Camaro13]

Thank you, everyone, for your input. Even if risk is low, its still a risk- and I can not risk it...

 

[Chc5]

Thank you, everyone, for your input. Even if risk is low, its still a risk- and I can not risk it...

You know, you're probably absolutely right. Unless you knew your s/o would be cool with it. Its not worth potentially ruining a relationship.

 

[SingleMalt]

I’ve experienced this a few times in legitimate spas during a massage. It’s awkward but I’m in a situation where it’s okay to step out. I’ve allowed it move forward in the past. It’s the fantasy more than the girl in that situation.

 

[charliebrown]

never went to a spa with my SO. She does not like massages and I am fine with going twice every week instead of once a week
As for a provider inappropriately touching me. I honestly did not know there was any such thing as in appropriate touching.

 

[The4realOg]

Where is this place?

 

[Camaro13]

93rd & 2nd