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Ampaddict32

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I’ve been seeing this AMP girl for a 2-3 years. Usually I hand over my $200, we fuck, chat about her life, and then I leave. We’ll WeChat sometimes and it’s turned into a grey area between customer and friendship.

A week ago, we were texting and I was bored home alone. Eventually I asked her to come over and to my surprise she said yes. She came over, we hooked up (in a totally different manner/feel than the AMP), and she left in the morning. I was wondering if I should tip her but let it play out. she said nothing and left without the tip.

During the week, I went to see her at my usual time and we did the thing, and I tipped her. She accepted the tip and it felt very normal.

Last night, I asked her to come over again, and we hooked up and no tip.

I’ve dated RA’s before outside of work but never had a fuckbuddy relationship that seems to depend on where we fuck? Have I stumbled onto the holy grail? Having mongered for so long, I’m just waiting for the other shoe to drop but so far nothing.

If any bros on this forum have had this happen, would love to hear your thoughts.
 
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1mp3rm

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Ampaddict32 said:
I’ve been seeing this AMP girl for a 2-3 years. Usually I hand over my $200, we fuck, chat about her life, and then I leave. We’ll WeChat sometimes and it’s turned into a grey area between customer and friendship.

A week ago, we were texting and I was bored home alone. Eventually I asked her to come over and to my surprise she said yes. She came over, we hooked up (in a totally different manner/feel than the AMP), and she left in the morning. I was wondering if I should tip her but let it play out. she said nothing and left without the tip.

During the week, I went to see her at my usual time and we did the thing, and I tipped her. She accepted the tip and it felt very normal.

Last night, I asked her to come over again, and we hooked up and no tip.

I’ve dated RA’s before outside of work but never had a fuckbuddy relationship that seems to depend on where we fuck? Have I stumbled onto the holy grail? Having mongered for so long, I’m just waiting for the other shoe to drop but so far nothing.

If any bros on this forum have had this happen, would love to hear your thoughts.
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I haven't been in the hobby for a long time, but at most, I'll sleep over. You actually have a girl coming over to your place? That's actually amazing. Are you packing?
 
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Ampaddict32

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Shadyhexum said:
Would not tip outside work. That raises the question- What is the point of seeing her at work still? Just do the FWB thing?
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That’s pretty usual - she’ll text me that she’s horny or I’ll need it and I’ll go see her. This last time was different since I wasn’t sure if I should still tip or if we had entered a new stage. I did it because I felt bad that I took her time when she could have seen someone else. I’m not planning to see her at work this week and will see if she says anything
 
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Ampaddict32

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1mp3rm said:
I haven't been in the hobby for a long time, but at most, I'll sleep over. You actually have a girl coming over to your place? That's actually amazing. Are you packing?
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Haha no, average sized. This is why I had to post, I don’t know what to do with myself. Despite being friends with her, it’s still usually transactional given the line of work she’s in. So far, no strings attached sex where we both want nothing. Too good to be true
 
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snowrunner

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Ampaddict32 said:
That’s pretty usual - she’ll text me that she’s horny or I’ll need it and I’ll go see her. This last time was different since I wasn’t sure if I should still tip or if we had entered a new stage. I did it because I felt bad that I took her time when she could have seen someone else. I’m not planning to see her at work this week and will see if she says anything
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I think you should give her donation as long as you are seeing her at her place during work hours. No need for donation if it is outside her work hours -- no matter the location -- but you could always do something nice for her or give her a small gift every now and again just to show your appreciation.

Also, if you have a regular schedule seeing her (and giving her donation) I would keep to that schedule. Just because she is ok with fwb sex with you sometimes doesn't mean she is ok with only giving you free sex. Also depends on how busy she is -- she may actually depend on your regular visits for her income if she isn't one of more popular girls.

Take my advice with a grain of salt -- I am obviously not witnessing your dynamic with her first hand. :)
 
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Ampaddict32

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snowrunner said:
I think you should give her donation as long as you are seeing her at her place during work hours. No need for donation if it is outside her work hours -- no matter the location -- but you could always do something nice for her or give her a small gift every now and again just to show your appreciation.

Also, if you have a regular schedule seeing her (and giving her donation) I would keep to that schedule. Just because she is ok with fwb sex with you sometimes doesn't mean she is ok with only giving you free sex. Also depends on how busy she is -- she may actually depend on your regular visits for her income if she isn't one of more popular girls.

Take my advice with a grain of salt -- I am obviously not witnessing your dynamic with her first hand. :)
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Totally with you - I think that’s my plan going forward. I’ll see her where I see her and will tip her accordingly. Keep it to zero expectations and no strings even if inevitably there will be at some point.
 
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Aznlooker

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Been there my advice.

It's like surfing, if the waves are good keep going.

Don't do anything to screw if up. If she says or does something dumb let it go. Unless it is a big thing.
Avoid arguments/fighting.
And ride it for as long as you can. If it ends with you doing something stupid you'll regret it.

I mean let's face it we aren't perfect and these girls aren't either, some of you guys put them on pedestals, but in the end they all have their issues too.
But we are all human beings and sometimes we want company.
Enjoy it, don't worry too much and don't let your ego get in the way.
Stay safe
 
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snowrunner

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Ampaddict32 said:
Totally with you - I think that’s my plan going forward. I’ll see her where I see her and will tip her accordingly. Keep it to zero expectations and no strings even if inevitably there will be at some point.
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I was also thinking that maybe part of the reason why she enjoys being with you OUTSIDE of work is that she really appreciates seeing you DURING work, and your paid sessions make her happy because she knows she will be spending that "working" hour with someone she LIKES rather than with a stranger she "tolerates" (for lack of a better word). And you can think of it as she is showing her appreciation with a 2-for-1 or 3-for-2 or whatever you've been doing.

My ATF used to arrange her schedule so that I would be her first client after coming back to work from her monthly break. She said it was easier for her to get back into the swing of things with someone she knew and was comfortable with and had a fun time fooling around with. It's not the easiest job, so anything a client can do that makes it better for the provider is usually appreciated.

Have fun, and I hope things continue positively for the two of you!
 
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Shadyhexum

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Ampaddict32 said:
I’ve been seeing this AMP girl for a 2-3 years. Usually I hand over my $200, we fuck, chat about her life, and then I leave. We’ll WeChat sometimes and it’s turned into a grey area between customer and friendship.

A week ago, we were texting and I was bored home alone. Eventually I asked her to come over and to my surprise she said yes. She came over, we hooked up (in a totally different manner/feel than the AMP), and she left in the morning. I was wondering if I should tip her but let it play out. she said nothing and left without the tip.

During the week, I went to see her at my usual time and we did the thing, and I tipped her. She accepted the tip and it felt very normal.

Last night, I asked her to come over again, and we hooked up and no tip.

I’ve dated RA’s before outside of work but never had a fuckbuddy relationship that seems to depend on where we fuck? Have I stumbled onto the holy grail? Having mongered for so long, I’m just waiting for the other shoe to drop but so far nothing.

If any bros on this forum have had this happen, would love to hear your thoughts.
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BBFS? Or still only CFS? Lol
 
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